Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
Getting separated many times is not a question at all, because they were either in the plan together in second leap or were trying to get back together in the small misunderstandings that happened so far, except for the first leap. Also in the first leap, both of Ishita & Ruhi were assumed dead. He could not have done anything to save them after that. He was in guilt and depression too , but there was none in the family who wanted to make use of the situation, harm him further and hinder his day to day function. All of them were infact worried for him, stood by him and wanted him to get over. Yet he did not fail to discharge the duties of a father to Pihu. Yes, he did take Adi for granted & emotionally was not available as a father when his mother was not around, but still he did involve Adi in business, shaped his career and got Mihir to guide Adi. Mihir was the biggest support system for Raman back then, both personally and professionally, who helped him get back on track. Even then, when it mattered the most, like Adi arrested for misbehaving with Alia, Raman did rush to the police station and stood by him as a father.
This time around, he is in to depression, because he can still save her, he can still do something to get her out, but he is unable to do anything because Ishita has closed all doors for him and is not considering him worthy of sharing the truth with. He can fight for Ishita, only if she had cooperated, trusted him, confided in him and told the truth. Did he not fight for her during chadda track, when she was sentenced?đ Why was he able to? Because she told him the truth back then. Now she has a reason of saving Pihu and hence taking a blame. But even then, only had she confided in him, told the truth, he could have looked for solutions. He can't keep assuming who she is trying to save and what would have been the truth.
If she repeatedly claims before law, she actually killed Ananya and was not even ready to admit it happened by accident, what would Raman do?đ .Most importantly, Simmi and Param were determined to defeat Ishita and they know they would be victorious only if they make her kids suffer and go through hell. The biggest obstacle for all this would be Raman, if he is in full senses. So they have used the situation in their favor and ensured he is harmed the most, made unfit, so that they can easily go on in their mission.
Also there is no hard and fast rule for human body that only so&so situation can cause a depression and if a person was able to get over that situation, he should not at all be depressed, when something lesser uneventful happens and he should stay strong.đ˛đ. After all he is a human, he has his own emotions & ways of reacting to and dealing with stress, their relationship also has far more matured than the first leap & this separation has left him totally stressed out & depressed. And to add to this, when his own people have used it against him, in favor of their evil plans, nothing much can be done about by him. Both the situations are entirely different and I see no point in comparing them, unless the main purpose of such a point, is to prove how useless is Raman as a character, husband or a father, which happens with few people here out of obsession to spread hate towards Raman.
This is my view point and it is perfectly fine if people don't agree to this. đ