Episode 31.08.2018...Munna Ke Sameer Ki Naina

Thanks for the post Ross and thanks for keeping it light and enjoying whatever is being shown :)
Jooti VO mast and all the one liners too.

Will try to come back over the week end

Sameer calling Naina's family as sweet si pyaari si.. That was just epic🤣

More than episode, Ur post made me entertained and I loved only part where Sam told about mundit importance in his life bcos somewhere they stood with him like a rock in this whole breakup scenario...when his own love (Naina) left him without any reason

Awesome post Ross ( as usual )

Superb post. 😆 Title is too good and apt.👍🏼 Expectations are the roots of all disappointments. We are actually boiling our blood for the show but CVS dont care they will only show what they want. So go with the flow is the only option.

Good morning Ross... What a lovely come back!! Your usual light posts were what I was missing from a long time.. Sonia Gandhi wala one liner was 🤣

Hehehe hehe ...Mast update Ross...

Ross, finally jalebi ki Tarah story ko gol gol ghuma ke jalebi banayi to sahi lekin ek sira khula chod diya.. v cleverly aur vo hai naina ke redemption.. ka..😆

And I think they did it purposefully.. ab dekhna aage after this college tashan track next track mein yahi hoga ki how Naina stands up for Sameer.. (aur waise bhi aage ke story ki yahi demand hai..) agar abhi sab sort out kar lenge to aage Naina ke love ki mahaan dastan kaise dikhayenge jaise iss track mein Sameer ke love ki hadd haemin dekhne ko mili..

the problem with CVs is.. thy don't have a proper closure track.. after very good emotional track betn the two.. Last time bhi yahi hua.. thy wer so much in love that it was impossible to show thm not understanding each other.. so thy chose to ignore the whole heart-to-heart convo, only superficially touched the relevant subjects, gave ghanta ghanta closure and moved on to the next phase, I.e. romance and laid foundation for upcoming breakup track.. Bt I m sure ye Maheshwari vs Aggarwal was not preplanned (as proven by Taiji's statements during Pooja di shadi) but later added just to give that extra punch to Naina's stance of chosing family over love.. or more appropriately Chachaji's absolute bharosa over Sameer's infinite love..

I had actually loved the whole track.. it was really difficult to chose betn Naina's firm stance and Sameer's unconditional love. right from the beginning she had always maintained that it was family over love for her. It showed Naina's commitment towards her obligations and duties. And now that Sam has committed to her in front of chachaji and whole world, we will see her other side.. albeit her character would remain the same.. firm on her stance..

Its funny how it portrays every common Indian girl's stance, our loyalties to our commitments, obligations, duties, and relations.. pre and post marriage.. before marriage we r extremely loyal to our families, deeply attached and then we chose a life partner, commit to them and within a span of short period our allegiance needs to b changed from our birth family to the family we r married into... I m amazed how our priorities, loyalty, duties and obligations flip totally.. I can understand how difficult it must b for other girls who r so attached to their birth families when I who was more bound by my duties than love when felt tht I cannot abandon them.. and over the time I realized how difficult it is to take such decisions for a married girl.. at every festive occasion.. for every imp crucial situations in life.. there is always a choice to b made, a decision to b taken abt birth family vs the family I m bound by my husband's love and daughter in law's duties.. till we become mothers... and the allegiance is totally reversed ..

Ross u need to b a woman and to b married and taken away to a new family .. to understand this gradual transformation that we let ourselves to..

So I guess u can term as selfish (many a times I too feel it for myself when I chose my in laws over my siblings).. shallow.. (cause we cannot show deep loyalty to either of them) noncommittal (coz we forever remain confused whom to chose.. and our deep attachments to either of them not helping us much..😆 ) .. but that's who we are.. and when we become mother.. we become completely selfish for our kids.. 😆.. our kids take priority over everyone else.. even life partners.. .. till they grow up and become independent.. and thn again we flip back to our life partners. 😆.

but is me kahin bhi did u find ourselves committing to ourselves? That is Naina's stance.
Had there not been Sameer's immense support, selfless unconditional and infinite love, they would not have been together. Their love story would not have been successful. And I think Naina now understands the value and stature of his love as her VO had stated.. koi tha jiska kad mujhse kai zyada uncha tha.. and she would b more determined than ever to remain firm on this commitment
Hope that I m proven right in my opinion abt Naina in future.

currently I was rewatching breakup phase epis right from the car breakup and have reached the mandir fship scene.. till this phase I had always understood their love and their stance that for Naina it would b always Chachaji's bharosa over Sameer's infinite unconditional love and for Sameer, he would never ever b able to move on from Naina..

Good that it sorted out the way that it did otherwise I m damn sure Naina would've married Sharad if her chacha had approved of him and he was any good. Whether she would've loved him or not the same way as she did Sameer is immaterial. Her duties and obligations would always took precedence over love. Reminds me of Nandini from hum dil de chuke sanam. As to why did she fell in love? Well, for one, she wasn't mature to understand all this when she fell in love and convinced Sam abt the same.. and two, she lived in a happy bubble that her family would accept their relation sooner or later.. only harsh reality check via Sameer's Maheshwari proposal made her realize it was a dream never to b fulfilled unless chachaji's bharosa won over her love. she was lucky that her love was able to convince abt her bharosa and chachaji cud put faith over her choice and love.. (Uff Ross u don't know how much I hate this destiny word and CVs have made this grt love story out this role of destiny. 😆)
coming back to our situation, so Munna's fear were reasonable , but from CVs point of view didn't hold much value as Naina's real test would start when Sam would ask for her hand and when she would've to face both Sam and her family for her love.

so this is why thy brushed the whole confrontation thing under the carpet and glossed the reunion with the glory of their friendship instead..😆

while its always debatable and controversial the way they went about it..

Bolo ghanta baba ki jai.. 😆