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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't know how its going to end. My grandfather once told me for love stories to be successfully to a marriage both have to be really passionate about their relationship...doesn't matter if its in 90s or now...He was a hindu fell in love with my granny who is catholic , they had beautiful 59 years marriage till my grandfather breathed his last. That's just 2 yrs back. Even today when my granny talks about my grandfather I can see how much he meant for her...initially her family didn't accept only grandfather parents accepted...so what matters is , are these two willing to fight for this precious love .

if you take Sameer and Naina , when one is low the other acts as an anchor and they don't compare each other with anyone...they are happy accepting each other as who they are...Even when Sameer spends time with Munna or Pandit , Naina doesn't feel insecure..when Sameer decided not to get back with Naina because of the promise given to Munna, she did the most unexpected way ( something I would never agree to)to get back her love...when she left him respecting her families wishes , he didn't loose hope, he tried every trick in the basket to get close to her...when he left for Delhi she didn't loose hope, neither did he...distance didn't destroy their relationship...one way or the other , they tried to get back to each other...

In case of Munna and Swathi its different. Swathi always compares Munna with Sameer...I don't think she respects him or consider's him capable of anything. She is very insecure person. Even if these people tell that they will help her to get back to Munna. I doubt if Swathi will agree...because she will see that Munna doesn't have a job and financial security is not there ...to top it all she might be feeling that he doesn't care about her...in reality I don't think she has spoken to him about the gravity of the issue...

What I am trying to say is that in this relationship , it was mostly Munna who was there, many a times I have felt Swathi just said yes because she needed someone to love and care for her...I have many a times doubted the fact that she still is looking at finding some one like Sameer...

I am sure its going to be painful for her and for him...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think so may the start of their love story. But I hate that Munna is so careless and irresponsible about swatis feelings. Not one time he spoke to her when she was asking him that she need to talk to him. He doesn't deserve swati.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deepanand

I don't think so may the start of their love story. But I hate that Munna is so careless and irresponsible about swatis feelings. Not one time he spoke to her when she was asking him that she need to talk to him. He doesn't deserve swati.


They are both weak here... one can't be blamed.

I agree Munna took her for granted at times...

Swati still considered she missed the chance with Sameer due to Naina when she was in relationship with Munna...

She always knew Munna regarding Sameer more than his family...

Joining Rival gang and helping them conspire against her own friends...

Their relationship lacked trust and Passion to sail through life's challenges... it was kind of obvious




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Posted: 6 years ago
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When Swati is trying to say something to munna about their marriage , Munna said " pahle bhaiya bhabhi ki shaadi ho jaye , phir mai apni baat krlunga."
Munna hadn't ignored Swati but at that time Sameer is the first priority of him. I don't think it's Munna fault.

If Munna is not have time to listen she can told to her friends atleast once.


But no she thought munna is only interested in samaina marriage , so she doesn't want to inform anybody.
Swati never understand the importance of samundit friendship.

Swati had betrayed the gang and her best friend , and after 3 year of relationship with munna , what she said to Naina . - " teri wajah se mujhe Sameer nhi Mila "


Naina Sameer election = swamun breakup.

Naina Sameer marriage = swamun ending.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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It would really hurt if SwaMun broke up.
There have been flaws in their relationship, no doubt. Both have their weaknesses. Every relationship is vulnerable. Even SamAina have had their weak moments when they decided to go separate ways (physically, but never from the heart; in their heart, they always cared for each other) and did not give up.

I feel though Munna's feelings are stronger than Swati (my opinion), he hasn't learnt to respect her and give her the place she deserves as his girl. Swati did try to talk to him, but he ignored it. Now he cannot blame her that she did not tell him that her family was fixing her Roka.

But if I try to be optimistic, Naina's Roka was also done, but still she broke it. I hope the same for Swati (if Munna realises his flaws and works on it, and Swati also works on her issues). Because I remember in one of the episodes Naina's VO said that all the 8 wheels are still together. I doubt SwaMun will be able to be in the same gang if they have parted forever, because I perceive Munna is a little too emotional to be able to do that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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May be SwaMun will elope..
This s one more face of 90s love may be CVs want to show us that..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This is the point where you can judge the relationship...if they love each other so much , they will elope...but if they don't then one of them will say NO saying its not practical as both families will be hurt blah blah...

When two people are truly in love...all this family honour , money , status , power nothing would matter...what matters would only be love and each other...so lets wait and see if Munna and Swathi was that passionate about each other or not.

PS: I cant understand why Swathi didn't tell Munna. I mean she told it very casually . She should have told him , that her parents will get her married off then the seriousness would have hit him...well lets not judge them at this point...lets see how Swathi and Munna will react to the situation.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This is really a very sad story. The friends who would do anything for Sameer and Naina are not willing to do anything for Swati. Munna has no time for Swati and has not paid any attention to their relationship for a long time. Swati deserves better, much better. She deserves a better man and better friends. I hope the guy the parents find for Swati is a million times better than Munna, Pandit and Sameer put together. I hope he will love her to bits and Munna will not even register in her memory as a dim faded light.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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from where have we got the news that Swati's roka is done? Any spoiler that I missed?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sivasri

May be SwaMun will elope..

This s one more face of 90s love may be CVs want to show us that..

I hope not.

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