Mistaken Marriage or a Marriage by Mistake?..3/1/18 - Page 2

Originally posted by: mayasun

Viji,

All the dialogues are geared same as the starting of yhm even the scene are same.

Nothing has changed

Ishita accepts whatever is dish to her

Raman accepts Ishita and give her so called benefits when it suits his needs or blames her when it suits his needs

Originally posted by: basha221

Hi viji,

Thanks for the review. Is one sorry enough for the insults and throwing her out of his and many more. CV's only knows these but I am not satisfied with these sorry scene between ishita and raman.

When ishita asked Shagun in Budapest why she didn't to care of children she said she has her own life now she came saying my children wow CV's for screen space for bestie u guys can do anything it's called disgusting.

DT looking so pretty. I want more strong ishita. And Iam missing ishita in bindhi and sindoor.

Originally posted by: ramishi

Why raman didn't confronted his family and loving sister simmi for hiding ruhi's real identity from him?...simmi said he goes into depression whenever he sees his wife's photo..then what is the reason for not disclosing ruhi's truth to him?

Raman remembers simmi told him his wife left him with pihu but then what about his elder daughter ruhi who seems to be quite older than pihu?...why simmi didn't told him about ruhi before fixing his marriage with mihika so that pihu gets a new mom...how can she ask him to marry without his elder daughter's consent?...does he remembers how ruhi along with pihu and others tried to stop his marriage?...seems family members telling him lies doesn't bother him much.

Cvs need to decide whether they want to show raman is acting or raman is still clueless and ill due to simmi feeding him those pills...raman's action and behaviour are becoming contradictory and inconsistent...sometimes he acts smart like any other sensible person just like yesterdays episode where he handed over nikhil to police but sometimes he acts like a naive person who is clueless as to what is happening surrounding him.

Originally posted by: dreamzsrk

Nice review Viji. I will watch this episode at least for the table scene you mentioned.

With regards to Ruhi, I dont know but I still sympathize with her

She never had a good childhood, She suffered in the hands of Nidhi. Was forced in a situation to think that that her parents especially her Ishimma whom she loved and trusted the most betrayed her. The physical and mental trauma she underwent is no less than all the mental illness that we are discussing now

7 Years of these impact cannot be done and dusted just like that. Once the confusion was cleared and Ruhi accepted their parents again, what happened next?

As a first step, was she asked to stop her disguise as Ruhan? Did she underwent proper counselling sessions to get healed from the trauma that she underwent?Was she put in right path with her studies as immediate priority?

All that took place around her seem to be as if she came back home from long vacation .😡

Parents busy with their own priorities.

Later the episode with Nikhil... Teenage infatuation ... Very normal . In that age, when someone even talks in a consoling way to soothe one's problem, it is very natural for the girl to get infatuated with the guy. More so in Ruhi's case it is very evident that it happened.

What went wrong is after the entire episode, parents heart to heart talk with her to make understand where she went wrong and give more confidence but no our leads were busy in their priorities.

Then comes Nikhil episode. I think initially the track was planned differently but got messed up later. Anywya with whatever has been shown, Th emsot weird part was as a parent parent neither Raman nor Ishita was worried that her age was not appropriate to fall in love. Raman seem to be having issue only with the choice . Very strange. Maybe it only means that CVs want to project Ruhi's age at that time as 20+? Anyway let me ignore her age issue and get forward.

Ruhi did the right thing this time by informing her mom about her feelings. Depending on one's perspective, people may or may not agree with the approach Ishita took to handle Ruhi at that time. Though I agree with Raman's view on how complicated the life would be considering Ishita's life history as a real example, his approach was pathetic. Though he was not involved with Shagun in framing Nikhil, he could have tried to come clean. But no, that's the triggering point for the entire drama we are witnessing today. Whatever Ruhi did post that is absolutely incorrect but in her frame of mind , anyone would believe what they see and Ruhi's mental condition is not so strong that she has the ability to dissect and absorb things .

By all this I 'm not saying that she should not say sorry and her parents does not deserve an apology. I'm just stating that when a convenient memory loss can cause so much damage to a person, it is obvious fact for Ruhi also considering the trauma she underwent in earlier ages.

Even otherwise, I don't see a great example set by her parents. When has ever Raman apologized whole heatedly to Ishita for all his abuse. It's an other matter that sorry means not to repeat again. So...

Originally posted by: Seetha_R

Thanks for the review Viji.

Just one word. Conditional love/acceptance. Still his ears, mind are glued to Simmis' lies and I'm not even sure what's stopping him from finding the truth regarding his wife.

Originally posted by: basha221

Hi viji,

Thanks for the review. Is one sorry enough for the insults and throwing her out of his and many more. CV's only knows these but I am not satisfied with these sorry scene between ishita and raman.

When ishita asked Shagun in Budapest why she didn't to care of children she said she has her own life now she came saying my children wow CV's for screen space for bestie u guys can do anything it's called disgusting.

DT looking so pretty. I want more strong ishita. And Iam missing ishita in bindhi and sindoor.

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

I might sound biased but was Shagun wrong there. She gave up her marriage with Dr. Manoj and life for 7 long years to grow Pihu and Adi but when Ishita came back she was reduced to being a nanny as everybody plotted to get Pihu back to Ishita.

So now would anybody like to give in so much. Shagun did see Adi and Aaliyah fighting and was aware that they were having few issues , she tried asking them repeatedly but they kept denying, so how would she help them if she wouldn't know the problem.

Secondly, none of the problems of kids , has the CV's shown Ishita handling alone. Whenever the need arouse, Ishita has gone down to Shagun stating that "OUR KIDS" are in trouble and we as mother's need to help them and Shagun has helped whole heartedly but as the problem gets sorted , Ishita along with others goes back to - "MY KIDS" rant, So in this scenario how much would one be able to give their 100% ? None !

Shagun might not have been a great mother as Ishita but then you cannot deny the fact that she has given birth to them and so attachment, protectiveness will be there in her .

Hi, I can't and don't want to argue with u because we are two different thinking persons but I want to something's when ishita said these children are her if that's the case then we are seeing different Yhm ishita always respects Shagun as mother of 3mothers because of which she want a nice life for Shagun. If not that who brings her husband's ex to her home and many more just because she is birth mother to these kids.

Iam not saying Shagun should leave her life with mani and take care of children she can atleast try to ask what the problem is yes first they can't share but if geneouly want to help them would she gave up on them no never no mother gave up on her children leave ruhi what about pihu who actually consider her as aslimaa because she has given her birth y can't she once in 2 years go and see her child who u gave birth but u don't have time because u have ur own life but u can go to Budapest to be with ur ex what ever the reasons.
And her handling problems are very good like she made adi aliya divorce and set date with her childhood friend. When she can't handle one problem nicely then how can children goes to her with their problems.

And giving birth no mother can be attached and portative to words that child if that is the case every surrogate mother is attached to her child.

At last I didn't ever heard ishita saying it ranting like u said "my kids" it is Shagun who always rants like these. I hope I didn't hurt ur feeling I just said my opinion.

Divyanka Tripathi totally rocked today.