Is sameer wrong in showing his frustration? - Page 2

I hvnt watched the epsde yet but yup in my view ..if i see tis HM track as a whole...Sam is not rong in voicing his frustration...Tis guy waited for almost damned 5 yrs...respected his gf wishes...kept himself intact jus for her...Any guy in his place wont hve tat much patience or otherwise wud hve broken up...but still he strongly abided by her...Now when he is newly married, a young hormonal guy at tis age would definately succumb to his desires n needs when he has his legally wedded wife with him...!! its jus not cos right now its his Hm..its what he has been dreaming n weaving for so long...He is SEXUALLY frustrated ...!!!! He has reached beyond limit where his mind is not working but HIS BODY n hormones r reacting...or shall i say DICTATING...😆.Hes human after all n watever he is spitting rite now is the pent up lava that is rolling out...I wont blame him for Men r like that...Its habitual n pretty normal .Men r primal in their needs n their moods, r interrelated to their sexual urges, body needs ...Sex jus not drives them to xtreme but keep them sane,calm,satisfied n the power to feel in control n loved.. They crave for connection n for them tats the way they show ,xpress love to their partners ..They feel elated ,energized as its a manifestation of jus not physical needs but more of emotional,mental n spiritual well being...Wat Sam is yapping rite now is the outburst that he has kept under wraps ... the guy has lost his senses literally 😆😆 n its his Naina tat can give him respite😆

Originally posted by: sweta2005

I think from last week they have showed Naina is ok for the kiss but the circumstances like in her cold,her sneezing is affecting ,even today in the park she was ok for it but sneezed.

I think Naina wearing heels and dress i can understand as Sameer has been telling her again and again about her dressing sense and heels,so she is not thinkibg rationally,that has completely affected her ,so she wore that for going out.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

I think Naina wearing heels and dress i can understand as Sameer has been telling her again and again about her dressing sense and heels,so she is not thinkibg rationally,that has completely affected her ,so she wore that for going out.

As mentioned above Naina is not naive, circumstance is making her not agreeing for intimacy, before she was shy and now when she is ready something is stoping her, and upar se Sam ka ghussa har cheez Mein is making her scared I think, pehele Sam kabhi ghussa nai Karta ghar chote chote cheez Mein but Bichari k upar har Choti baat ko leke ghussa hota hai and I m glad to see Naina is controlling her anger on Sam and Khud Manati hai, jaan bhuj k toh miskates nai karrahi hai na, and Sam bhi jaan bhuj k toh nai karrahe hai, don't worry Sab thik hoga jaldi

I was not happy with Sameer at the beginning of last Friday's episode as he got mad at her for eating chakri. But today, his frustration was understandable. I got the idea that he was mad at the situation, not at Naina today. He just removed his frustration on her, which is fine...after all shaadi ki hain, they will remove their frustration on each other time and time again. How they deal with each other's tantrums while living together 24/7 is where we will see their growth in the relationship. And just having a cold is not a big deal but then he comes to the hotel and that whole clothes washing fiasco happened which just pissed him off more. But then again, Naina was able to manaofy him in a few minutes, which is in line with both their characters.

Sameer is not at all wrong. I am also having same view point as Meher. Sameer is sexually frustrated and only Naina can bring that calmness in him. He was literally begging for kiss for a long time and now it has reached to a point where he doesn't have any control over his own behavior.
We all know that Sameer is yaaron ka yaar. If anyone says anything about his friends or closed ones then he will lose his mind. Same is happening here. When others are making fun of Naina and her behavior then he can't take it. So he wants Naina to change so that no one can point finger on her. It is always better for a wife to get taunts from husband than becoming a laughing stock in front of other people. Naina is smart in studies and as a leader in school and college but she never had a chance to be in a rich and expensive environment. There are certain things that you need to take care of in such an environment let it be staying in such a hotel be attending a party. She needs to learn those things and only Sameer can teach them.
These are the learning steps for them. They are kids and will be each other's first child always. They will make mistakes, argue and taunt but the moment they realize their mistakes they will kock their own ego out and will be all ready to pacify their other half. They are ready to do anything to bring a smile on each other's face.

For a man intimacy is not just about having sex , its about the confirmation that his lady trusts him and needs him. He also sees it as his lady accepting him completely. So his frustration is natural. But what is not logic is his lack of care shown towards her. The boy who understood her slight change in expression doesn't seem to be bothered when he knows she is suffering from cold. They have been in love for four years , he knows she gets cold soon , so why did he insist on removing the sweater. Rather he should have been insisting on her wearing it. They should have shown his more caring side.

Him bringing brandy made me laugh. When a man can wait so much to consummate his marriage just for her comfort why would he make her drink brandy on the pretext of cold. He would give her medicine rt?? Her principles have to be respected but no...here again they showed him away from his core characteristics.

This is where people got confused. Sometimes I wonder if its the same person who writes the script for every episode because they seem to contradict many a times.

One thing I was observing that it's all first experience for naina be it flight or attending that party. She could have asked him for help or ask questions before deciding things on her own. About washing clothes she could have asked him what they do in 5 star hotels or can I wash it in the bathroom. I feel there is lack of communication between them.

No he is not wrong.

It is looking like Naina is a baby and Sameer is her baby sitter. I can't relate this Naina with the old Naina. She used to see so many hindi movies. Chacha Chachi, Puja di was also there. She learned nothing from all these is really astonishing. 😲 Then what was she doing with Sameer?
I am remembering the dialogues of "Koi mil gaya" which was something like "Love is not eating horlicks and cookie" . Preeti told this to Hrittik who was autistic. So is Naina autistic? Why she is behaving so naive? Chachi told her to wash some...not all. She washed all. I mean what kind of gadhi is she? 😲

Wherever they are going and whatever Sameer is trying to do she has problem in just everything. Why he will not get angry?

That brandy part is another most common idea of hindi serial. Even in mature old couple's HM they use this trick. 😆 Like there is a problem to show physical intimacy in between sober couples. 😕 And husband wife get pregnant ...in talli condition and...hubby can't remember how she got pregnant. 😆 Like seriously??? 😲 😆 I guess this CV is also used this for old hindi serial wala concept. At first talli karo uske baad jo man chahje karalo. 😆😆