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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Sakhile


When so many people are sleeping on the floor in the same room as you and you are supposed to be performing a rasam in front of a god, you should know to say No to your husband's brainless ideas.
When you knew that if you were found out you would be scolded, you should say No to your husband's brainless ideas.

When your own brain tells you it is not a good idea, you should say No to your husband's brainless idea.

When you know that people are looking for opportunities to mock you, you should say No to your husband's brainless ideas.

Or is it thinking with his lower, small brain?

typical misogynist comment slow claps for your thinking👏
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32
First of all, SamAina are still immature in many things.
Secondly, whatever she did was only infront of her husband. She did not know Mami would hear anything and barge into their room.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Nikkie_1

The logic has been out of the window for some time in the show.

Naina has always been shown quite sensible and frankly speaking I could not digest her jumping on the bed in her wedding finery in the middle of the night when she is not even supposed to be in her husband's room. CVs have sent Naina's brain on a holiday just for the purpose of creating OTT drama . I understand that she is just 20 but 90s girls used to be far more mature than today's girls. They were taught to maintain decorum from a very young age.



Isn't that the point. Naina never really got the chance to bring out the child in her. She was always expected to be mature, understanding and perfect. Her real self comes out only when she's alone with Sameer.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjali33

First of all, SamAina are still immature in many things.

Secondly, whatever she did was only infront of her husband. She did not know Mami would hear anything and barge into their room.


True, it was only in front of the husband. But here is why it was not quite right-

Naina flunked her first Rasam (thali one). When she told Bela Chachi about it, she was instructed by her Chachi to be mindful about other Rasams. What did Naina do? She made the conscious choice of going into Sameer's room when she was strictly told not to do so.

Secondly, Naina is the smarty pant. Before marriage, she used to tiptop with phone from room to balcony so that she would talk to Sameer without waking anyone up. Now that same girl didn't know that jumping on the bed & making her husband jump on the bed as well would cause noise, which may potentially wake up the guests sleeping downstairs. Neither jumping in front of Sameer is a big deal nor bringing out the inner child in her is, but why couldn't she wait until next day to jump or bring that inner child out when everybody had left the house. That is the height of stupidity. Even my four year old knows that if he jumps on the bed at the middle of the night, I will go to his room and yell at him.

CVs are making the otherwise very smart and sensible female lead look very dumb and idiotic but our loyalty to Samaina is so deep that we cannot convince ourselves that she actual put her in the situation where people could ridicule her.


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Posted: 6 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil


True, it was only in front of the husband. But here is why it was not quite right-

Naina flunked her first Rasam (thali one). When she told Bela Chachi about it, she was instructed by her Chachi to be mindful about other Rasams. What did Naina do? She made the conscious choice of going into Sameer's room when she was strictly told not to do so.

Secondly, Naina is the smarty pant. Before marriage, she used to tiptop with phone from room to balcony so that she would talk to Sameer without waking anyone up. Now that same girl didn't know that jumping on the bed & making her husband jump on the bed as well would cause noise, which may potentially wake up the guests sleeping downstairs. Neither jumping in front of Sameer is a big deal nor bringing out the inner child in her is, but why couldn't she wait until next day to jump or bring that inner child out when everybody had left the house. That is the height of stupidity. Even my four year old knows that if he jumps on the bed at the middle of the night, I will go to his room and yell at him.

CVs are making the otherwise very smart and sensible female lead look very dumb and idiotic but our loyalty to Samaina is so deep that we cannot convince ourselves that she actual put her in the situation where people could ridicule her.


Well said Shilpa. Naina seems to have left her brains at the Agarwal household and is giving people an opportunity to ridicule her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Anjali33


Isn't that the point. Naina never really got the chance to bring out the child in her. She was always expected to be mature, understanding and perfect. Her real self comes out only when she's alone with Sameer.

That she became child like is not the problem. The problem is that she chose the wrong time to do so and thus made herself the object of ridicule. She will have plenty of time to be whatever she wants to be when the guests have left and she is alone with Sameer.
One must always behave appropriate to the occasion.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37
It was an excitement moment, she s happy she got married with her love after so many hurdles..

It wass Mami who planned to show Naina characterless
She could have just checked only Vishaka but why she has to go with the guests????

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sivasri

It was an excitement moment, she s happy she got married with her love after so many hurdles..


It wass Mami who planned to show Naina characterless
She could have just checked only Vishaka but why she has to go with the guests????


Sameer & Naina always had a choice of marrying in a small private ceremony but marrying big was Naina's dream. Hence this big fat wedding! If the wedding was small and private, there would be no drama, no name calling. If there are relatives, they are going to talk, even without Mami making a big deal. I absolutely agree that Mami made a scene when she could have just taken V upstairs to sort things out. She does not like Naina and is looking for opportunity to slander her whenever possible. However, it also true that Mami did not make Naina walk into the room with Sameer, Mami did not make her jump on the bed - Mami just used Samaina's idiocy against them.

I am not saying Mami is right but I am also saying that Naina's move was dumb and thoughtless. If she waited one more day until the house was empty, there would have been no drama.



Edited by rituriyaakhil - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#39
Agreed relatives are around they will of course talk be good or bad it can't be avoided..
Naina in Sameers room -- she could have avoided that, agreed..

But jumping on bed is ok ...
I mean even b4 she came up..our trio samundit where sleeping on bed b4 jumping...judging the people by just looking at the bed s evil thought...

Instead of bedroom if it was a garden no one will question them like this...

it's like if u get into bedroom u have only that intention and nothing else...

this scene just says how the 90s aunties thought about young couple..

This s not the first time it's happening in the show, earlier Mami used to do the same with poo Bhabhi even after many months of marriage..
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil


Sameer & Naina always had a choice of marrying in a small private ceremony but marrying big was Naina's dream. Hence this big fat wedding! If the wedding was small and private, there would be no drama, no name calling. If there are relatives, they are going to talk, even without Mami making a big deal. I absolutely agree that Mami made a scene when she could have just taken V upstairs to sort things out. She does not like Naina and is looking for opportunity to slander her whenever possible. However, it also true that Mami did not make Naina walk into the room with Sameer, Mami did not make her jump on the bed - Mami just used Samaina's idiocy against them.

I am not saying Mami is right but I am also saying that Naina's move was dumb and thoughtless. If she waited one more day until the house was empty, there would have been no drama.



Shilpa, we have been saying this so many times but those who want to justify will be like some of the characters in the show and not see or listen to logic or reason.

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