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Dr.DonnyJohn

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yay! Finally Naina The Brave! 3 Cheers to Naina!

Hi there,

Welcome to my latest analysis. I Was busy over two weeks. So finally caught all the episodes in a single go till the episode where Anand/Naina raised their voice (kudos to them)

Few points before you read the detailed analysis:

1. I request you not to comment - "this is a fiction, just enjoy!"

(We all know that it's a fiction. If that's the only way to view, then there is no need for any forum and discussions)

2. The analysis will delve into the real world scenario. Every story can teach something to young teenagers. Some can be true and some teachings are just false at many levels. So, please keep in mind there will be many reels to real life dichotomy.

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Let's start the analysis:

3 Big Cheers to Naina!

Well, finally the character of Naina was shown to have some degree of courage. Good for her and her family (Anand, Bela, and Preeti)

Whatever may be the reason, Naina was finally able to speak what was in her mind - that she was not ready to marry YET! And Sharad made it easy for her to vent it out by doing the only thing Naina CANNOT tolerate - Insult Anand! But in a way that was required, otherwise, there was no way for the marriage to stop.

So, in that regards, NAINA and to some extent Anand (Redeemed himself).

It is important for Anand Character as you would remember, this was the same man who ditched his wife just because he felt she insulted his brother (Rakesh). From that moment I always felt Anand has different sets of morals/rules - One for others and one set exclusively to be used for Bela. Hence, the revolt of Anand redeemed the character for me.

Naina was also able to redeem herself to some extent (not for anyone else but for herself) by at least voicing out what she wants - to study more!

Mind it - She had already accepted the marriage with Sharad practically. She was just worried about her education (Every girl has the complete right to education) and Sharad's possible attitude. She also had the indication that post-marriage, she would not be able to continue her education. So, Sharad's insult of Anand gave way to that bottled up frustration and Naina finally refused to the marriage.

Hence, when Anand was insulted Naina rose to the occasion and expressed whats in HER MIND!

(Let's leave aside the possible Question - What if Sharad was a Genuinely Good Guy?)

Good for you Naina!

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But the story is not only about how Naina rose to the occasion? The story is not about the rise of Naina alone. It's a proclaimed love story where there is another character called Sameer.

That Sameer whom the writers have shown to have a complete turnaround in character. From being a reckless arrogant and selfish teenager, he has been shown to have grown into a much mature and thinking man - all in his love for Naina.

But the reason we all loved the character of Sameer was the swag and smartness with which he handles the situations. The latest example being the swag with which he handled Naina's Ex - Would be - MIL.

For the larger part of the show till a long time, for me, Naina was a strong and sensible character. However, as the show progresses, with the writers representing the character of Naina the way she is behaving currently, Naina is emerging as an extremely unreliable and troubled character. (when concerned to the person she is romantically involved with - Sameer)

And Sameer is being shown as the boy who is turning his eyes away from every aspect that is clearly visible. Some aspects he can clearly see. Some aspects we as viewers can see.

However, all in all, it seems that the thinking cap of Sameer has completely stopped working. Well, it is possible (with any boy or girl). But, it is not fitting well the character of Sameer that was projected for a long time. He seems completely drowned in the various patterns of Naina, leaving out and forgetting everything else that he can do and should do in his life. Sameer seems to be in a perpetual dreamland, where nothing else exists in his life other than Naina and adjusting to all the actions/decisions of Naina.

One very prominent line that Naina says in the previous episode - "Jab main Chacjaji ke Samman ke Liye Sameer aur uske pyaar ko chodh sakti hoon, then yeh Sharad kya cheej hai!"

I do not know how to react to the above lines by the character of Naina?

I cannot understand if any Naina is PROUD of the fact that she was strong enough to kick out Samee from her life like she did?

I can't decide if one should be sad or worried for Sameer or Happy that Naina has finally awakened?

I cannot decide that if Sameer really does not understand where he stands in the life of Naina or does he knows it and ok with it?

I cannot for any understanding understand where Naina keeps Sameer in her Life?

Why I feel the character of Sameer is completely disposable for Naina.

Why it seems that Sameer is going to be trapped in a situation from where it is difficult to come out?

Sharad insulted Anand so maybe Naina was justified. But the approach she has with Sameer, I would say Sharad had a better deal than Sameer. At least Naina and Sharad are out of each other's life.

But what about Sameer?

We all know how the character of Naina has been behaving with Sameer. If this is the way Naina is going to prioritize someone who loves her wholeheartedly without any ego (without considering the taunts she receives on her status and looks) and always ready to do anything for her to make her happy and uphold her dignity, then I do not understand the definition of Love Naina has!

It seems the only definition Naina has about Love - Do my Bidding! Do what I ask!

Sameer lets fall in love!

Sameer here are the virtues of true love and how it is sacred.

Sameer, do you have Shadi wala love? Sameer Yes I do!

Sameer, let's break up and you leave me alone! You are nothing to me when it comes to my family! (that moment it was the easy way for Naina to break up. It like retiring from cricket when you are at the top and in a power position)

Sameer let's be friends and part on a happy note. (Naina realized the use of Sameer as a friend seeing how he saved her reputation and marriage. He will come handy in future)

In one of the comments (in my another post) a few weeks back Rock & Roll had stated - How real-life characters like Naina (who are oppressed, insulted and derogated from every quarter/person) tend to severely hurt/insult & isolate the only person who might truly love them, by consciously and subconsciously doing the same to that person.

Sameer is the exact same situation right now.

Many would call the post negative. Many will accuse me that I am not enjoying the show. Many will opine that Naina is fighting so many factors.

Many will say and justify that it is the learning phase of Naina. But it seems as though the learning will never end and Sameer is the experiment.

Many will justify saying that Naina is a real-life character showing the reality of a flawed person as we all are. And here I agree with it.

The moment you consider Naina as a flawed real human being then you cannot justify all the mistakes of the character of Naina concerning Sameer giving reasons to justify her actions.

The character of Naina is being held as the epitome of Selfless love. But I am sorry, she is not so.

If anything, the character of Naina has now become cautionary tale for every young lover out there to check out for the warning signs! (due to the inconsistent writing by the authors)

It is the perfect example of how you should identify when you are getting used and reused. It is the red signal to understand that you are just being treated as per the other person's convenience without any consideration for your self-respect. It is warning that you can be ditched anytime depending on whats convenient and important for the other party. It's a mark that you will be made to feel bad and also be told that it is for your betterment.

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(This post is not to hurt anyone's feelings or preference. But how many posts can there be on the virtues of Naina when the character is being presented so inconsistently with major streaks of utter selfishness when it comes to Sameer.

I am irritated that the writers do not realize how they have systematically disrupted the character of Naina under the garb of showing parental pressures and break up. This is not the Naina that everyone connected with.)

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Posted: 7 years ago

Wonderfully written. Regarding Naina's statement that ""Jab main Chacjaji ke Samman ke Liye Sameer aur uske pyaar ko chodh sakti hoon, then yeh Sharad kya cheej hai!"

That clearly shows the prioritization of people in her life. This list keeps changing ..once she gets married, its going to her husband...and then when she becomes a mother , its going to be her child...when she becomes a grandmother, its going to be her grandchild...Its not because she dislikes Sameer , its just that at that phase of life...that's who we view it.

Many a times I have seen my parents trying to cover up for their grandchildren's mischief's ...where as for the same ones we , that is my sis and I have got nicely from our parents...so what has changed ?? They are the same people , is it that they don't love us anymore?? No that's not it...with time they understood , that there is no point in getting angry at certain mischief's ...which they never understood while bringing us up...so with experience perspective changes , we also get to know our strength and weakness ...and start being confident in taking decisions...

I guess with time , she will realize her mistakes and work on it...and so will Sameer understand Naina's stand . I had just made a post abt this..."Winds of Change"

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Wonderfully written. Regarding Naina's statement that ""Jab main Chacjaji ke Samman ke Liye Sameer aur uske pyaar ko chodh sakti hoon, then yeh Sharad kya cheej hai!"

That clearly shows the prioritization of people in her life. This list keeps changing ..once she gets married, its going to her husband...and then when she becomes a mother , its going to be her child...when she becomes a grandmother, its going to be her grandchild...Its not because she dislikes Sameer , its just that at that phase of life...that's who we view it.

Many a times I have seen my parents trying to cover up for their grandchildren's mischief's ...where as for the same ones we , that is my sis and I have got nicely from our parents...so what has changed ?? They are the same people , is it that they don't love us anymore?? No that's not it...with time they understood , that there is no point in getting angry at certain mischief's ...which they never understood while bringing us up...so with experience perspective changes , we also get to know our strength and weakness ...and start being confident in taking decisions...

I guess with time , she will realize her mistakes and work on it...and so will Sameer understand Naina's stand . I had just made a post abt this..."Winds of Change"

Hi WRTW

Thank you for commenting on the post. I just went through your post.

You have raised some sensible points.

What you stated is true. No one expects Naina to replace Anand with Sameer. That is not possible. You are right when you say Naina's priority will change with time. Once she is to the married life, Sameer will become the priority.

But there are also incidences, when it does not happen. The time, medium and relation status will change but the traits of the persons do not. The streak that each one has continues for the better or otherwise.

I agree the basic difference in our view may arise due to gender predilection.

Its always the tussle whether to give a person repeated chances even after seeing how they behave consistently at present or sticking with the person hoping for the desired changes. No one can say which approach is correct and it will vary from individual to individual.

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Posted: 7 years ago

I don't agree to your analysis of Sameer's character and Naina's character. Frankly, the way you have written your post made me think twice before replying as it felt that you are not open for any other view point.

I will not even defend or say anything in favour of Naina. It feels that you have decided to judge each and every action of her in negative way.. so no point saying anything..

But on Sameer, yes he was shown as a arrogant spoiled brat. But from episode one, he was also shown to be a caring friend who chose to get expelled from school than to tell his friends name..

He was always shown to be a person who could do anything for his friends as he didn't have any family apart from Nanu, so his friends were the closet people for him and only people who loved him and cared for him. So whatever he is doing for Naina is his character.

On Anand, yes he is the same person who asked Bela to leave the house when she insulted his brother.. but he didn't do it out of choice. When you have to make a difficult choice, you try to choose which you think is right or choose the one which causes less damage and When you have to choose between two wrong, you would choose the one which is least wrong. In that situation Rakesh was wrong in blowing it out of proportion but was right in being upset over his insult. Bela was wrong in spilling the beans on that matter when she was warned multiple times. Being a life partner doesnt mean to support each other in their mistake but to make each other realize the mistake and correct it. I think whatever he did in that situation was justified. If someone was wrong, it was Rakesh and Bela.

Again, I think you are being over critical of Naina and hence only see all her actions to find what was wrong in that. Try to see what was right in that action, I am sure you will find it.

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Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb
I don't agree to your analysis of Sameer's character and Naina's character. Frankly, the way you have written your post made me think twice before replying as it felt that you are not open for any other view point.
I will not even defend or say anything in favour of Naina. It feels that you have decided to judge each and every action of her in negative way.. so no point saying anything..

But on Sameer, yes he was shown as a arrogant spoiled brat. But from episode one, he was also shown to be a caring friend who chose to get expelled from school than to tell his friends name..
He was always shown to be a person who could do anything for his friends as he didn't have any family apart from Nanu, so his friends were the closet people for him and only people who loved him and cared for him. So whatever he is doing for Naina is his character.

On Anand, yes he is the same person who asked Bela to leave the house when she insulted his brother.. but he didn't do it out of choice. When you have to make a difficult choice, you try to choose which you think is right or choose the one which causes less damage and When you have to choose between two wrong, you would choose the one which is least wrong. In that situation Rakesh was wrong in blowing it out of proportion but was right in being upset over his insult. Bela was wrong in spilling the beans on that matter when she was warned multiple times. Being a life partner doesnt mean to support each other in their mistake but to make each other realize the mistake and correct it. I think whatever he did in that situation was justified. If someone was wrong, it was Rakesh and Bela.

Again, I think you are being over critical of Naina and hence only see all her actions to find what was wrong in that. Try to see what was right in that action, I am sure you will find it.

I completely agree with you..I mean it just shows different sides of a character and that's more realistic because even in real life people have different traits and this is what's the CVS are portraying..Every desicion Naina takes or Sameer there's depth to it and we just need to see the positivity and negativity of it both, then judge

A lot of people can relate to Naina in their teenage years and when a boy comes along obviously sometimes your priorities change and sometimes it doesn't it depends on the person that's all it is..so like Naina is right in her own way for her..and I do think you're completely right of seeing the positivity into things

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hi and thanks to all for commenting and sharing views.

I was knowing that I am in the minority section regarding the views I present.

However, the writers are still flowing the route of presenting Naina as distant from Sameer as possible. In all the actions of Naina in the previous multiple episodes, there is no Samiana or We. It has only been the individual decisions of Naina (completely not considering Sameer's predicament) and then Sameer adjusting to her decisions.

For example, consider today's episode:

Until unless Naina is shown to have a clarity of thoughts regarding Sameer, the scenario realistically can never improve.

Writers are making Sameer appear like a boy who has lost all sense of practicality and timing. He is completely choosing to ignore all the actions/decisions of Naina and how it is creating ripple effects in his life affecting his own family.

Again it becomes about Naina and Chachaji. Initially it was about Naina and rest. Clarity needs to be restored by the writers. The character of Naina needs to be realigned. It is not possible that Naina has completely fallen in to friendzone and Naina needs to again realise the love of Sameer 😆

Munna was 100% right in his thinking and his fears of Sameer getting sidelined again.

I have been mentioning the same in my previous posts and this post with fair amount of backlash by many viewers. But, if Naina can be this practical then Sameer should also have a reality check.

Writers please restore the balance of Naina's character and stop showing Sameer devoid of even 1% of practical sense for his own good. (At least that's how it should be in real life scenario)

I hope now many users will comprehend the point I am trying to put forth.

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Originally posted by: Dr.Don
Hi and thanks to all for commenting and sharing views.

I was knowing that I am in the minority section regarding the views I present.

However, the writers are still flowing the route of presenting Naina as distant from Sameer as possible. In all the actions of Naina in the previous multiple episodes, there is no Samiana or We. It has only been the individual decisions of Naina (completely not considering Sameer's predicament) and then Sameer adjusting to her decisions.

For example, consider today's episode:

Until unless Naina is shown to have a clarity of thoughts regarding Sameer, the scenario realistically can never improve.

Writers are making Sameer appear like a boy who has lost all sense of practicality and timing. He is completely choosing to ignore all the actions/decisions of Naina and how it is creating ripple effects in his life affecting his own family.

Again it becomes about Naina and Chachaji. Initially it was about Naina and rest. Clarity needs to be restored by the writers. The character of Naina needs to be realigned. It is not possible that Naina has completely fallen in to friendzone and Naina needs to again realise the love of Sameer 😆

Munna was 100% right in his thinking and his fears of Sameer getting sidelined again.

I have been mentioning the same in my previous posts and this post with fair amount of backlash by many viewers. But, if Naina can be this practical then Sameer should also have a reality check.

Writers please restore the balance of Naina's character and stop showing Sameer devoid of even 1% of practical sense for his own good. (At least that's how it should be in real life scenario)

I hope now many users will comprehend the point I am trying to put forth.

well you have a valid point and I do agree with you on many levels if not all... yes Naina's behavior towards Sameer was odd.. though I didn't expect her to be all lovey dovey with Sameer the very next day but how she was talking felt like a distant friend and not someone she was in a relationship for years.. that was very odd and yes Sameer again somehow thinking she has done this for him and choosing not to remember what she said that its for her family...and still forgetting that the reason still exists without Sharad in picture was a little insane. I was hoping Munna would say that.. out loud that the reason for their breakup was her family and not Sharad... but he never did and Sameer chose to not be practical about it and jump to conclusions...

Yes today it was a little weird dynamics between all characters..

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Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb
I don't agree to your analysis of Sameer's character and Naina's character. Frankly, the way you have written your post made me think twice before replying as it felt that you are not open for any other view point.
I will not even defend or say anything in favour of Naina. It feels that you have decided to judge each and every action of her in negative way.. so no point saying anything..

But on Sameer, yes he was shown as a arrogant spoiled brat. But from episode one, he was also shown to be a caring friend who chose to get expelled from school than to tell his friends name..
He was always shown to be a person who could do anything for his friends as he didn't have any family apart from Nanu, so his friends were the closet people for him and only people who loved him and cared for him. So whatever he is doing for Naina is his character.

On Anand, yes he is the same person who asked Bela to leave the house when she insulted his brother.. but he didn't do it out of choice. When you have to make a difficult choice, you try to choose which you think is right or choose the one which causes less damage and When you have to choose between two wrong, you would choose the one which is least wrong. In that situation Rakesh was wrong in blowing it out of proportion but was right in being upset over his insult. Bela was wrong in spilling the beans on that matter when she was warned multiple times. Being a life partner doesnt mean to support each other in their mistake but to make each other realize the mistake and correct it. I think whatever he did in that situation was justified. If someone was wrong, it was Rakesh and Bela.

Again, I think you are being over critical of Naina and hence only see all her actions to find what was wrong in that. Try to see what was right in that action, I am sure you will find it.

Hi Priya, I read your comment today in detail.

As you mentioned you had to think twice before replying to the post.

However, as it seems I am representing a minority POV, I was confused is it worth responding to comments. But then again, your comment has some points that I feel that I need to explain in regards to those points. Also, it is always better to get the thoughts to discussion rather than keeping those as thoughts.

So, here are my ramblings to your comments.

I will quote the section of your comment and provide the response to it.

(Please note that that all the basis of the discussion are because we assume the show close to our perceived reality. Otherwise there is no point to any discussion for any character)

Your Quote 1:

I will not even defend or say anything in favour of Naina. It feels that you have decided to judge each and every action of her in negative way.. so no point saying anything..

My Answer:

The moment you make up your mind that I have already judged anything absolutely, at that instant you are your self getting in to a bias. You feel that my observation is biased compared to your POV. Or indirectly my assumption cannot be right when compared to your analysis.

I reiterate that, when it comes to human emotion, nothing is absolute. We all predict based on many factors. And in the end the subject will do what feels right to him/her at that moment. So, I do not say that my opinions are absolute and you also should not presume that, I am pre deliberating all action of Naina as negative.

However, I stated what I felt in the particular sequence. My POV is not very diplomatic. We all aspire for the future positive changes. However, decisions can be made only on the basis of present actions. If the present actions are hinting in nature but not decisive enough, then one needs to wait to grasp the pattern of actions to finally form an opinion.

My current opinion is based on the pattern that - Since previous multiple episodes, Naina has been acting and behaving as if she is the only one with the power to make any decision when it comes to Sameer. None of her decisions were in the WE or SAMAINA MODE. All her decisions (involving Sameer) were in complete ME mode utterly disregarding the effects on Sameer. Nanina was so much in the ME mode that all her actions she was justifying as Sameer's good - which was just to make herself belief that she is right. (when she is actually not).

Infact her actions where completely in tune with her thought process leading to the path of least resistance - which is Sameer. Its easy for her to ditch him and he is perhaps the only man in her life at present who is romantically weak for her. (please note she herself has underlying inferiority complex due to constant insults by the Agarwal family)

So, unlike others Sameer is weaker emotionally in front of her and she knows she can do as she wills when it comes to Sameer (as he will inherently wouldn't be able to oppose her. Naina has the emotional power position in between them)

Naina has all the right to think about her family and then at the same time, but she also has responsibility towards the boy around whom she was always present with Shadi Wala Pyaar for multiple years now. Naina always basked in the happiness of the love she received from Sameer but the moment of 1st real resistance, she chose the option that is easier to handle and that is to dump Sameer.

What Naina did practical decision which will be easier to handle for her when the time comes. Also, she wants to break it early as she hopes to lesses her pain by the time her marriage issue starts at home. That is being practical and thinking for herself at the same time (being selfish from a lover Sameer's pov but practically correct)

And when the time came that she had sufficiently moved ahead to marry another man (it does not matter whether she likes it or not. She was anyway going to marry Sharad), she felt that now she is comfortable to have Sameer as a friend. (Future use may be)

As for your notion that, I am inherently being negative about Naina. I will respectfully say that you are absolutely wrong.

Naina is the character that drew me to the show. It was the representation of her character, innocence and selflessness, that moved me so much that I wrote my entire teenage love experience that I hardly had shared with anyone. In that entire story, you will only find support for Naina and the effects she will have due to the wrong action of Sameer for placing a bet a Girl's emotion of love. After reading the story, you might say I am Anti Sameer too. If you feel like then you may read the story here Feels of Teenage Love - 90s true story. If you do not want to read, then I told you the theme of the story.

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Your Quote 2:

But on Sameer, yes he was shown as a arrogant spoiled brat. But from episode one, he was also shown to be a caring friend who chose to get expelled from school than to tell his friends name..

My Answer:

You have completely assumed the wrong impression. Let me clarify. Yes, Sameer is a spoilt brat and arrogant and SELFISH.

But Its not selfish in conventional terms. Sameer is Selfish for the happiness of the people who are in his close quarters. People whom he feels are his own. Hence he might be arrogant for others, but for the people who are close to him, he will go to any extent to safeguard their happiness and well being. In that regard he is selfish. (you gave the example how he saved his friends by himself getting expelled)

But for the people he is not close to he is arrogant. He was that arrogant with Naina when he felt that Naina is causing him and his family a lot of insult. He was out for vengeance.

But over time when Sameer fell in love with Naina and accepted her as her closet (family), he had been doing everything to make her happy and successful. He showed immense change in his thinking and kept on supporting her. Naina also helped her be constantly reminding Sameer about her love as the beacon to move ahead.

But, in contrast, Naina also let Sameer get extremely close to her emotionally. (in way making him dependant over her due to Sameer's past emotional issues). However, even after letting the boy get so close, she cut him off, when she felt there might not be a future. She deduced it not worth even a thought to work it out.

So, What I meant was that Sameer's selfishness was for the happiness of the people close to him. He was very selfish in regards to maintain that. However, over the time Naina appears to be selfish only as per her prerogatives. (when it is related to Sameer with whom she is romantically involved) Its always either her way or the get out of the way! when it comes to Sameer. From love to ditching to lets be JUST Friends ! (I have already explained it in my post)

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Your Quote 3: (Topic of Anand)

My Answer:

Now, here you had me completely stumped. I couldn't fathom that you were indirectly or directly justifying the action of Anand for threatening his wife to throw her out of their house. I mean really! You feel that Anand's action was justified !😲

Being a male, I can understand why Anand might have behaved that way with Bela. He felt Bela insulted his brother. He felt Bela betrayed her.

But even then, inspite of being a male, I cannot fully justify the action of Anand threatening to his wife of more than 20 years (who has given her everything to his life and making his family) to throw her out of the house and break their relation.

Where would Bela go? Would she live on the road? What about Bela's dignity?

All for the respect of his elder brother, who Anand knows that has the habit of creating issues. Yes, Anand would be hurt. That's acceptable as he was indebted to Rakesh.

So, Anand was expected to find a way to resolve the situation. It would be difficult. But that is his duty! Right? He might be angry with Bela, but threatening to break the relation and leave her alone cannot be justified. Its just hits at the point that - "Bela you are Weak as You Do not Earn! & Do as I say or I will threaten you to do that"

You would remember the recent dialogue from Bela to Naina: "When it comes to Ego, a husband never considers his wife" From where do you feel such emotion came up in Bela. Because, she remembers. Bela might love Anand and Vice Versa! But when it comes to Ego, Anand also behaves the same like many other males by threatening to throw her out.

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If you or any reader read this long answer till now, then it was in response to Priyanka's comment on my post. Rather than being overcritical, I am expressing my POVs in response to what I see in the story progression and Naina character graph.

Being Selfish is not bad! We all need to be so many times over.

Being selfish with the proclaimed love of your life is little different. One may put any cover on it, but still Naina is being selfish currently with Sameer.

And I just pointed out the selfishness which the writers are either showing without knowing or they are too much in to showing Naina the oppressed one that they are in turn making her look cold, practical and selfish (in regards to Sameer)

Closing lines to Priyanka's comment:

Until unless Naina is shown to have a clarity of thoughts regarding Sameer, the scenario realistically can never improve.

Writers are making Sameer appear like a boy who has lost all sense of practicality and timing. He is completely choosing to ignore all the actions/decisions of Naina and how it is creating ripple effects in his life affecting his own family.

Again it becomes about Naina and Chachaji. Initially it was about Naina and rest. Clarity needs to be restored by the writers. The character of Naina needs to be realigned. It is not possible that Naina has completely fallen in to friendzone and Naina needs to again realise the love of Sameer 😆

Munna was 100% right in his thinking and his fears of Sameer getting sidelined again. As he is seeing the abject selfishness in which Naina is behaving but Sameer is currently not in any sense it seems to realize that. He is soon going to propose again. And high chances Naina will again sideline him (until unless Naina has the clarity in her mind or the courage to accept that she Loves Sameer in front of Anand)

I have been mentioning the same in my previous posts and this post with fair amount of backlash by many viewers. But, if Naina can be this practical/selfish then Sameer should also have a reality check.

Writers please restore the balance of Naina's character and stop showing Sameer devoid of even 1% of practical sense for his own good. (At least that's how it should be in real life scenario)

I hope now many users will comprehend the point I am trying to put forth.

Edited by Dr.Don - 7 years ago

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Posted: 7 years ago

@ Vira

Thanks for you even views. And you have stated some pertinent and valid points. As you stated there are visible disconnect in sequences and the characters are required to be streamlined. Otherwise it's all appearing too mismatched. 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Hi Doc I went and read your story with the link u had given. I am sure the present track must be so relatable to you.

Sameer and Naina both are behaving very unrelatable. And the frinedhsip thing is beyond my understanding..I can only say that its for the Cvs to give some breather to the fans otherwise it doesnt fit the story or characters. So I dont think we can consider Naina doing it for selfish purpose. I feel thats is she could offer to SAameer at this point.

And coming to Naina giving up on SAmeer ..I found it too quick and her composure irritates me. The CVs should have shown her guilty and given some dialogues where she cries for the pain she is putting Sameer into. I hope when Naina rejects Sameer again he comes back to some sense.

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Yay! Finally Naina The Brave! But Still SELFISH

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