Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 17

Originally posted by: svati12

kya bole behn... kuch chhoda nhi...

chalo i wud say sumthng...

Naamkaran Ceremony for Shaina-Don ka beta... Initiated by MrsMuteBhalla... 😅😅😅

Enjoy... 👍

Pihu bare mein chinta nahi hai

But China ki bacche ki bare mein

🤣 Poori Tayaari ke saath aaye hai IshRa!

Sahil Shah makes Shaina Shah a human bomb to use her as a leverage for escaping with his son.

IshRa bhi kisse kam hai?!

They made his son Samar Shah a human bomb! 😂

Originally posted by: IshRaian

🤣 Poori Tayaari ke saath aaye hai IshRa!

Sahil Shah makes Shaina Shah a human bomb to use her as a leverage for escaping with his son.

IshRa bhi kisse kam hai?!

They made his son Samar Shah a human bomb! 😂

But yeh chuza aur yug BHI aakar kand karenge..so Sahil escapes .

Originally posted by: sreeu12345

But yeh chuza aur yug BHI aakar kand karenge..so Sahil escapes .

We’ll have to wait to see how Sahil is captured. Considering that we have a slew of new entries coming up, his track would perhaps come to an end this week.

BTW, I am sure that that bomb tied to Samar’s waist is a fake. IshRa will definitely not risk a child’s life.

I miss all this...

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzFKouahAmB/?igshid=pck1fc6dmzan

If I see old yhm ruhi...now ruhi..I feel like always this ruhi us not ruhi...she is duplicate ..

Can we have new lovely lively adorable cute new ruhi..EKTA..

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzFl9QbhO7_/?igshid=1r8bxwdbj1ei1

Most loveable and sad scene..

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzFcZ1ABUYh/?igshid=13dzniw97xg61

https://www.instagram.com/p/BywnKkdA65i/?igshid=e97zchq0k2im

Missing old yhm and divanru a lot

Yesterday dey wer definitely shooting 4 a promo... Coz 2day shireen posted a photo.. All dressed upp

Originally posted by: --QUEEN--

@bold

Ishita's superhuman wali attitude started from surrogacy track.😝 Actually superhuman always appeared only when they had to bring Shagun in the plot somehow! Observe. After leap, the show had no meaning at all. I will not analyse from there.

In the beginning, I found Ishita as a wonderful human being with no flaws at all. In today's world, we think being flawless is a myth, but people so.selfless and pure hearted like Ishita do exist.

In the book, I got to know that Ishita, in fear of losing Ruhi to Shagun, she used to brainwash Ruhi and Ruhi felt extremely stressful handling this version of Ishita, yet she loved Ishita.

But in the show, I found Ishita as a strong and wise woman. By marrying a divorcee, she didn't know the rock path that lay ahead, but she has handled every trouble and pain in her way, the best way possible.

She never restricted Ruhi in meeting Shagun and Adi. There were many instances. She didn't care about Raman's love for Shagun, but once she started liking him, not love though, at least when she stopped hating him, his love for Shagun, and her disability, pained her. She was not shown a superhuman who has no feelings at all.

When Raman asks her permission to take along Ruhi with him to picnic with Shagun and Adi, we see she losts her cool and starts crying bitterly.... when she finds Shagun drunk on road, when Shagun says how much Raman loved her, it pained her....before dhaba treat, when she saw Raman and Shagun talking about Adi's birth and all, it all pained her.

But she handled the pain best way possible. She is a kind who would not keep constantly worrying about things she has no control of, nor she is seen drowning in her misery all day, she feels the pain and bears it, but neither goes to self destruction mode nor tries to destruct others, or manipulate people to achieve something which would make her happy. She accepts things as they are. She never lets her insecurities rule her. I think the strength comes for her from within, only because she is blameless for the mess around her. She is calm and sane. That's what she is, unlike Custody's Ishita, who is always insecure about her disability and about her role as Ruhi's mother.

Custody's Ishita had so many insecurities about Ruhi and Yhm's Ishita had so many insecurities regarding Raman's love for Shagun. If yhm's Ishita goes to Custody, or Custody's Ishita comes to Yhm, stories would have been completely different😊

Yhm's Ishita is love😍😍

Her attitude of being calm and sane even changed Raman. Remember, when she brought drunk Shagun home and laid her on their bed, Raman shouts at her for a while, and in the morning, he tears a bit, but next hour he is happy and normal😆. Normally Raman would have drowned in alchohl whole night, cuz seeing Shagun on his bed would have triggered countless memories in him, and he always chose to drown in alcohol to bear the pain. But that day, he didn't do that. What a remarkable change 👏👏👏👏

Ishita was an amazing character till a point, but she was made a superhuman later, to bring this ex angle between them somehow!!

Like, when she found Shagun drunk on road, she could have taken her to a nearby hotel, or bala's house, but she brought her straight to their house and laid her on Raman's bed. Who does that?? When she made Raman give away kandani earrings to Shagun, and the way she makes Raman pose with Shagun, adi ke liye, everything is f*cking disgusting 😡 They butchered both IshRa in their desperateness to somehow bring ex between them.

Those days, Shagun trying to create spaces between IshRa never gave them bumper trps, instead Raman proposing Ishita had bumper trps👏👏👏👏👏. Sickand never tried to ruin Ishra by making Raman turn emotionally towards Shagun, he stuck to his journey of IshRa, what he planned with. He never made Raman turn back to Shagun. Thanks for that. But still, they cannot leave bestie empty-handed, hence whitewashed her completely and made her surrogate, and chalo from that point, both Ishita and Raman went completely unrecognisable🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Raman hid from Ishita and made Shagun surrogate, and Ishita hid from Raman that Shagun is alive and played bhoot bhoot all along. Never ever thought I would witness such Ishra

We see a different IshRa in Shagun's presence and different IshRa in her absence.

Their Goddamn friendship look so fake. The ease between the characters always looked staged. Everything started when the desperate actress eyed for a meatier role in yhm with her expired character. IshRa went completely unrecognisable. Ishita toh, pucho math🙏🙏🙏🙏

Ps- I.haven't read Custody, just know the gist of the novel. Sorry if I quoted something wrong regarding the novel😊

Delicious writing 😋👌.. I don't come here often but when I do, you leave me delighted!! Thank you!!

I don't want to get into the nuances of Shagun and her whitewashing in the show or the evolution of Ishita as Jagat Mata but on the anatomy of Ishita...

I concur with your interpretation of Ishita as a selfless lady and she has been the same for most part , infact was overboard at times. One more adjective, I would like to use is bold.. Taking a cue from your writing, it's not just the innate qualities that made her such but alas the human beings and circumstances were pivotal in shaping her up .

By virtue of her disability, she was a victim of selfishness of highest degree.. Her fiance with whom she dreamt of a fairytale, left her high and dry, abandoned her because she wasn't a fertile womb and couldn't beget his child. Adding to the misery, Devayani, Subbu's Mom who carried lots of bile was relentless in her attack against Ishita and never missed a chance to condescend her for the disability. Such avalanche of inconsideration made Ishita immune to self-centeredness and in the process she became thick-skinned to filter out the malice..Yes, disability was the worst thing that happened to Ishita but the silver lining was, it modelled her into a better and brave human being...

Your comparison of Ishita in YHM vs Ishita in Custody was exciting!!! Ishita in YHM was not insecure as far as Ruhi because Ruhi accepted her as a mother, Ishita was Ishima to Ruhi. It was Ruhi well before Raman who always stood up for Ishita, a support system.. In fact, Ruhi had unanimously chosen Ishita in the court, twice, once when she was just a neighbor and the very next day when she was anointed as her mother. Even during the nascent stage of IshRa marriage, it was Ruhi who shielded her Ishima as in the case of Ishita tendering apologies to Adi..

Hence with Ruhi on her side, Ishita started longing for Ruhi ki Papa 🤗, for the fact that Ruhi had gifted her Papa to Momma on the occasion of Mother's Day 😍!!! However, narcissistic Shagun who couldn't digest the fact that the crestfallen Raman moved on in his life, tried all the tricks of trade to unsettle IshRa's lives, which in turn invigorated the delicate feminine traits of Ishita, the wife 😁. In hindsight, Shagun's desperation helped IshRa to come closer...

However, Ishita comes across as extremely possessive woman when Shagun tricks Raman into signing the custody of Ruhi.. The epic outburst when she asserts to Raman, "Ruhi Nahi Hai, Hum Nahi Hai " 😭.. Was Ishita only insecure of Ruhi and had nothing for Raman, absolutely not!!..Her haunting miseries of the past along with the inability to conceive made her apprehensive..She was berserk since Ruhi, the basis of their relationship was taken away from her and so would be Raman. After all, it was sirf Ruhi ke liye, though they leapfrogged but there wasn't proclamation of love .. Her dream of a family, her being a complete woman was turning into yet another nightmare. This was the track where Ishita was most vulnerable before leap..

Coming to Ishita in Custody, Ruhi wasn't the building block for IshRa's relationship. In fact, IshRa are two abandoned souls who had a pang of sympathy for the other. In the turn of events, they are involved in an illicit affair and get married subsequently to validate their advances.. However, the very next moment Raman was caught in a cobweb of guilt and dilemma about Ishita's acceptance, especially by his children. Ishita in the novel was a survivor of a failed marriage and couldn't afford one more catastrophe at any cost. Furthermore, Ruhi though accepted her as a wife of her father, but Ishita was no Ishima to Ruhi . So unlike in the show, she had to safeguard her place as a mother and wife and her insecurity quotient was double-fold to that of Ishita in YHM, who had no threat as mother, atleast during the incipient stages...

Ishita knew children was Raman's underbelly like in the show. Unlike in the show, she exploited it to cement her place in the Bhalla house, typical of a human being, she was controlling as a mother and wife. Though she manipulated Ruhi but she never ill - treated her. She was perpetually apprehensive of Adi, tried to nurture a bond with him but after getting a cold shoulder, Ishita tried her best to keep Ruhi immune to Adi's deliberations.

She never allowed Ruhi to meet Shagun, who was a more affable mother and less gray than in the show. Ishita was persistent on calling the shots for Ruhi as in school selection , vetoing Raman at times to bolster the fact that she is the mother of Ruhi. At the end of novel, Ruhi emerges as a mirror image of Ishita (at least in a superficial manner), who had a profound effect to corroborate her claim as a mother

Furthermore, she pushed Adi away from Raman's life and made him to chose Ruhi only in the court, a typical step mom. Ishita wasn't a selfless soul in the novel, she was more human like any other, a stark contrast with munificent Ishita in the show...

Also, one interesting aspect of your write up is the induced stoicism in Ishita's behavior and that was an effect of her choice.. Ishita chose love instead of hate. Inability to conceive children was her Achilles' heel and was deserted by Subbu for the same.. It's a human proclivity to detest the source of distress as Raman did. He started loathing most of the women and termed them as gold diggers, post Shagun's infidelity..As a result, he was in a self inflicted mess.. Hate begets hate and that happened in the case of Raman, who transformed himself into vengeful RKB from a Happy Puttar ☹️

Contrastingly, Ishita instead of drowning in the sea of sadness, or exacting vendetta, started loving children. Her love for children increased by bounds and leaps, she devoted most of her time in treating kids which embalmed her and kept her emotions at bay. Her quantum of love towards children was and is so unfathomable that she couldn't even despise Subbu's child, focal point of her sufferings.

However, I don't necessarily see Ishita as flawless in the beginning, she was judgemental and it continues.. She misunderstood Raman as the sole reason for Ruhi's desolation and surmised that his insolence shoved Ruhi's mother away from the family.. Ishita and Raman have flaws but together they are flawless 😍🤩

Sorry for my garrulous rant and thank you Queen for such inspiring write up!!! Keep it coming!!!