Is leaving home a solution to all the problems - Page 2

No.. leaving home is not an option or solution.. threatening to do so is blackmailing n dominating the other person

I feel its more important to look at the reason behind leaving home. Yes Naina is also wrong by being too stingy but Sameer is more at fault here. His frustration from professional matters is making him burst his anger on Naina and since Jaimala she has been handling his taunts. But in the past few epis its been too much. Especially yesterday Sameer was too disrespectful towards Naina. Him questioning her upbringing and taunting her money saving nature when all she wants to do is give him a balanced and disciplined life. Its not about ego or stubbornness here. What self respecting girl would want to stay in a house that has been declared as not her's by her husband who has constantly made her feel unwanted? Naina is not trying to manipulate or dominate Sameer, she is far too hurt by his words to do this. The step she has taken is for her self-respect and its something I too would have done. Love is important but its not at the cost of your own respect.

Originally posted by: IamIbe

I feel its more important to look at the reason behind leaving home. Yes Naina is also wrong by being too stingy but Sameer is more at fault here. His frustration from professional matters is making him burst his anger on Naina and since Jaimala she has been handling his taunts. But in the past few epis its been too much. Especially yesterday Sameer was too disrespectful towards Naina. Him questioning her upbringing and taunting her money saving nature when all she wants to do is give him a balanced and disciplined life. Its not about ego or stubbornness here. What self respecting girl would want to stay in a house that has been declared as not her's by her husband who has constantly made her feel unwanted? Naina is not trying to manipulate or dominate Sameer, she is far too hurt by his words to do this. The step she has taken is for her self-respect and its something I too would have done. Love is important but its not at the cost of your own respect.

Exactly if hubby is constantly declaring it to be his house, accusing her of making his house and his life HELL then the girl has 3 options
1. Shout back at him and claim her rights...here Naina could confront him asking what has he achieved so far to question her values and abilities

2. Sit in a corner and accept all the taunts by weeping at her misery and loose her self respect

3. Leave the place which he claims to be only his... until he realizes his mistake and Gives her the due respect

Considering naina's Nature I don't think she could do either of 2 and only 3rd option sounds realistic

I don't believe in typical ITV drama of FL just showing infinite patience to all the humiliation like a MAHAAN DEVI

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Originally posted by: myprimechicago

Exactly if hubby is constantly declaring it to be his house, accusing her of making his house and his life HELL then the girl has 3 options
1. Shout back at him and claim her rights...here Naina could confront him asking what has he achieved so far to question her values and abilities

2. Sit in a corner and accept all the taunts by weeping at her misery and loose her self respect

3. Leave the place which he claims to be only his... until he realizes his mistake and Gives her the due respect

Considering naina's Nature I don't think she could do either of 2 and only 3rd option sounds realistic

I don't believe in typical ITV drama of FL just showing infinite patience to all the humiliation like a MAHAAN DEVI

Well I'm not married so don't know the thought process

Naina should have told Sameer she wants a break, will go to chachajis place and will b back in a week or so...

Though I don't want to comment on the precap as we don't know yet what led to Naina leaving home.

I don't think so...maybe maintain some distance for a whole n all...but this packing bags n leaving at petty things would only aggravate things...marriage ain't easy!

Leaving the marital home in anger can be considered as desertion. It does not solve the problems but compounds them.