Every Relationship is UNIQUE AND BEAUTIFUL!!

Love is eternal. Love is Freedom. Love is beautiful. Love is Pure. Love is Serene. Love is peace. Love is Happiness. Love is God. So why is that when young people fall in love , parents get angry , they get irritated or they say its not right or it brings shame to the family??? Its because love can be painful too!!

But how ?? When you get ditched , when you get trapped into some mess , when boys/girls misuse your affection, when people make use of you on the name of affection, when people become obsessed with a person on the name of love...then the very same love because painful !! And its from this pain that our dear and near ones want to save us.

If they tell all this , you will never understand , you will argue and you will think your parents are too orthodox to understand the concept of love. They are not against Love , they fear the pain that Love can /might bring in.

Today , we saw Sameer and Naina getting caught in the cinema hall. When we look at it , we feel whats wrong in it. But from a parent's perspective , the first thing that pops up in their mind is fear. And this part of fear is never understood by kids till they become parents...lol...

So does that mean one should never fall in love?? No , I wouldn't say that . You should by all means fall in love, but only after you are sure that will be able to handle the complications that come along with it. Know your limitations, don't get carried away. Sameer and Naina till date never got caught is because they knew their limitations and hence they behaved accordingly. They planned their meetings in way that suited them. Now with Munna and Swathi in love and the speed with which they are progressing is kind of making Sameer restless. What they need to understand is , EVERY COUPLE IS UNIQUE!! Naina is not Swathi and Naina's family is different from Swathi's. And Swathi is used to telling lies and escaping. So did Sameer and Naina feel that their relationship is not as good as Swathi's and Munna's??

This is the mistake that most couples make. They always loose the best time of their life by trying to imitate what other couples are doing ...and do they enjoy it ?? I doubt ... Its not just about respecting each others likes and dislikes , its also about accepting your partner limitations .

Another point is one should know whom to trust. Swathi might be her friend but should have had a word with Preethi , reason Preethi is her sister , she will be a better judge when it comes to Naina's life than Swathi. She need not take Preethi along with her and I am sure Preethi would have understood, but at least should have informed her. This is the second time Naina is making this mistake . To keep Preethi away from her love life. In fact its Preethi who helped her to see Sameer s love in the right perspective. Sadly she always rely on Swathi..I have never understood why but most people in love always rely friends than their own sister or brother.

Munna , is Sameer's best friend , but his need to watch a movie with Swathi is what led to this. He knew Swathi would nt come alone and he himself was hesitant to go alone with her...so he instigated Sameer to bring Naina ...and finally what happened??!! Don't you think they would have sat at college more peacefully than in the theater ??

Your relationship is yours , don't allow other's thoughts to corrupt your mind. Live your life with your partner according to the way you want and Never compare !!

Always keep in mind that your relationship is UNIQUE AND BEAUTIFUL!!😉 😉

Nice post.I totally agree with your point .It's this hurriedness which caused the mess.As a parent restrit ions I can now understand. Not all boys are like sameer and as as parent to a daughter I can identify with chachi and even tai ji. Yes too much of restrictions are not healthy but way too much freedom for youngsters with immaturity are leading to disasters. Naina and sameer both are mature and know there boundaries. And yes naina not telling preeti I also didn't liked.today's dialouges of preeti were so apt.and somewhere this also makes preeti way more selfless character.Today's episode was so real except the slap in think was too much in a public place.

Very nicely described...

Wow yaar it's really nice and wanted update. Totally agree with you. Samaina are entirely different from swamun. Till date they were not caught but today it's all because munna's idea sameer took that move nor he will never force naina for anything. It was evident in several situations when he was seeing her photo and missing her before the bike ride he didn't let out his feelings when she asked. He entirely respect her limits and controls his desires. The things you shared about love is really useful in real life and it is the truth most of us won't accept till we get hurt. A great post and loved reading this. Sorry for typo and grammatical errors

I love the way Samiana relationship is growing. It is beautiful .

you have perfectly summed up today's epi... yes samaina were progressing in their own limited space... and i agree naina always keeps preeti out of her love life who knows her the best... she has always managed to save naina... her advice should be imp but naina doesnt takes it only... munna is so excited about his love story that he is only thinking about himself... he wanted to be with swati but knew she wouldnt come alone so he instigated sam... friend ki har baat manna zaroori toh nahiin one should think as well.. but it was a learning for them...

I totally agree each and every words ,Both samaina and Swamun relations differently progressing and somewhere u does mistakes without any knowledge .And I think these are the learning process for samaina relationship and they don't repeat these kind of mistakes again .

I have no words left to say and i agree with watever u have written in this insight of their relation..

👏OMG !!!wow u r amazing writter such a beauitful post .each and every word is wirtten beautifully and each word is true Thanks sharing with us .

Beautiful beautiful post..👏