Chachaji - Page 2

I wrote this is another post. Copying the same here.
I don't know why dear forum friends are thinking that Anand is wrong by feeling bad when Naina hide her affair from him.
I am a mother of a 16 year old boy. I will die 1000 deaths at a single moment if my son is hiding something like this for such a long time. I am sure there a lot of parents in this forum. What will be your reaction if your kid is falling in a love affair and hiding it from you for such a long time. Will you appreciate your kid for doing like this or will you scold them. If it happens to me then I will be really depressed and may take days or even weeks to be back to normal. I know that my son will like a girl sometime and he will also have affair but hiding from me for such a long time, I can't think about it. There were situations in which Sameer was going in and out of house freely like a family member and at that time also no one suspected anything. If you see this situation from a parent's eyes then it is clearly a failure of being a parent. You can't even take care of what is happening in your own kid's Life.
Hoping that I made clear of Chachiji's situation through the eyes of a parent.

Originally posted by: LiveLifewLove

Even I didnt like the part where Chachaji said yes for Sharad but when I think I somewhere get this weird feeling that may be he is doing all this to understand more about Sameer and Naina's relationship. It would be difficult for him to go and directly confront her considering 90's timeline and their relationship (he is not biological father for Naina to go and ask directly or may be he is not comfortable in asking and waiting for her to open up).

When he said "Jo bhi kar raha hun bahut soch samajh ke kar raha hun", I felt he is probably creating the same situation to see how Naina will react this time and then probably take a decision as to how Sameer and Naina can be handled..

I am also feeling the same. The way how he was talking to Sameer in precap looks like a way to instigate him to blurt whatever is there in his mind.

Originally posted by: JaySee

I am also feeling the same. The way how he was talking to Sameer in precap looks like a way to instigate him to blurt whatever is there in his mind.

Originally posted by: LiveLifewLove

Even I didnt like the part where Chachaji said yes for Sharad but when I think I somewhere get this weird feeling that may be he is doing all this to understand more about Sameer and Naina's relationship. It would be difficult for him to go and directly confront her considering 90's timeline and their relationship (he is not biological father for Naina to go and ask directly or may be he is not comfortable in asking and waiting for her to open up).

When he said "Jo bhi kar raha hun bahut soch samajh ke kar raha hun", I felt he is probably creating the same situation to see how Naina will react this time and then probably take a decision as to how Sameer and Naina can be handled..

Oh thats a different perspective.May be he wants to test Sameer too as we all know that he knows Sameer is a good boy who had helped them a lot in Pojadis marriage.

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

See it's not about Sharad right now, it's about marrying his daughter in a respectable family. He right now doesnt know that Naina has broken up with Sameer he thinks they are still together, and he fears the worst what if the girl who is in so much love with Sameer that she broke the alliance which her family brought for her, she can go to any extent maybe even elope with her bf. If anything of that sort happens then what would happen to the girl n family. It wouldn't be only about Naina then but the entire family will have to suffer just like the mom of Shefali. Plus he doesn't even know the kind of boy Sameer is, he might actually betray Naina at the later stage and in 90s especially in small cities having a bf was a very big thing if the bf leaves, rarely anyone else would agree for the marriage.

And the only way to save Naina n family from this upcoming distress was get her married at the earliest and the only available option right now was Sharad so that's it.

I don't know why people found it surprising the moment Chachaji read the letters I understood that he would now again try to get Sharad Naina married

Originally posted by: JaySee

I wrote this is another post. Copying the same here.
I don't know why dear forum friends are thinking that Anand is wrong by feeling bad when Naina hide her affair from him.
I am a mother of a 16 year old boy. I will die 1000 deaths at a single moment if my son is hiding something like this for such a long time. I am sure there a lot of parents in this forum. What will be your reaction if your kid is falling in a love affair and hiding it from you for such a long time. Will you appreciate your kid for doing like this or will you scold them. If it happens to me then I will be really depressed and may take days or even weeks to be back to normal. I know that my son will like a girl sometime and he will also have affair but hiding from me for such a long time, I can't think about it. There were situations in which Sameer was going in and out of house freely like a family member and at that time also no one suspected anything. If you see this situation from a parent's eyes then it is clearly a failure of being a parent. You can't even take care of what is happening in your own kid's Life.
Hoping that I made clear of Chachiji's situation through the eyes of a parent.

my experience says mothers with sons are far more possessive than fathers with daughters😆

I am a 90- early 00s kid whose father is a 60s kid. And we have a difference of around 32 years. My dad is always tryibg to probe and findout if i am dating someone.🤣

Originally posted by: Anjali33

If that's the case, he isn't Naina's parent. Parents never think of their child's marriage as a way to get rid of them. He should've instead talked n confronted Naina. And had he started searching another guy for Naina, I wouldn't hv minded. But getting your daughter married to an abusive man just to get rid of her, then you're not a father. Period

Originally posted by: Samaina12

I am a 90- early 00s kid whose father is a 60s kid. And we have a difference of around 32 years. My dad is always tryibg to probe and findout if i am dating someone.🤣

he wouldn't ask directly at all. 🤣

anand babu phir bhi 90s ka father hai.

Don't worry. All parents will do the same. My parents did when I was young and now I am doing it. 😉
This is not for making kids angry or to interfere in their privacy. This is just to make sure that they are not going in a wrong way. Their friends are not someone who will take advantage of kids. So pls don't get feel annoyed when parents ask you those questions.

Originally posted by: JaySee

Don't worry. All parents will do the same. My parents did when I was young and now I am doing it. 😉
This is not for making kids angry or to interfere in their privacy. This is just to make sure that they are not going in a wrong way. Their friends are not someone who will take advantage of kids. So pls don't get feel annoyed when parents ask you those questions.

he never did that when i was a teen. 😆