NAINA- Why we feel disconnected To Her? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ssree

Sameers poems are missing, what about naina writing stories, wasn't it initially told that Niana topped only till 10th , yesterday episode says she is a topper n college too. what should we believe.

Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

i have just one word to say

sheer brilliance 👏

you have summed up everything perfectly... believe me each word each sentence was bang on...

ever since break up track naina's growth graph is only deteriorating...its going downwards whereas sameer's graph is constantly moving upward... hence the disconnect is very much visible now a days...

pain connected samaina... they both had incomplete family... the emotional aspect of theirs was only within them... it came out only when these two came together... that connect is replaced and hence everything is messed up

Originally posted by: shahz

You have put everything down so to the point dear...honestly brilliant post 👏

Since the break up I just can't connect with Naina. .. With time it's just getting worse.

I've just given up and stopped watching for the past 2 weeks.

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

Nice post.

The only thing is that i won't Want to compare Sameer and Naina. They are different people and have different personalities. If S does something for N, she does not need to return the favor.

I could connect and relate with Naina till breakup but yes the patch up and suicide drama was a complete let down.

Originally posted by: Ross11

Nice post Trupti.

You mentioned everything nothing left to comment.

This disconnect started during breakup track, she is a practical person now jo dimaag se sochti hai while Sameer is becoming an emotional fool. 🤔

Originally posted by: VeebafanSonam

few days back i have made post on similar lines:

https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=5024450

Samaina and Gang

As A loyal and regular viewer of the show there are so many things going on in my mind rn.

YUDKBH is the show which I need to preserve in my heart for forever. For its story line and characters.

This is probably the first show where we do not have any negative characters. They are either grey or turned positive.

We have seen love, family, friendship and every aspect of life of samaina and gang.

But after school track ended and college track started I can feel many things are missing and incomplete. Many open tracks and abruptly ended without proper ending and storytelling.

I want to start from the college beginning track coz I feel School track was best and perfect.

1. Samaina: They have started college track from manhoos track. We have seen so much efforts from naina's side to get Sameer back on track. Both had suffered so much during delhi track and letter was the only one thing for their survival.

Once Sameer came out of the manhoos thing we expected them to sit and pour their heart out to each other. Conversation is Samaina USP from beginning. Be it in school or in mt.abu, their always used to talk and feel each other pain. Sameer faced lot in delhi that naina needed to know and vice versa. But rather than that we got ghanta-ghanti reunion. After that they never spoke about delhi and what made Sameer to think that he is manhoos.

Then come Pooja-bittu track which again ended abruptly. I feel they changed that track due to Somy and Hema issue. But I could be satisfied if they can give a proper ending to that track. They showed Pooja asking apology from bittu and what about bittu. Didn't she also need to apologise to Pooja. They could have showed Agarwal and Maheshwari family sit together and talk and sorting the issue with God bharai for both Pooja and Bittu at same time. What makes me so surprised that Pooja didi delivered a baby and no talks on that. Till Date chachaji is not aware of this incident.

Then come much hyped Waxing and periods track. They took out such an important and serious issue and closed it on funny note. What was that track about I still doesn't understand? VO Said bahot salo bad Sameer ko ye baat pata chali and we had good laugh. Again I feel it was to cover up for Randeep movie shooting and leaves.

Then Come the Judai track which I feel was important for growth in Samaina's growth.

What I feel wrong was Naina's one sided decision. Never she thought of Sameer's situation.

Then she agreed for marriage with Sharad for family pressure. Now my question is: Will Naina would get married with Sharad if he was a very good guy. Ans is Yes she could have because family is important and she can't go against her family. Then what about Sameer. Going in Ashram in Pune. Sharad was bad guy and that was the reason of marriage alliance broke.

She broke up with Sameer for family without giving him any chance to speak but after same Sameer saved her from her would be Mother in Law in college she was impressed and asked for friendship. What if he could not have helped her and saved her. He had all rights to do that after being thrown out like a garbage from naina's life.

After Chachaji approval and judai ended samaina is behaving like nothing happened. Naina did not once talk about Sameer going baba mode and Sameer did not ask her what made her say yes to marriage proposal. All they showed is Gang making fun of his baba mode and naina being so casually asking him that he actually wanted to go in ashram. Like seriously naina. After coming in saree, putting mehendi for some other guy name you are still expecting Sameer to behave normally.

During all this another girl suffered and insulted in Sunaina. I agree that she became MRs Fresher by cheating but still Sameer had no right to play with any other girl's life like this. He was wrong. Then once he realised he said sorry to her. EVERYTHING CAN'T BE SORTED WITH SORRY MR. SAMEER MAHESHWARI. Sharad misbehaved with naina and you beat him really hard. What about you. Did not you and sharad is same when it comes to sunaina. I think CVS failed here. they portray Sameer's character in very bad way during sunaina track. She is also a girl and she is insulted from Sameer and gang. I don't think she is doing anything wrong standing in election and giving tough time to samaina and gang.

The most ridiculous thought came when naina tried to jump from the terrace.
Again question arise naina did that to prove she can do anything for Sameer to munna. But don't u think it was the most ridiculous step to prove your point. If she can do anything for Sameer then why you said yes to marriage under family pressure. You are ready to risk your life for Sameer after chachaji approval. What about before that. Suddenly she realised she loves Sameer a lot and can give up her life as well. Tell me who will not agree if you are trying to jump from terrace. Like that munna too agreed. Instead of Naina saying sorry it was munna who was begging and saying sorry to naina. Dialogues they gave during naina-munna confrontation scene was so badly written and out of the place. Like munna is jealous of Sameer giving more importance to her. Seriously. A girl who see the struggle of mundit in bet track, naina manao track, Pooja shadi track, judai track, manhoos track is saying these lines. How can she forget because of them Sameer and naina are SAMAINA.

After creating so much scene they again become normal and all lovey dovey without any proper conversation and confrontation.

Then come this Swati track. I don't think Swati is wrong at any point. Naina was not in mood to stand in election so she asked Swati to stand forcefully giving her speech, then all of a sudden gang wanted naina to stand in election instead of swati. Ok fine I agreed naina might be a better option but then you could have once asked Swati whether she wanted to back off or still wanted to stand. Rather than taking her opinion they gave naina's name. As if it was not done they chose to humiliate and insulted swati in front of JBR As well.

Swati still understood naina and tried to talk with her and called her. But naina being so lost in her world with Sameer did not even bother to ask if it was important and if not we can speak in college. Rather than that she forcefully cut her call. Then again in college she did not remember that her best friend wanted to talk something important and again got busy promoting her.

One thing which hurt me badly naina not uttering a word when munna and Sameer are talking such insulting line for the best friend. Being a girl herself will she ever tolerate other girl facing such insult that too your best friend of more than 10 years and from your boyfriend and his friends.

I will not completely blame swati if she joins hands with Sunaina and gang because whatever Kartik and sunaina said was 100% right. If gang would have supported swati in the same way they are supporting naina she too could have win. Whole gang was suddenly woken up from sleep once naina become a candidate. Like swati's nomination was just for sake of standing. On top of that the way they showed naina taking out swati's poster like its doesn't existed added more fuel. Doesn't she remembered seeing swati's poster that she wanted to talk to her. Swati was with naina for entire day for making banners still she forgot about that and lost in her own world. Upar se VO Saying why cant swati spoke to her. Girl, your best friend tired her best but it was you who was not interested. Sorry, but Naina was came accorss selfish girl in all this.

On one sided Naina is being treated like a queen from Sameer, Swati is treated like a trash from her own Bf Munna. That makes her remembered her love for Sameer which was dead all these days. She always proved herself when it comes to friendship. So it was natural that chose to team up with Sunaina coz naina could not understand her feelings.

One thing swati did wrong was sharing their secrets with Sunaina but at this stage she thinks she has no one by her side and getting ignored. Sunaina (tho for her benefits) is giving her all the comfort and confidance she is need at this point of time. Its human nature that during such situation we always chose the worst solution.

Munna: He need to understand its just not the friendship which matters Love also matters. You cant speak to your won GF like this and on other hand you talk very nicely with naina and preeti. If u cant handle two relations at a time then better end one. And end that relation which you feel is less important. And In munna's case his relation with Swati is less important than his relation with Sameer. You scored 100% in Frnship but score 0 in Relatipnship.

2. Gang: After speaking a lot for Samaina I want to talk about Gang. Its high time that CVS will show gang is getting serious about their future and start talking about their career plans. Going by current situation they all are leading no where.

Mundit: They are just Sameer's best friends. But they has their own life as well. I don't want them to be just only Sameer's BFF. What about their future and career.

Swati will always remain Naina ki BF and Preeti will always remain Naina ki hanuman.

Sameer will Nain ka BF.

What about future.

Its time to show Sameer getting involved in Business and gang thinking about their careers.

Sameer being a rich guy will always have an option open to join his family business and we all know naina is writer.

Agar aisa ho chalta raha to mundit sirf Sameer ke chamche bane rahenge and Swati and Preeti naina ki BF and Sister.

Sorry for that rant but I really wanted to speak on all these aspect.

Originally posted by: Mayashika

Great post, Trupti! You have written it so well, indeed this is the reason why I can't connect to present Naina anymore, the failure of acknowledging your partner's pain.

Originally posted by: ssree

Hi Trupti,

Good post and points all valid. you and veebha has mentioned all my thoughts hence nothin more to write,

During the school track:

a)Arjun and paper stealing track.

b)Sammer winning the cricket track for Arjun and not even a thank u from SS or Arjun

c)Sameer saved Pooja when she went alone for a movie with varun . and sameer got beatings and the 5lac rupees.

d) Shaadi track at the end ended abruptly, they

e) Phulla but leaving to bombay suddenly

Coming to college track :

everything mess

1. Manhoos track

2. Baba mode / break up track

3. Election track

nothing proper .

the cvs does brings up the track well but then at the end just messes it up without proper closure.

Will always remain salty with the paper track

Sameers poems are missing, what about naina writing stories, wasn't it initially told that Niana topped only till 10th , yesterday episode says she is a topper n college too. what should we believe.

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

I think there have too many contradictory behavior of Naina shown by CVs off late