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ami

@bitblue

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

Not as teenager but as kid. between age 7-10 I was very naughty. Use to play out side all the time. My parents has to look for me out on street or at few friends home when it gets dark😆😆. Pitai never on face but yes on back a lot..but after pitai next day same story never kept my promises when it comes to play out side

Never had restriction like Naina's home but have seen family like hers...

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jhalak7

@jhalak7

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

There were lots of restrictions in our family. But I was a rebel. My parents actually gave up on me after lots of pitai. 😆
Don't go out when it is raining...never listened...pitai.
Don't play with boys...never listened...pitai.
Don't fight with boys...pitai
Don't dress up like boys...be a girl ...pitai
Don't escape from home before 3pm...pitai.
Don't tear mom's old sarees for making doll's dress...pitai.
Come home before sunset...pitai.
... I have a long list . Never listened. What will I share? 😆
I remember the day my Dad stopped pitai and started to laugh. Okay...after that I also turned very obedient. 😆
I guess more restriction creates more rebels.

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toshibelekar

@toshibelekar

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

Nice topic 😆

Everyone faced it.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 6 years ago

Oh I don't think , this page would be enough ...I mostly got it till I was 12 or 13 ...after that it has been only shouting ... 😆 😳
I always got for being choosy with food, and for not studying . I hated text books ..only after 8th I started scoring well as in got responsible and started studying by myself...till then I used to score but I had to get a lot of beatings from my mom...I hated writing ...and my note book was always in complete... 😆 like today they were not lucky to have watsapp group chat...she would have to visit my friends house or write a diary to the teacher to send another students note book...

Younger days I used to get beatings for getting up late ...mornings were a mess...I wouldn't get up ...took time for my morning routine...would stand and sleep with the tooth brush in the hand...and what not... 😆

Now that I am a mother , I realize what my parents would have gone thru... 😆 🤣

PS : Lovely topic brought back some funny memories..most beatings I got from my mom was with broom stick...that's Kerala special..( no offence to any malayalys ).rofl...today when I complain about my kid...my mom looks at me says ...history repeats ... 🤣

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shelly_nair

@shelly_nair

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

Many times... I belonged to orthodox family and there were many restrictions. Just like Naina I too loved in joint family. So there were different types of thapads and slaps.😆. I used to call my mummy 'tapad specialist's😆

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ashdeep.fn

@ashdeep.fn

Beginner

Posted: 6 years ago

i am also 90s kid...faced so many restriction from family..for that many time beaten-up by mother ... papa hardly beat me but jab pitai hoti thi BY GOD mamma ka 10 maar ki barabar ek baar hi marte the..

I used to love cycle in childhood and hardly people bought cycle for every chid ... coz limited salary

papa bought for my big brother and my brother never gave me.

one day i sat on cycle with my friend...in front of him on cycle railin... coz mujhe nahi aata tha cycling karan

my papa saw me on cycle with him... when i saw my papa i asked him to stop cycle and got down...

papa came near to me & asked me what i was doing with him...before i say something to him he start to beat me with newspaper ... i ran to my house when he immediate came back to home and beat me so badly ...

yesterday when i saw bela chachi beat naina with news papers ... i was laughing during the scane coz i was in flash back in my own childhood i remembered whole scenario how badly my papa just for i sat on cycle with boy...

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mehraan

@mehraan

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 6 years ago

I was a very wicked child in my younger dys like 7 to 10 yr category 😆.Being the eldest ..i was very pampered yet very responsible at a younger age...U kno the goody image kids vho cnt do anything rong...My parents trusted me...i was a gud student too...but thn i had done lot of things under that image😆.So the thing is my bro n sis got lots of beating cos they were notorious... n i used to put the blame on them if i had my own benefit ...n these were small innocent ones ...like i remember those days Quality Street chocolates were rave ..quite xpensive...n my mom used to gve us daily two after we finished our Hw...i used to steal it 3 to 4 n blame my siblings for it...😆 Thy used to get shoutingss on tat...😆 i used to eat kitkat under my blanket n blamed it on my sister...Used to on the Tv at rong time to watch my fav cartoon...n on questioned used to blame on either of them😆..My parents were strict with discipline...kind of military rule...Wen i revealed my mom sme yrs back see thst i hve done tis n tat...she was like googly eyed at my antics like how could u do that...we trusted u🤣...My siblings still hold tat grudge n curse for being too Saintly😆...

But as i grew up basically a teen..around 14 or so...I guess that Being elder...maturity does come in somehow...n u start feeling MOTHERLY abt ur siblings...i hve helped my younger brother several times in not being hittup..infact once i made him run away from the house...He was 0 in academics...n hve failed twice ...Mny incidences where i took the share of my sister being trashed as she was a rebel...N i hve got up beaten instead just like how Preeti saved Naina yest in being hit...I supported n sided with thm wen they were rong n tuk the hittings on tat...Infact in school i was summoned from my classes n scolded by their teachers as to what an irrespinsible sister i was for not checking their Hws or they being indiscpilned etc etc ..infact they blamed my parents...😆 n i nvr went back home n complained to my parents about it...But screwed my younger ones separately...I never used to get those matters at home with that fear of seeing them being trashed...I did forged my fathers sign once on my brothers proforma..😆...So inshort was Preeti during that stage n by default got lots for supporting them😭

Wenever we recall such incidences ...Thy tell me jokingly...Hisaab barabar...Bachpan mei maar khilaya...Na isliye tumhe badey mei Maar khilaya😆

I did hve share of my hittings too ...My fav spot was always bhnd the curtain ...n rolling the curtain as much as i can around myself cos i was really scared with that strainer spatula tat fry pakoras🤣..My moms fav weaponnn😆 n kasam se ussey bahut maar partthi thi!!

N one fond memory is Me n my sister holding each others hands...used to run around the dinning table ...round n round...n our mom bhnd us with tat weapon of hers...😆...N wen she used to run our direction...we used to run opposite🤣...

We often used to pray for our dad to come bac from office soon cos he was much lenient in comparison to our mom😆...

Thy r so mny...i will stop !!😆

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Sakhile

@Sakhile

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

My mom's hands were fast and you just didn't know when the thappad would rain on you. Whatever was in her hands turned into a weapon when the need arose. She didn't hit often but when you failed to listen for the umpteenth time, then whatever was at hand did the job.

My most endearing memory is the time I would take food whilst she's still preparing it. Normally this was when she was frying samoosas or pakore. She would repeatedly tell me not to take the food whilst she is frying as the barakat goes. I off course didn't listen. One day after I had taken samoosas three or four time, she simply put the hot spoon on my arm. A small blister formed. No real scar was left, but to this day I can show where that blister was.

Now that she is no longer with us, I would give anything for her to come back and do the same a million times over, I would eat a million thappads from her without saying choo.

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ruchi3179

@ruchi3179

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

I was a good girl & cunning too.Kabhi nahin fasi .I hardly remember being hit as i normally used to listen .Study well & no mischief of mine had been causght ever .Till now my parents dont know how clever i was & how i sued to be free always.Once i had also saved my brother from my fathers beating using my tricks.But all very small incidences.In fact due to pitai dar i was always a good girl at school ,no mixing with boys also much at least at school.In colleges i have been though may punishments but hittig was not there as we have grew older.