Why Naina Why

Originally posted by: appukrish

I agree the way Sameer shouted that she is a failure and zero in household work and that she knows nothing. He again taunted her for HM, she was in tears.
I didn't see the need for her to apologize.

Maybe it's me, But the break down scene looked rushed and out of place. Didn't feel emotions there. And Naina in the embrace didn't seem she was completely satisfied with Sameer's venting that he will never fight with her again etcc something was off with her hug and expression there.

And I don't think this is the end. There will be more fights till it gets serious and then only will we get some talking and understanding.

By then he would have faced some difficulties in factory with M and D, will realize that the business which he thought was like "baayen haath ka khel is actually not and understand that everybody is not perfect in everything.

But I'm confident that their marriage will not fail. Even though MM feels 6 months, Chachi also today was worried that their marriage won't last, and Naina VO talking about Chachi knew what we did not know.

For me Naina packing her bags to go to her Maika was over the top. Suddenly Naina being all threatening to leave her husband in anger is not digestible to me. The submissive girl hailing from a family where self-expression was curtailed, has suddenly become Kali Mata after just few days into marriage. Besides where will Naina go if she leaves Sameer? She does not come from a progressive family who will support her if she chooses to go back to live with them leaving her husband behind. The entire reason that Sameer had to marry this young was because of the regressive thinking of Naina's family anyways.

Secondly this is a newly wed couple - why are they even fighting so much in the initial stages of marriage? Generally, what is supposed to be the "Honeymoon Phase" for most of the couples seems to be the nightmare phase for these two. These kinds of discord may come later in marriage but to see it so early on is not believable.

If both of them had to go through such hardships to get married to each other, isn't it logical that at least Naina should put in some efforts to rectify the situation before packing her suitcase, that too after only few days into marriage? If Sameer had not stopped her, would she really have left? Was it cool to see Sameer crying and begging like that he front of his wife to stay and was it only his fault? It does not matter who says sorry to me but if saying sorry will act as an ice breaker to ease a strain, restore trust & understand and start a conversation with your spouse, isn't it worth saying it? Why even discuss he should have said sorry and or she should have said sorry.

Originally posted by: Itsflora

Well,they were supposed to get married twice,remember?

So mayb this marriage can break.otherwise why they made such a big drama over their kundali?

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

We have to keep in mind that this is 90s...even today divorce and marrying the same person is a big issue...back then was huge...
You really think anand will not guide them? Or the gang will not stop them...
The second marriage might just be rituals they would want to so as a fresh start...but I don't think the marriage will break or they separate to reunite...especially now that the career track is coming...even sameer will face struggle and realise that its easy to shout when things don't happen your way, lekin khud karna utna asaan nahi hota

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

For me Naina packing her bags to go to her Maika was over the top. Suddenly Naina being all threatening to leave her husband in anger is not digestible to me. The submissive girl hailing from a family where self-expression was curtailed, has suddenly become Kali Mata after just few days into marriage. Besides where will Naina go if she leaves Sameer? She does not come from a progressive family who will support her if she chooses to go back to live with them leaving her husband behind. The entire reason that Sameer had to marry this young was because of the regressive thinking of Naina's family anyways.

Secondly this is a newly wed couple - why are they even fighting so much in the initial stages of marriage? Generally, what is supposed to be the "Honeymoon Phase" for most of the couples seems to be the nightmare phase for these two. These kinds of discord may come later in marriage but to see it so early on is not believable.

If both of them had to go through such hardships to get married to each other, isn't it logical that at least Naina should put in some efforts to rectify the situation before packing her suitcase, that too after only few days into marriage? If Sameer had not stopped her, would she really have left? Was it cool to see Sameer crying and begging like that he front of his wife to stay and was it only his fault? It does not matter who says sorry to me but if saying sorry will act as an ice breaker to ease a strain, restore trust & understand and start a conversation with your spouse, isn't it worth saying it? Why even discuss he should have said sorry and or she should have said sorry.