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Posted: 6 years ago
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Miss Naina Agarwal, The topper in school and college not just in studies but cultural activities too.Nobody had expected her to fail so miserbly in the basic household chores. But to our disappointment she failed.There must be reason behind it right. We often saw Taiji blaming Bela for not upbringing the girls the right way. I think her forecasts came true. "Sasural ja k Naak katayegi ye ladki" Sometimes Taiji used to make her do the household works but honestly I never felt that Naina was doing them sincerely. Chachaji wanted Preeti and Naina to excel in academics and never cared to mould them to become a perfect bahu in future. We have seen Bela doing everything herself and asking them to focus on studies, In fact Preeti used to do more of household help than Naina to escape studies.

Naina once baked cake with the help of Shefali, Made choupsey I think from a cookbook(correct me if I am wrong) and she did not cook it alone.
All she could cook well was halwa and chai as shown in the show. Just like today's generations kids know how to cook maggie and of course this does not make them a masterchef.
Its not that Naina is zero in doing them afterall she belonged to a middle class family of 90s, actually she was never interested in doing them.
Thats why when she got the freedom to escape them, she ran away. In addition she had exams exams ahead. Initially she wanted to do but slowly she realised that there was nobody to scold her for her carelessness hence she shed off the remnants of that guilt.

Sameer gets angry with her only when somebody else points out. It's not that he didnt know about the dirty dishes but he didnt care untill he faced the humiliation.

A couple always dream of their own house but for them their house is not from their hard earned money it's as if they won it in a lottery.

I am happy that Mamaji, Chacha-Chachi came for dinner. Now they will face the mirror and maybe realise what they have doing it.

My house my rules sounds musical but certain rules must always be adhered to.
our kids need to realise life is not a cake walk. Freedom comes with responsibility.

PS-wrote it in hurry, couldn't put it properly.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Wow lovely post, Cannot agree more with you. They will soon realize their grond and struggle to stay intact
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree with you Suma. Managing a house all by themselves is not an easy thing especially such a big house. Actually Sameer never thought about the consequences of having such a big house when he bought it. At that point of time he wants to have a life of his own where no one else is there to control him. Same with Naina she got a kind of freedom after marriage. So she also just ignored her responsibilities using the excuse of exams and periods. Visit of Mama and family and Chacha-Chachi will serve as a mirror for them. They will realize that owning a house is easy if you have money in your hand but maintaining it requires pure hard work. Naina will realize that even if Sameer said that she doesn't need to wash the dishes but sometimes she has to do it for the health and hygiene of the family. These are the kind of mistakes that a newly married couple may make especially if there is no guidance from elders. Sameer and Naina will learn from these mistakes and will adapt those changes that are actually required for their family. These are the growing phases and eventually it will improve the quality of their life.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Exactly!!! That's what I was trying to say but didn't have the courage to post it! Can't agree more.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Exactly..I know for many it may look like they are not behaving like their real self as before...but we also have to understand that this whole situation is also not like they are used to be in.
Whatever mistakes they are making ks very common and natural.
bela ka sirf keh dena ke tujhe itna toh samjahya tha is also not right...saying a thing by words and making naina do the same is two different things.
I'm loving the track..they are arguing and making mistakes...but they are also balancing it out with taking care of each other and romance 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rph09

Exactly!!! That's what I was trying to say but didn't have the courage to post it! Can't agree more.


Isme courage ki kya baat hai Ray😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: suma_yudkbh


Isme courage ki kya baat hai Ray 😆

Ab kuch bhi serious post karne se darr lagta hai Suman!!(di bulayu kya?) Kahin negativity na spread ho is liye 😆 Is liye I always avoid serious topic.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rph09

Ab kuch bhi serious post karne se darr lagta hai Suman!!(di bulayu kya?) Kahin negativity na spread ho is liye 😆 Is liye I always avoid serious topic.


Jo Mann kare bulao
Lekin tum abhi school me ho ya college me?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: suma_yudkbh


Jo Mann kare bulao
Lekin tum abhi school me ho ya college me?

College mein. Toh phir main suman hi bulayungi. I hope you don't mind!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rph09

College mein. Toh phir main suman hi bulayungi. I hope you don't mind!


Ek raaz ki baat btati hun tumhe
Meri chhoti Behn mujhe Di nhi bulati to mujhe koi bhi Didi bolti h to bht Acha lgta h😭

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