Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Rohan and Sameer are two boys who are brought up differently.
Rohan is brought in a very strict and disciplined manner...rather highly tutored approach. He doesn't understand there can be a life outside the timetable . Because his day to day activities are set by his parents/dhadhi via a timetable. And every time he succeeded in activities assigned to him , he got brownie points from his school and family. He is scared to break schedule because he has been taught that discipline is the essence of life. Everything has to be planned and gained as we are the creator of our own destiny. What Rohan doesn't understand is , his life is completely controlled by someone else.
Now comes Sameer , he has been brought up in a boarding at a very tender age. Age when he has to learn discipline through his families warmth, he learnt it from the strict boarding school life. He never got any brownie points to follow the timetable or the routine. He slowly turned out to be a rebel . To break the rules and live his life on his own terms but within the bounds of the principles that his Nanu taught him. Here Sameer understands discipline and the importance of it but doesn't want to follow as he doesn't want to be controlled.
Now these two people , Rohan completely controlled by someone and Sameer who lives his life on her terms comes together under the same roof!!
Rohan will learn from Sameer to take decisions based on his likes and will learn that even if you miss a schedule or life doesn't go as planned its ok . Sometimes we should be ready to face the unpredictable challenges that life throws upon us. Everything cannot be planned in life. And one shouldn't get upset just because something doesn't go as planned rather let it go and move on.
Sameer will learn from Rohan that its ok to be controlled by someone. Sometime you should allow others into your life and live a lil for their sake too even if you don't believe in them or like them. He has learnt this aspect a lil more Naina and her family but that was a more friendly environment and his Nanu , Munna , Pandit, Shefali , Preethi all were there with him. Here it's a completely hostile environment . So he will learn to follow the schedule for someone else .
Here Rohan and Sameer will learn to balance their life. Learn that discipline is important but that doesn't mean blindly follow it. Same way freedom and taking your own decisions in life is important but when you live in a family you also need to think how the decisions that you take will affect someone's else's schedule or life.
They both are different from each other and have different approach towards life but being different doesn't make them bad people. One should learn to respect other and accept each other as who they are. If they have to be a team then
They need to trust each other
They need to Respect each other
They need to Understand each other
They need to each other's presence