Sameer needs to get this pain

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Without this pain and loss of Naina from his life he will not know the reality. The reality that, Naina is not just another friend. Naina is more than a friend. She is someone he can't lose.

If he himself would tell Naina about the bet and everything gets solved in easier way then the pain needed for the realization of LOVE would not be there for Sameer.

It is said that, when you lose something, you get to feel the real value of it then. Till now, Naina was like the air around Sameer, which he was living in. After it will be taken away from him he will know how worthy it was. From denial mode he will come to accept mode.

So, I think this is going to be a much needed break-up💔 for love realization of Sameer.

He will be through torment and pain and thus he will become a better Sameer for Naina, who will not let go of her at any cost and will ask her, "Will you be mine forever! ❤️

P.S.: This is my first post in the YUDKBH forum 🤗 and I hope to continue to post sometimes if you like! 😳

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Welcome to the forum !
I am loving this slow and gradual realization of Sameer. But, I think it should have been him to tell about the bet. Just because he said doesn't mean she would forgive him easily. The treatment meted out to him should be similar.

The heartbreak is essential for both. Naina needs to come out of her bubble and Sameer needs a nudge to realize.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Coincidentally, I too posted first today😆 Anyways, I agree with yo! And I want him to go through this pain. I have full faith on CVs, they will do full justice.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi and welcome to the forum 😃
I somehow differ from you as I believe that for the realisation of his love for her... this pain is not necessary as I believe he has started realising that she is much more than a friend but naming it as love... probably he isn't doing this bcoz he himself doesn't know how it feels when you fall in love 😳

He hasn't received love in his life and that's why he is unaware of the feeling... when his friends told him that he loves her.. he paused and then denied and then started with her care and affection...😃

So I believe that he is already in love but unable to accept as he isn't able to understand this feeling😳

Regarding the revelations I think it would have been better if he himself told her... if she loves him... which we all know she does... she would have made sure he changes to be a better person... always torture or punishment is not the only solution to everything 😊


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...

Coincidentally, I too posted first today😆 Anyways, I agree with yo! And I want him to go through this pain. I have full faith on CVs, they will do full justice.

Thank you Jes, till now you only agreed with me buddy. 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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dear dixie and braveheart, thank you for welcoming me.
It is said that, when you lose something, you get to feel the real value of it then. Till now, Naina was like the air around Sameer, which he was living in. After it will be taken away from him he will know how worthy it was. From denial mode he will come to accept mode.

Added this in my post. 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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wow...well said

a very good post ..
plz continue
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with u. Naina being a simple looking girl it took Sameer this long to take notice of her inner beauty and appreciate it. He will not realise how important is Naina for his existence untill she is taken away from him. He has to prove his worth by single mindedly persuading every one around him.Be it Naina her family or his friends and family he should be ready to face zalim zamana as they are still minors.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you hanishank and
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't think he is in denial ...his approach to love is different...every one has different approach when it comes to love towards their life partner /wife/spouse/GF...for some love comes thru protecting them...for some love is thru responsibility ...for some love is thru friendship...there are many ways ...each person has a unique approach which stands above the rest of the characteristic of love...this depends on your experience or encounters with affection that you have got from your childhood...For Sameer love is friendship...and he will do anything for a friend who is close to his heart...yesterday we got an insight into Sameers thoughts of affection...he has felt or received affection from his friends more than family...and he feels responsible for those friends security and safety and happiness...Naina has joined that league...but she stands above all the friends he has in his life...Sachi Dosthi...he even doubts ..if he is a good enough friend for Naina...

So how are best friends different from life partners..??You can share , care and show affection to you best friends too...and life partners can be best friends too...but what you cant do with your best friend is make love...physical intimacy...for that the emotional and physical connect is needed which is beyond the responsibility of a best friend...Sameer has never looked at Naina 's physical appearance ...never felt possessive about Naina...in a way BF should feel towards his girl...the day he starts looking at her in a more intimate manner...the concept of three magical words will hit him hard...

Same goes with Naina...she has only seen the physical appearance ...she calls that love ...but the trust and the emotional and physical connect that is required to be a life partner is still missing...She doesn't feel comfortable of him being close to her...she is still guarded ..call it Sanskar or whatever...but when he girl and boy is completely in love and their love has attributes like respect , trust , acceptance , loyalty and friendship attached to it...then slowly they will feel comfortable with each other in everyway...

Now they are on road to win their love...both of them are NOT there yet!!

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