Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 7

Originally posted by: eclipse123

If we see romika's case.Here romi is more wrong than mihika.Because infidelity is a thing that have no forgiveness.Cheating on anyone is deeper than people realize,it destroys their outlook on love,their future relationships and peace within themselves.Here,this is the main reason i'm thinking mihika is changed not because of any other reason but because of romi's betrayal toward her.Because she the character/women had gone through so much in her life after ishita.Now mihika have no time to know about her siter's or no 3rd person's life.But we can't forget this was the same mihika who married ashok khanna her molester to save a 3rd person's life,this is the same mihika who always stand with right,this is the same mihika who leave with romi because she thought her akka died because of raman's words & all other member's stand mute when that happen.So,whatever she is doing now is not her but her reel form who got the taste of betrayel,she is trying to give romi some pain that she is going through by doing all this because for giving him pain she can't do what romi did with her.And her asking money will be also to make romi's life tough,may be.Otherwise she doesn't need romi's money...she is a self made women like other iyer sister's.

There is a quote which say's"Infidelity does not come from a lack of love,if comes from a lack of respect" this quotes says why ishra respect each other as a man & women because they would have done many things to each other through words or actions.But it didn't change the fact that they did respect each other because till today they are faithful towards each other.Raman did drunk many times which cause him unconsciousness but till today he didn't cheat ishita why..because it's not only about his love for her but the respect he have in her & their relation & both ishra did live with a 3rd person that too...one was an ex & other was very much in love with the other one but did ishra did infidelity with each other..NO..because they respect each other & cheating is the most disgusting,hurtful & disrespectful thing you could do to someone u say u love.So,no way romi's doing can be name us a simple mistake & can be forgiven🥱.

Yesterday too i wrote in my post,ishita's dialogue about love is above all make me cringe.Because we can sacrifice everything for a relation but not infidelity. Mihika start loving him,that she didn't care who was before her,as long a there is no one During her...that's thing i had to say about ishita' lecture about they were in live in relationship & all🥱.ROMI-I don't have many things to say about romi.He cheat mihika that's the fact,cheating is not a mistake but a choice.He is wrong in every sense too.And using his infertility to speed up the case is not right for whatever reason,because it is one of the sensitive issue.And it's good he did forgive mihika for her that mistake because he knows he is the first one who started all this..and the pain he deserve it.It's mihika's decision entirely that she want to forgive romi out of her love for him or not.Because we can get forgiveness but not trust back😳.

And like @PB said at the end all these romika & all are for making ishra team up as one & make raman realize ishita's goodness😆.Otherwise before this 2 year leap raman was the one who make it as a secret before all including ishita & mihika about romi's infidelity & ishita was the one who stand for her sister's right.And at the end these two people tried to save romika's marriage at that time too😛.But here raman is standing with mihika,i don't know if he know the reason for romika's divorce or not 😕& ishita after seeing romi regretting it..standing with him .We know about ishta if she can forgive her molester's like param & ashok & can stand & forgive shagun,bhallas,simmi then it's not a surprise she is standing with romi for saving her sister's & Bil marriage😆.Let's see where this all are leading😛

Originally posted by: moonwearer

We have been hoping that Ishitha sheds her mask and owns up her feelings her vulnerabilities. There have been taunts hurled at her because of her inability to conceive and her inadequacy in raising kids.Subbus mom , Shagun, Raman and finally Toshi have all questioned her capacity. What if the reason Mihika touched upon this would bring ours closure to that theme in Ishitha?

The money angle somewhere made mihika on par with Shagun who in her ML phase was ready to move in with Raman as Ashok was bankrupt.

Infidelity cannot be tolerated.if Shagun has had another chance at happiness, if Param can be reinstated after the things he has has caused and is still busy at, why not Romi will be the argument.

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Absolutely spot on Pooja...infact infidelity and lack of respect was the issue that started off the saga of YHM...

Shagun cheated on Raman and subbu refused to stand by ishita when he learnt of her infertility...both Ishita and Raman have been hurt severely by what their partners did to then..

. today RomiKa are at the same crossroads ..Mihika is extremely hurt by Romi's infidelity and remember how during the gulabo track even after Raman doing so much in ruhi's case and pihus case post the Australia track where he lived alone away from family and kids.. people and cvs still felt that there needed to be a whole track dedicated to ishita regaining her self respect in the relationship because the tone and Ramans words were 'not acceptable in a marriage'...

Ironically most marriages have some level of what ishita said yesterday ..that we know each other for years so we accept the other with their flaws...because we know the person behind that...and stuff like language ..temper...lack of respect...are brought up very regularly ..but couples still stay strong together because they understand the person behind those outward behaviors ...but in the so called gulabo- self respect track cvs chose to say that a woman can emotionally punish a man for these flaws and till he rectified them he had bo right to even see his kids

But how conveniently they made the same ishita claim in court yesterday that romi was not even capable of paying an alimony ..really😲...matlab even a monetary punishment is not needed for a big big wrong ..of cheating. In a marriage..😲..unbelievable..😕

Yes CVS have conveniently created this drama to mirror mihir mihika and at some point Raman will also buy into ishitas plan of getting romi and mihika understand each other and their love for each other...

But what stinks in all of this is how an year back ..in the same scenario . ..And for a man who never ever stepped outside the sanctity of his marriage ..even in the days he hated the woman he married ..we had a 'punishment' track with the whole family cheering🥱...

CVS are purely amazing ..and yes Ishita can forgive every one even killers ..rapists and repeat Offenders like shagun🥱...but not her spouse for even very resolvable issues and far lesser flaws🥱

Yes I also do know that we 'expect' more from the ones we are closest to...thats the logic that was used in the self respect track..but that expectation can make us put our loved one through pain for 2 months..in one track..

..but here in the similar but far more damaging scenario of cheating we want mihika to forgive and reconcile and remember her 'love'...shouldn't she too have the right to say that she 'expected' more from romi and hence not give in easily😕🤢

Originally posted by: eclipse123

If we see romika's case.Here romi is more wrong than mihika.Because infidelity is a thing that have no forgiveness.Cheating on anyone is deeper than people realize,it destroys their outlook on love,their future relationships and peace within themselves.Here,this is the main reason i'm thinking mihika is changed not because of any other reason but because of romi's betrayal toward her.Because she the character/women had gone through so much in her life after ishita.Now mihika have no time to know about her siter's or no 3rd person's life.But we can't forget this was the same mihika who married ashok khanna her molester to save a 3rd person's life,this is the same mihika who always stand with right,this is the same mihika who leave with romi because she thought her akka died because of raman's words & all other member's stand mute when that happen.So,whatever she is doing now is not her but her reel form who got the taste of betrayel,she is trying to give romi some pain that she is going through by doing all this because for giving him pain she can't do what romi did with her.And her asking money will be also to make romi's life tough,may be.Otherwise she doesn't need romi's money...she is a self made women like other iyer sister's.

There is a quote which say's"Infidelity does not come from a lack of love,if comes from a lack of respect" this quotes says why ishra respect each other as a man & women because they would have done many things to each other through words or actions.But it didn't change the fact that they did respect each other because till today they are faithful towards each other.Raman did drunk many times which cause him unconsciousness but till today he didn't cheat ishita why..because it's not only about his love for her but the respect he have in her & their relation & both ishra did live with a 3rd person that too...one was an ex & other was very much in love with the other one but did ishra did infidelity with each other..NO..because they respect each other & cheating is the most disgusting,hurtful & disrespectful thing you could do to someone u say u love.So,no way romi's doing can be name us a simple mistake & can be forgiven🥱.

Yesterday too i wrote in my post,ishita's dialogue about love is above all make me cringe.Because we can sacrifice everything for a relation but not infidelity. Mihika start loving him,that she didn't care who was before her,as long a there is no one During her...that's thing i had to say about ishita' lecture about they were in live in relationship & all🥱.ROMI-I don't have many things to say about romi.He cheat mihika that's the fact,cheating is not a mistake but a choice.He is wrong in every sense too.And using his infertility to speed up the case is not right for whatever reason,because it is one of the sensitive issue.And it's good he did forgive mihika for her that mistake because he knows he is the first one who started all this..and the pain he deserve it.It's mihika's decision entirely that she want to forgive romi out of her love for him or not.Because we can get forgiveness but not trust back😳.

And like @PB said at the end all these romika & all are for making ishra team up as one & make raman realize ishita's goodness😆.Otherwise before this 2 year leap raman was the one who make it as a secret before all including ishita & mihika about romi's infidelity & ishita was the one who stand for her sister's right.And at the end these two people tried to save romika's marriage at that time too😛.But here raman is standing with mihika,i don't know if he know the reason for romika's divorce or not 😕& ishita after seeing romi regretting it..standing with him .We know about ishta if she can forgive her molester's like param & ashok & can stand & forgive shagun,bhallas,simmi then it's not a surprise she is standing with romi for saving her sister's & Bil marriage😆.Let's see where this all are leading😛

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Bang on!! You said it all. 👍🏼.

PS :- With this new year, I have officially delegated writing my lengthy reviews to Pooja😉. So Pooja will write reviews on my behalf too, because more or less we share the same view.

Thanks for the help Pooja.. You have reduced a lot of work to me, these days.😃 😳 😉😆

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Happy New year to all..😛..

Missed out on the last 2 epis and only caught sone IshRa scenes on insta...

But here go my thoughts based on today's epi..a little positivity in the new year😆

I am glad CVS have firmly brought back smitten Raman Bhalla...they made him confess to Pihu and now again he got a scene where he woke up smiling and remembering all the 'good' times with his ishitaji😆

The handcuffing and then cutting it might be symbolic to what Simmi is trying to do to IshRa's relationship but we all know that her end has started already..with pihu already home and then Raman getting drawn to Ishita..

Like Priya and me were discussing the other day ..the romi mihika track was bound to be the next drama ..now that Pihu's torture is on the back burner...and it was kind of obvious that IshRa will be on 2 sides..

Todays ishitas dialogue about love will triumph all odds was the same line she used to keep saying in the mihir mihika track...and more then getting romi Mihika together ..this track will be more about Raman rediscovering and accepting his love for ishita..since it's going to mirror mihir Mihika track where Ishita used to keep talking about pyaar and its importance and Raman was the cynic...here it may be similar though romi Mihika are intolerable and mihir Mihika were cute😛

There is obviously more to Mihika's behavior and I don't think she will join simmi and turn negative..that beats the purpose of this while romi mihika divorce drama. The whole point of the drama is so that IshRa bring them back together and stop the divorce and grow closer in the process...just my view here..

Cvs will keep introducing drama to show that simmi has an upper hand etc ...and she might succeed few times...but we know where it's all heading ...so I don't see a point in daily worrying about who will join simmi tomorrow..who is her chamcha and all ..cos logically ishita shoukd have been working on getting Ramans memory back and finding out about the pills first...but it's obvious CVS are taking it slow since the track is giving them trps..thats why Ishita suddenly doesn t seem to be wanting to investigate regarding why Raman still doesn t remember his past...that will happen the day TRPs start sliding😆

I may be the rare ones who is certainly not worried about tomorrows scene ..and Will Raman scream at ishita and insult her blah blah..cos honestly the rest of this track is going to move like this only..

After romi Mihika . It will be adi aliya and then ruhi..through each of the dramas cvs will show Raman and ishita's bond growing stronger till the big reveal when Raman gets his memory back..that could be one or 2 months based on TRPs..

And as long as they keep peppering it with decent IshRa pihu moments ..i can tolerate some drama and a hell lot of lack of logic...and lack of coherence in the track..

I only wish that they keep the focus on IshRa only for a while more...

Also I have no interest at all now in Raman regaining his memory too soon ..cos I know what kind of tracks we could expect after that ...😆

Originally posted by: eclipse123

Priya,@bold😲why this kolavari behan😆😆😆.I'm packing the gift u gave me with double love & gift wrappers & returning to u😉 Behan,aap hi sambalo ya gift,itana bada gift mujh sa nahi sambaltha😆😳.I will continue to reduce your work by helping u but you only rule the kingdom ok😉😃😳