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Posted: 7 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: dixie123


Sameer didn't get angry because he thought Naina was flirting with some other guy. That kind of thought never occured to him at all. The way Pandit explained is what Sameer felt. That pose was supposed to be for him in their private moment not a public moment because this photographer got to see her in that pose.



I agree completely with what you said. One more point to be added, Sameer should have told Naina that he wasn't comfortable with Naina posing in front of Public/Photographers. Instead of shouting, he could have mentioned what he likes and what he does not like as this could have been a smarter option rather than shouting/yelling at her/ being possessive/keeping quiet. all these did not solve nor make her understand what was really going inside Sameer's mind & she did not understand what mistakes she committed. She was waiting eagerly for Sameer & he also wanted to meet his Friend/GF. When he said he had haq on Naina, he should have taken the liberty to tell her as well. When he had haq to shout on her, then why did he not understand that he should have spoken to her in the first place? Because most of the problems will get solved if they talk freely and openly by understanding each other. If they did not understand, they have to be even more clear & vocal with each other. Naina is a nice understanding girl as she comes from a joint family with different minded people & she gets along well with everybody. So, Sameer is more dear to her & why couldn't he understand this aspect?

In real world, we see these types of situations occurring & because of that, they keep doing weird stuff which doesn't make sense to the other person as to why they are doing. Instead of telling in 3rd person point of view, Sameer should have talked with her openly.

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Posted: 7 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: MadhuriKanak



I agree completely with what you said. One more point to be added, Sameer should have told Naina that he wasn't comfortable with Naina posing in front of Public/Photographers. Instead of shouting, he could have mentioned what he likes and what he does not like as this could have been a smarter option rather than shouting/yelling at her/ being possessive/keeping quiet. all these did not solve nor make her understand what was really going inside Sameer's mind & she did not understand what mistakes she committed. She was waiting eagerly for Sameer & he also wanted to meet his Friend/GF. When he said he had haq on Naina, he should have taken the liberty to tell her as well. When he had haq to shout on her, then why did he not understand that he should have spoken to her in the first place? Because most of the problems will get solved if they talk freely and openly by understanding each other. If they did not understand, they have to be even more clear & vocal with each other. Naina is a nice understanding girl as she comes from a joint family with different minded people & she gets along well with everybody. So, Sameer is more dear to her & why couldn't he understand this aspect?

In real world, we see these types of situations occurring & because of that, they keep doing weird stuff which doesn't make sense to the other person as to why they are doing. Instead of telling in 3rd person point of view, Sameer should have talked with her openly.

😊




Yes he shd have done that.But He didnt because he has flaws & thats what VO said.We learn from our experiences.Both will learn .It is not easy to understand a man & that too like Sameer who had an insecured childhood.He do have insecurity issues I have good experience of that.I would tell you a guy who loves & is committed to you will be possessive however mature he becomes.Yes the way they show that changes with age & they understand how to make his girl undersatnd. Sameer will also learn.Only thing is he shd have not returned to Delhi so soon without meeting Munna & Pandit.But again he is not in a good frame of mind.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#53
Possessive for sure..brings back memories in mount abu when sameer was the only one who took naina photos..so he was possessive for a long time..now it's open👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
#54
It was a good episode for me i enjoyed their meet and munna pandit scenees r lovely to watch
Ur post makes the episode more beautiful..
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Posted: 7 years ago
#55
Hi Nivi, nice post as always. Hope you are doing good now.
Episode started very nice nicely, M& P concern for naina, naina sams meeting, twirl with handhold, imaginations scenes were all done brilliantly. Sameer ka gussa was justified from where he stands emotinally now. I dont say he is right but dont we all do it sometimes. I mean when we are really stressed and pushed to a corner by our circumstances we remove all our frustations on our near ones. A small thing is enough to trigger that kind of a reaction whether that thing is big or small makes no sense then. We just remove our frustrations that is bottled up inside and we take the liberty to do it only with the ones we love (mostly hubby, children). I think we all have gone through that kind of a situation in our lives. After a while we calm down and then realise and reason that this kind of a reaction was nit justified and could have been avoided. Then we go and apologise and makeup. I think sam also is in that state now. So much of stress in delhi and he had nowhere to vent and then he sees the pic and thats it. He lost it. I think he will realise it soon and then apologise to naina and make it up for her (radio song dedication). His suddenly returning to delhi needs explanation, lets see what cvs have.

Nainas condition is same. We thought that failure will be a jhatka to bring her out but seems that we are wrong afterall. Now our hopes are on shanthi mam.I only hope we wont be dissapointed this time.This should not be like we hoped from so many things from Rohan. we thought he will help with phone, then we thought he heard sams night conversations, he gave money and so on but nothing happened. He still has no role to play so far. All our assumptions are coming in @Vibha07's category 8. When will things progress i dont know.

Vishaka toh samajh mein nahi aati. Why she always shows concern for sameer when he is not around or he cant see. Why cant she show him some love and concern when he can see it and feel it. Hope him getting lost will give her some reality check.
I dont want to speak abt daadi.

M & P are best friends as always. I hope sameer meets them before he goes back.

CVs ka timeline locha ke baare mein kya kehna. I think they have doremoen's time machine and they keep going back and forth with it. Hence they dont know what time they are presently in.

Thanks nivi for your thread. I look forward to your thread as much as i look forward for the episodes.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#56
Nivi, kahan thi tum kal??
MunDit apne marks Naina ko de dete😆 their scenes r funny but it always shows how much they care for their friends..Naina n Sameer😳
Munna n Preeti😆 tumhara naam to Munni hona chahiye🤣

Naina was so disheartened about her result..but as soon as she sensed that Sameer has come, she forgot all her sorrows n tension..she was so happy on his return!!😳

The twirl made a comeback..but this time, unhone haath pakad liye ek dusre k😃 that clasp of their hands was full of pheeels

Their imagination was also beautiful..when they were running around d table, I was like Naina, maar usko duster utha k😆

Sameer was cribbing like a kid..koi bhi yehi bolta ki bhai baal hi h..phir se badh jaenge..y spoil d moment😊
But phir wo photo dekh k volcano phut gya
But I loved his possessiveness..Jahan pyaar hai wahan possessiveness bhi hogi hi😃

All n all I liked d episode😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

Mine. The language of love is like that, possessive. That should be the first warning that it's not going to encourage anyone's betterment..--Holly Black

It was all about Sameer Baba getting angry for perspective 'bhavras' buzzing around his Naina..Boy really went in flames.😈

Also saw a bit of 'ego' thing..All he wanted to pick up the photo and take away but ego took over and left..

Bechari Naina,Preethi,Swati left confused how Naina failed and why Sameer was furious..Like charges repel each other but also understand each other..😳

But one thing is clear..They mostly Sameer has realised that chains do not keep a relationship together..rather its hundreds of threads made up of love,control,patience and understanding sewed together that keeps a relationship alive for years.

In recent classes we were doing Lolita by Nabokov.One line that came in there and perfectly sums up today's epi encompassing Sameer and then Munna's reaction and a bit of Pandit's--

''I would fight of course. Oh, I would fight. Better destroy everything than surrender her.''

And our Professor said a beautiful thing-- Bright Minds!(He calls us this) Remember possesiveness and jealousy is for babies..Maturity is knowing and understanding none owns anyone.😳

And on a side note,I am happy they played that 'Jaaye tum jaaye jahan' song..That movie is my Dad's favourite and also Urmila's characters name is 'Minu'.😆

Thank you Nivi for the analyses and lovely caps...

With love-
Minu.



Minu...meant to respond earlier but got caught up with some work..

A very subtle post..and a beautiful one at that .and I hope the readers in this thread take it up for discussion..

Short on time so will try to keep it brief

1) As I see it.. the issue is not why Sameer commented the way he did.. one may find any number of ways to justify it in the narrative.. the times, his state of mind, his age, his inexperience, general sexist prevalent attitudes etc but the more important thing is as viewers can we recognise the real issue in this form of "benevolent sexism"? . Since one can't control the lustful attitudes of sexual predators in society... are we justifying the aspect of "acceptable" norms of behaviour for women simply becos it is an easier solution? This was a conditioned response in those times and before but it is more surprising it is so in this day and age.

2) let us remember this is not about"possessiveness" which is inherent in love.. the feeling of belonging and wanting to belong exclusively to the one we love..As Minu put it beautifully, maturity is in knowing that in love no one owns anyone!!

Also I concur with Kshithi's views on this

Happy to discuss and explain my views. 😊
Thanks Nivi for providing the space
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Posted: 7 years ago
#58
Hi nivi , how are you now dear?
Lovely post like always and the caps make it more interesting.

Sameer came as sameer the wind and left like tornado...
That meeting with was supposed to be soothing for both took a form of storm why both had their own baggage...and each action had its adverse effect...naina slime on sameer hair cut and consoling him by saying it will grow back fast ...and the picture to top it all ...
Our innocent girl didn't realize how her lover boy would react for that pose ...bechari...
The girls are clueless about what happened to sameer ...but the guys got the point .
Munna and pandit are real sweet hearts ...


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Posted: 7 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: aardhan

Hello Nivi. Welcome back! 😃

In all of today's episode I loved the Sameer's VOs the most... first one about how parched they were to see each other... and second about that day how anger got the better of him and how he repented later...Both times words of wisdom. 👏 Its an indication that Sameer definitely learnt from his mistakes... hope he learnt quickly. 🤔


So we can safely assume he cooled down, repented and made up to her then 😳 What should have been the best day for them turned out to be horrific... truthfully, the day had started out bad for both of them, but they were still trying to put on a happy face in front of each other. While waiting Naina was worried about the results, and Sameer was trying to forget all the stress he was going through...


Again their signature move... only this time Sameer held her hands to stop both from tripping... a year's worth of progress there. 😛 It looked like it was the most natural thing for him to do... And he loved seeing Naina's shy response to it. All those class incidents... were those recollection or imagination... because Sameer's hair seemed shorter than usual but not the final length that he has now. 😕 Anywhoo... ...the recollection/ imagination scene was well done, loved all those different things they thought about...that talk they did in signs and eye locks was beautiful... both transported in a world of their own until Sameer touched his hair. Naina's unique way of saying she didn't like was cute but damage was done... Sameer got reminded of the morning incident and Naina's words reminded him of his mother...


Here, if Naina was a more mature, she would have made him sit and asked him what was bothering him so much... but classic Naina, once again sought to distract him in her style... only it made it worse.. TBH, when Naina took the photo, I wondered why she did that pose! 😆 And she paid for it! I actually loved him asking her those questions... he couldn't even imagine that the photo of the girl he loved and respected could end up being used in the same manner he witnessed... so he reacted violently...I just wish he had listened... he did pause for a sec, as if he was debating if he should stay but then left. In those few seconds he imagined the worst and considering he's 17 he behaved immaturely.


I feel Sameer is very vulnerable right now... daadi's constant taunts and comparisons have somewhere eroded into his confidence... add to that his loneliness, bitterness that his world has changed...one could see that when he flicked his hair with his hand, there was a look of uncertainty in his eyes... the old Sameer would have confidently owned any look. When Naina first rejected the look, he felt shattered... it was another rejection upon everything he was facing. She thought it was cute of him to ask and thought she can tease him... totally back-fired. I repeat... Sameer is getting more and more destructive...


Earlier Vishaka looked for him... why couldn't she follow him into the house and calmed him down regarding the haircut? Again, she's so careless about his feelings and then she wonders why he's behaving so? Daadi and Keshav were secretly rejoicing that Sameer was missing... pathetic! 😡


Mundit were brilliant, in both scenes... the difference in perspective between girls and boys was brought out so well. And trust Pandit, who is a harmless flirt to crack it... he has a typical teenage boy's mentality. And I'm sure Naina will understand... in fact this will be a life lesson for all the three girls. Because of Sameer and Naina, what a gang of friends is getting formed. 👏


Question is - Where is Sameer? We will wait till tomorrow... I'm still not sure what made him go back to Delhi... and how did he get there? Also, Naina is again worried about Samer, what happened to her report card? Its a mystery.

Aarti yaar I love reading your post ...your analysis is amazing ...so perfect ..
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Posted: 7 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: dixie123


No, I don't want to see posessive Sameer for the next 150 epi 😲 kuch zyada posessive hogaya toh suffocate hojayega relationship 😊

@bold; absolutely the fandom is running a parallel story trying to fit in all the assumptions and loopholes. 😆


yar naina ko kaunsa poore 150 epi main possessive dikhaya? beech beech main dikhaya na? vaise hi next 150 epi main beech beech main sam possessive chahiye naina nhn😆

@bold which is not really our job... cvs ko bolte hai humko hire karo apki timeline sahi karke dete hain uske baad bigadna nhn😡😆 yar boht locha hota samajne main... r they in 11th or 12 n 1 exam ka result report card jaise style main😕 unit test ki toh answersheet with marks milti hai main ki shayad mile n mile😕

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