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@Ranbirrocks

Stunner

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Posted: 7 years ago

Since it is boring weekend, let me make a controversial topic to keep the forum active😉

Can a 17 year old girl fall in love and understand it?

What does Naina see in Sameer? I think she is attracted to his looks and his cool quotient. She is just 17 and in this age, feelings are triggered by hormones .

Love may follow later, but at present, Naina is infatuated with Sameer.

Her so called love is a delicious mixture of hormones and Bollywood.

She is in love with the idea of falling in love, its inspired by Bollywood's impractical love stories .

There I said it ...O Bai 😉

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TereLiyeMINU

@TereLiyeMINU

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

Love can happen at any age.It all starts with need to anchor on somebody who can understand you other than your parents and best friends.Somebody who would understand you not what you are on fore rather what you are from inside.Yes teenage is full of crush and infatuations but maturity is not defined by age.It can differ because of individual differences. Naina though had crush on Sameer she went through enough tests and finally realized that she loves him for what and how he is.A good and golden hearted person. This bet and Ada is of THE SAMEER MAHESHWARI but its Sameer that has taken her heart perhaps never to return it. 😳

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SammP

@SammP

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Agreed Naina got attracted towards Sameer for his looks. But now whatever her feelings are, are nothing but LOVE. And even when Sameer fall for her ,is going to be LOVE. There is no place of infatuation anymore.😊

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dixie123

@dixie123

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

It definitely started off as infatuation because she fell for his looks.

But, slowly I think the infatuation somewhere developed into some feeling where she can do anything for him.

- When Sameer was smoking, she wanted to change his habits

- When Sameer was falsely accused, she was disappointed deeply.

- When Sameer shared about his family, it pained her and wanted to fill the void . She worked day and night making a sweater to warm his heart.

- When she realized Sameer was never scolded for fun, she said should she Pyaar se Daant du ?

- when Sameer's Nanu was ill, she left her own competition to take Nanu to the hospital because he was. Sameer's Nanu. His Nanu was hers already.

- When Sameer did the scooter kaand, she found ways to help him out.

She hasnt seen anything bad in him 😛 more than seeing anything good in him perhaps.

Edited by dixie123 - 7 years ago

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Anjali33

@Anjali33

Sparkler

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Posted: 7 years ago

At beginning it was just a crush or infatuation..but then she got to know him..who he is..how is his life..who r his family..wat he feels..dat was when her feelings developed into true love!!

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braveheartdoc

@braveheartdoc

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Posted: 7 years ago

Even I agree with the others that it started as infatuation for her but now that she is getting to know him better...she is in love with him...maybe she still doesn't know about the practical implications of love and specially with a person like him...but she definitely wants to fill the void in his life...wants him to feel that she is there for him...in all thick and thin...

I believe that there is no age for love but definitely maturity comes with age and experience 😊

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Athira

@ATH_KTM_543

Dazzler

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Posted: 7 years ago

I don't think that there us specific age to love...it can happen at any time...

Even kids who love at such young age ...also get together after they grow up...you know Bachpan ka pyar...the only thing that changes is the meaning in it...for kids it would be too innocent...they will be more like friends and will not be able to live without...when they grow in to teens...there too the meaning changes...they will get to know little more about love ...and the complications regarding it like parents opposition etc...and when we become youth...this stage we start to take seriously of relation...we start to think about marriage and of course of physical relationships too...I also know some of my friends who even decided how many kids they should have...this we will not see in kids...

But kids ho ya older people...love is the same only... love is something which makes us to believe that there is someone who thinks about us...who care for us...we do everything for each other and we will not be able to live without each other...we think about them even before doing the smallest thing...these all do not have any age restriction...

Here too for naina it was defenetely infatuation in the first place but for naina love is something which she will have only once in life...and once she felt some feelings for sameer ...she decided that it is love and started going deep into it...I don't think in those days...for girls especially...there was something called infactualtion...this word is used by only this generation and crush too...those days if we have some special feeling for a guy ... it's Love only...and here for naina it started with it but slowly all her feelings became genuine and now she truly loves him...she came to a state where she cannot live without him...she thinks about him 24/7 and it's not for a time pass...she loves him and wants to get married to him only...she not only accepted him but his whole family too...she is dreaming her future with him and that s not defenetely an infactualtion...😃😃

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Suchi_Ejf_fan

@Suchi_Ejf_fan

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

Till now I don't think it's love , it's infatuation for sure.
She even didn't understand when Sam ignore or insult her indirectly, even blind love isn't like this.

In case of love at least we could understand opposite people love us or not though we couldn't stop loving them but we could realized what actually they feel for us bcz we truly love him or her.

But in case of infatuation or attraction we couldn't see our love one's feelings for us bcz we only care for our feelings. Blind love also same as infatuation.

Same case with happened with naina she can't even see sam exact feelings for us

So IMO naina doesn't love sam its only her infatuation ,I guess after her heartbreak she started loving him truly.

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MeenAkshi Kalra

@dreamyp

Voyager

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Posted: 7 years ago

Love is a feeling which can happen at any age.. naina is in love with sameer it's not infatuation. It was love at first sight.

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vita93

@vita93

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#10

It definitely started as an infatuation...but it has progressed to much more than that. There is no doubt Naina is attracted to his looks, but she told him quite clearly that she completely trusts him now. She can understand his pain and she can appreciate the change in him...so I think it's more than friendship too. I think there is still room for true love to happen, because the way she decided to test his love makes me wonder if she is 100% trusting him...

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