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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

Very nice post and analysis..

But i think problem with Vishakha is different... Somehow i feel she understands that how much Sameer loves Naina... I think she is the only one in Sameer's family who knows that Nanu approved of her.. So she also knows that Naina is the right girl for him... But somewhere unconsciously she is jealous of Naina as her son has never given her that important place in his life as he has given to Naina.. He has never praised anyone in front of her so much before...
whatever is her situation.. She does love Sameer but she is practical which is why she let sameer return. So whatever love she got from his son after a long time might vanish if Naina comes. This is why i think she didn't approve of Naina initially...

But when she got to know that sameer didn't appear for his exams because of Naina her disapproval become stronger... And no parent would approve of a life partner for their son/daughter in such case at such age...



Thanks..
I completely agree that Vishaka is jealous of Naina. She is not able to see that her son is giving more importance to some other girl. Her ego is hurt. No mother would like to see that her child his giving more importance to a girl who just came into his life. She knows that she has been negligent towards him and she is regretting for that now when another girl has got the importance in his life. So that's one of the main reason for dislike towards Naina.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SixteenAgain

Awesome post Chaaru!

His elders don't understand their relationship for a number of reasons I guess.
- One being they have personally not experienced anything like this and hence they don't understand this sort of soulful young love.
- There own relationships are probably based on the practical and socially acceptable criteria and hence they cannot see outside that box.
- They do not see anyway the family or business will benefit from this alliance, and hence of not much value to themselves. Mamaji had been quite keen to talk to Su's father about his rishta before before, so age is definitely not a concern for them, right?

But, it is not a phase. It is love that will endure and only grow deeper!


Agreed! The elders do not believe in this love marriage, they feel that the kids are just blinded by love. The elders are weighing the relationship with the benefits. Yes mama was really keen on the rishta talks, he had no problem with su coming to Maheshwari residence but now when he got to know about Naina, he has a problem with everything. Mama probably doesn't have a problem with Naina, he has a problem with her background.

Each of the elders are having different reasons to dislike Samaina relationship.
*Vishaka - out of her insecurity
*Mama - Sees no benefit from the relationship
*Mami - She doesn't consider Naina as beautiful as Sameer, so she feels Naina is not a match to Sameer when it comes to status and beauty.
*Somani - plain dislike towards Sameer and lack of understanding. He sees him as an irresponsible and immature child, who cannot take of his life and will never be serious in his life.

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