Why is sammy so guarded why cant he get to 'in love' feels

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mishkatfanfrevr

@mishkatfanfrevr

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Posted: 7 years ago

normally we r in denial when we r having a break up..but sameer is in denial he is in love...of course tomm he will realise..but so much has happend.. naanu..sweater..haath jalaana..still he is just like naina achi ladki hai dil nahi dukhaana mode >Y I SHE LIKE THIS... ?? any answers???

aaj bhi he said pyaar nhi hua just tht shez a nice girl...

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haritha45

@haritha45

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Posted: 7 years ago

Even I think d same.Why he is still saying pyar nehi huva. Then what is d meaning of love for him

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Anisha

@-Aniisha-

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Posted: 7 years ago

That's because he has never experienced that feeling... the feeling of love from anyone before. His realisation will take time but it will be definitely worth watching 😳

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Jane Doe

@Jane_Doe

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Posted: 7 years ago

Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...

But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

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@SixteenAgain

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: swetha811
Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...
But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

I totally agree with your POV here. Very well put.

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canapoem

@canapoem

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: swetha811
Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...
But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

Very well said 👏

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: swetha811
Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...
But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

Well put Swetha!

So, he is afraid of being in love because he doesn't want to be attached to anyone. With attachment comes expectation and disappointments.

This reminds me of some lines from the song, Hai Dil Ko Teri Aarzoo (Saajna)

Mujhe Ras Aati hai khushiya kahan re
Kyon Dil ko Dukhana Bewajah
Phir Ansu Bahana Ek Dafa

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Samaina_1990

@Samaina_1990

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: swetha811
Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...
But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

So apt...well said...only one thing I would like to add here is sometimes you find love when you least expect it, and in the person you least expect to love...it's quite shocking for you yourself how this came about...though you know it's love, you tend to deny it, because it's mind boggling to understand why has that one person become so important for you...but then deep in your heart, you know it's love...hard to explain...but Sameer is soon going to accept it for good

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Nikhita

@nuckts

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Posted: 7 years ago

That's what I am saying he is not emotionally ready for a relationship

Naina has received love though with upset and downs still received love from chacha chachi

Though oh Bai is highly irritating along with tauji but still the non parents are giving her parental love and affection and protection inspite of bearing Rakesh's temper and stupidity

But Sameer except step dad rest all are his apne people but still his mom ditches him for his step dad, Nanaji is his only solace but can't make him believe in love due to generation gaps some things might not get discussed which a person discusses with parents.

When you see your love not being acknowledged, betrayed frequently, taken for granted, etc.. You won't believe in concept of love

He is shown kind of aloof

I doubt even that ex girlfriend is a bluff, just to look cool in front of friends boys usually do that

He has been ditched by the first woman of his life his mom

Maybe he doesn't want any woman in his life and rejecting kamya when she was being so close to him raises another doubt that maybe he doesn't even want a woman in his life for physical pleasures too(as highly wrong it sounds but a guy whose male ego is hurt can feel in this sensitive age that girls can be for physical purpose only) but he denied the girl who boys refer as Sundar

He rejected her sexy latka jhatkas, so he is kind of detached guy who still needs to figure himself out

Also Naina is a topper, boys of that time were much egoistic about this thing like girl should not be above me, so yes he is hurt for hurting her but maybe he feels the relationship won't work as he doesn't want to get hurt and rejected by topper Naina and her oversanskaari family.

Just my thoughts on Sameer's psychology 😊

Edited by nuckts - 7 years ago

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Anjali33

@Anjali33

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: swetha811
Naina always probably dreamed of falling in love.. seeing all the romantic movies and everything... She jumped right in when life gave her a chance...
But Sameer most likely was always reserved about emotional bonding, because of a very bitter relationship with his mother. He probably never thought of falling in love, might be even scared of it in a way, he repels his own feeling in a act to protect himself from being attached to someone, scared of them leaving probably.. friendship is a relief on that basis, its easier to sustain friendship, and they don't often leave you crying..

That's exactly my thinking too..he fears dat he'll be left alone.. again

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