A phase - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mayashika

Agree to each and every part of the post! Well written, chaaru!

They are underestimating the love of Samaina, it's not a puppy love anymore, their love has seen many hurdles and also have overcame it too.

Again, Vishaka proves why she cannot be a mother; a true mom who can understands her child's feeling and is not influenced by anyone.

I hope she realises soon that then being different isn't a bad thing instead that is what makes them balance each other; they are meant for each other.

I don't care about somani or mama-mami but hopefully Vishaka will be happily present in the Samaina's wedding. 😃

Originally posted by: JaySee

I agree Chaaru. Sameer's family is thinking of it just as an infatuation and it is mainly because of the age of both Sameer and Naina. Until now they have seen only an easy going attitude of Sameer. None of them never tried to find and understand the real Sameer. Chachiji and Nanu have seen the dedication of both of them towards their relationship. That's why they agreed for this without any objection.
But I am not able to understand why Vishakha is still not ready to accept Naina. She herself admits that Nanu understood Sameer much better than her. If Nanu had approved Naina for Sameer then what is the problem for her. Why she is not valuing her father's decision.

Originally posted by: mysterious17

Nice post chaaru

I wuld like to add a pic here

Pic cr : twtr acc of a fan

Just luk at their faces..it luks funny the way they are sitting w/ their face down. They were v much confidnt that they ll tackle it in their way but bete ki deewangi ki hadd dekhke aa rahe the toh they were helpless & had to agree to his demand. Despo lover i must say 😆. (I ll keep saying this coz iski harkatein hi aisi h) did all notice the way he was tryng to peek inside 😆

Aaj the much awaitd scn aane wala h

'Dilpelikhdiyanaam' 😃..m wondering hws he gonna explain his deewangi se bhari harkat 😛

Originally posted by: Kalyani.123

V doesn't believe in the concept of opposites attract...Samaina r 2 incomplete souls who complete each other in every aspect...whenever any of them falters the other is there to lend the required support...to understand their love she first needs to understand the depth of their relationship... they r not just lovers bt pure soulmates who do not words to express themselves to each other... whatever last expectations Sameer had from his mother regarding this rishta has been shattered n now he knows he has to take the charge completely n b the Man of the House

Originally posted by: IamIbe

Thank you for making this post dear. Me and my parents were discussing this yesterday that Vishaka's hatred fro Naina doesn't just stem from a mere phase thing. The disgusting opinion she has of Naina also stems from her own insecurities. Forcing Sameer to chose between her and Naina was a step that proved this. She voiced this recently too that Naina ha managed to take a higher spot in his heart which Sameer would probably never give her.

I know people on this forum are extremely negative towards her and so am I but there is a very human thing about her nuanced portrayal. She knows she failed as a mother multiple times and was never there for Sameer the way he needed her to be. And the way Sameer talks about Naina's care for him and all that she has done which softened him makes her guilty deep down which she copes with by displacing that guilt towards her low opinion of Naina.

The way she talked about Sameer's love for Naina after he had pretty much begged her to take the rishta to Naina's place shows that somewhere deep down she can see this is not just a phase. But Bobby's manipulation worked because she has her own insecurities. That if Naina is so important to him, will he still need his mother around after marriage?

Originally posted by: 90sgal

Lovely analysis dear 😊

Vishakha doesnt understand that if Sameer finds a girl exactly like himself..then in fact it won't be good for him..he needs a girl like naina and she needs a boy like be Sameer as they complete each other

And even if that wasn't true she should simply respect his true feeling and ready to support him no matter what..that's what he needs most from her at this point

Originally posted by: sweet_tehs

I agree with whatever u have written as your perspective..

Now leaving aside Samaina... coz we all know how much they love each other not their families..

If You look at this from an outsiders POV or maybe their families POV... THIS IS LIKE A SHOCK TO THEM..

a bomb on them..

Considering their age where they haven't even completed college they are asking to be married..

Would we still allow such a scenario in our homes..

Agreed Vishakha knew about them and to an extent she knew the depth of their love too.. but again this was way back in the 90's.. such a reaction such an opposition was expected..

Vishakha's onLy mistake is that she is highly manipulated by her husband..

Opposition from the family is expected.. they didn't even know who naina was until a few days ago and here their boy is on a zip that they go talk about his marriage..

Anybody would do the same as they have shown.. OPPOSE and try to make him see the reality..

What Somani said was right.. what is Sameer?

Not yet graduated...not yet doing a job or working...

If he gets married also how is he to support his family..

Of course love triumphs over everything..

But what they have shown is a very realistic scenario as it was in the 90's and to an extent even today..

Parents are still apprehensive about love marriages..

Maybe now they don't oppose so strongly but they do try..

Coming to Vishakha she is flawed and she is human..

She knows it herself that she as failed as a mother and deep down she knows that Sameer can never give her the place in his heart that he has given Naina..

And some instances have made her dislike naina..

But the way she behaved at the agrawals was I called for..

She has distanced herself more maybe from her son..

It needs to be seen how their relationship goes from here..

Originally posted by: sweta2005

Seeing Monday's episode,like Sameer said to Munna ,he was not waiting for engagement date to be fixed,he just wanted both the families to meet and and have a formal talk and fix their marriage later as he is scared to loose Naina,as seen Aggarwal can any time fix Naina's marriage to any one at any time,so he wanted to get their relationship formalised and after ,completing studies get married,but here his family ,instead of making him understand to get married later after settling ,trying to play games with him.