Detachment in Attachment

"Don't tell Pandit, Preethi and Kamya, varna hamere sath chipak jayenge!!
How many of you noticed this dialogue?? Did you think that he was being selfish?? Yes he was...but that's how it is when in love..he was selfish not because he hated his friends, he was selfish because he wanted some lone time with his Naina. To experience this new found feeling...a feeling of intimacy that he is been feeling for her...they are growing up and slowly their needs are not just love and friendship..there is more to it ...which needs a lil privacy ..very natural!!

This is very common thing that happens when two people fall in love. They have no eyes/ears for people around them. When a son gets married , his attention is for his new bride, parents feel left out...When your elder sister gets married or is engaged, she is always on the phone or have gone out with her to be man , and forgets coming out with you for evening walk which you have shared from childhood with her...When a daughter falls in love , she calls her new found love for help and forgets that her dad was the one who has been helping her always...well there are many more to add...is it wrong that suddenly your son/sis/daughter finds their partners important than you?? NOPE!! Because that's the law of nature..thats when you need to give them that space so that their love evolves...and give them time..when they are comfortable and confident of their relationship everything will fall back into place...

So in any relationship there will come a time when you will have to detach yourselves from your loved ones a lil ...so that they can bring in a new member to the family or friendship circle.

Beautifully shown ...loved it today...

Beautiful post and all that you have said is so true!

It is the natural progression of things. I know the people left behind resent it at times. But the intention of those embarking on a new journey is not to hurt those who have been their companions till that point in time.

Loved how realistic they kept it today. The moment SwaMunna became a couple Sameer now has a friend who can identify with his need to spend time with his girl. And there is courage in numbers! Kal tak Naina ko movie date ke liye poochne Ki himmat nahi thi.. par aaj ekdum mission pe lag gaya! 🤣

Apt post Ashu...Finally Sam taking the right steps to ensure sme private moments wit his gal...Nothn rong...Frends ,F*Ly n all become secondary wen new feelings .new relationship...new journey precedes over the other existing thing...!Its actually not leaving anyone behind but beginnng of...stabilizing a world with ur partner! Very natural n realistic approach...Wat im loving is Sam now has a partner whom he can openly discuss the pros n cons in their relationship ..n tat is Munna...😆!!Like both r each others mirror now🤣

This is gonna b one of my fave posts of this forum...i am gonna save it n always remember it..thanks for this amazing post..i made a similar post but urs is really really so nice n so much to learn frm it..love it👏

Balance and compromise are the essential when it comes to using time in every relationship,we cherish. A mix of time with friends and family, time together as a couple, and separate time for each partner add to marital quality, as does an equal split between our circle and activities and those of our partner.

IT's beautiful post .really the way u said is all true.ur post always has somewhere true talks which we all feel .Thanks

Beautiful post ,and the points u mentioned are actually true ...Balancing all the relation is necessary ,nothing wrong in spending time with ur partner alone and it's good Sameer actually now thinking like same

We well said. Your post is absolutely true. There is nothing wrong in demanding some lone moments and privacy with your partner. Then only they can pay a solid base for the new relation. Unfortunately people never realize or understand the importance of such moments between couple especially in those days. Even it is difficult to have these moments for newly married couple.
This kind of detachment from your existing environment is there all along our life. When a kid is in nursery he needs a lot of help from his mother in all activities of his life. But as he grow older, a mother's or an elder's involvement in his day to day life is also slowly reducing. When he reaches college he will prefer to spend more time with his friends than his parents. And when he marries or when he is in a relation that detachment further increases. All these are not because that the kid is not loving his parents. It is because that now his day to day studies and other activities need help from more people and his responsibility towards his peers and society also increases. This is the law of life. If a parent can understand and accept it then it will be easier for children or else they will get sandwiched between parents and his other responsibilities and this can diminish his true potential.

Like sumeet said in the launch interview, when he would be with shashi he would not bother about friends, and vice versa..