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Excellent post. You have explained a complicated issue in such beautiful words. I agree 100% to all your points.
Until now Naina never felt that she was doing anything wrong by being in love with Sameer. But for the first time she felt that she is doing something wrong and she is bringing shame to the family.
When love gives you strength and courage to fight with the world, it can give pain also. When we were kids never understood why parents are keeping an eye on all our activities, on all our issues even on our friends also. But now, when I am a mother of a teenager, I can clearly understand the reason. They were protecting us so that we won't suffer any problems that may affect our studies and future. In fact I started valuing and loving them more and more after I became a mother.
I agree with your point on comparison. Be a love relationship or a marriage relationship or even with kids also we should never compare them with others. The moment it starts issues between those associated will also start. Even for households also, if a husband is comparing the cooking skills of own wife with someone else's then the problems will start from there. Similar with wife also. If she is comparing romantic gestures that her husband is showing with someone else's then very soon friction can start in their relationship. Same with kids also. If we compare a kid with someone else, let it be own sibling, it will be the start of issues for that kid.
Because not only relationship, every single person in this world is unique. One can't do all activities done by others. One relationship can't have same intensity as other's.
Seema
Until now Naina never felt that she was doing anything wrong by being in love with Sameer. But for the first time she felt that she is doing something wrong and she is bringing shame to the family.
When love gives you strength and courage to fight with the world, it can give pain also. When we were kids never understood why parents are keeping an eye on all our activities, on all our issues even on our friends also. But now, when I am a mother of a teenager, I can clearly understand the reason. They were protecting us so that we won't suffer any problems that may affect our studies and future. In fact I started valuing and loving them more and more after I became a mother.
I agree with your point on comparison. Be a love relationship or a marriage relationship or even with kids also we should never compare them with others. The moment it starts issues between those associated will also start. Even for households also, if a husband is comparing the cooking skills of own wife with someone else's then the problems will start from there. Similar with wife also. If she is comparing romantic gestures that her husband is showing with someone else's then very soon friction can start in their relationship. Same with kids also. If we compare a kid with someone else, let it be own sibling, it will be the start of issues for that kid.
Because not only relationship, every single person in this world is unique. One can't do all activities done by others. One relationship can't have same intensity as other's.
Seema
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