YOU TOO ISHIMA....9/19/17...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok girls ..here it is

Amma...girls what a miracle..amma sang ishus praises..😲can't beleive your eyes or ears..you better believe..oh yes oh yes..she did..best besti, bahu, etc etc..and that her upbringing speaks for itself and is reflected in her...but wait its not over ...get this... more shocking...kisses ishus cheeks..yeh kya hua? amma enna achu...Joram illyie...(amma are you ok hope you're now having fever) now all this will vanish soon..and this same amma is going to rip her apart and curse her.

MIKU..another good for nothing character..other than singing jiju praises and being A party planner there's nothing for her...another expired character.

Bala..has forgotten about shravu and doesn't even know that shravus lecture timing has changed..

Kiran..wants to be like ishu..be the kids mom first..then his wife..as she doesn't want to be called sauteli mom..now why do i feel this has a connection or a precursor to the upcoming scene.😳 Being the 2nd wife and step. mother is a very hard task...it was nice to see her pack lunch for shravu...very thoughtful. It is not always about physical intimacy with a husband that takes precedence...when you are embarking on a relationship and a title/ role as a step mother..the first order of business is to take care of the kids, make the feel comfortable, as they are the ones going thru toughest times in their life..the transition part...accepting anither woman in their life who will play a mom's role..

Ruhi...she came to know everything by overhearing nikhil and rishis's convo ..and later more thru rishi and also that ishu knows. That girl was shocked...and i think she felt betrayed by the fact that ishima hid it, The one person she trusts the most. Cos based on her convo with ishu later ..that was highlighted.."YOU TOO"..hid it..she jumped to conclusions Just like her dad. That girl is tried of proving her loyalty to her dad..and this kid has been through a lot..from physical to mental abuse and gender impersonation. So she is looking for someone who was in a similar situation as herself...and she found that person in nikhil. Basically this kid has no guidance from her parents ...for a girl/ human being gone thru such a trauma ..this behavior is not surprising at all..the rebellious behavior..as she's been suppressed for a long time..8 years. What she sees ..that the whole world is against her...so she will do what she has to ..coz nobody wants to hear her side of the story. So now she trusts nikhil more than her parents. She raised her voice against her dad and mom. I think she's gonna say something thats going to hurt ishita more. i also felt ishu got insulted more than raman..as raman didn't allow her to speak and became authoritative..

Ishu...she wanted to share it with ruhi..I'm glad she didn't ..but later did as ruhi confronted her. But is it necessary to inform ruhi?..well it can be yes and a no. No..coz ruhi is moving on..and involved in her education..yes...mainly she doesn't want ruhi to take drastic steps..if ruhi comes to know by other means...like ruhi did today or in future..she's trying to avoid breaking up of the family, relationships, she doesn't want the repeat of whatever happened earlier. She doesn't want ruhi to feel bad about herself..She told her what it is to be a step mother and how the past always haunts and keeps popping in the present...by citing herself. She was right when she said her dad is overprotective..yes he is..nothing wrong there. She will bear the brunt...but what she's forgetting is ruhi being a step mom for an eight year old. She doesn't want history repeating...but that's exactly what's happening.

Raman...volatile temper ...as a father he had every right to be angry more so furious with his daughter. The person that he is doesn't want to hear any explanations from ruhi as he knows men like nikhil. As a father he doesn't want his daughter to be in a relationship with nikhil who has a complicated past...right on. Who better than him to know what it is all about. As a father he was absolutely right. Today it was raman outright refusing ruhi..i wish he spoke to her and made her understand. But simply laid down the rules...his warning to ruhi and ishu..is an indication for something disastrous. And ruhi will rebel...that's a given.

Ishra...again failure as parents and couples...why should it always be the mom's job?..its a dad's job too..as parents they have to talk to ruhi about relationships ..but no. Had they spoken to her and listened to her and offered guidance..age factor, doing something constructive, achieving something in life..accomplishments, and she will meet someone and will be more matured to identity the right person and expectations, and they will always support her and guide her, never hesitate to talk to them about anything and everything ..that would've been different. Wish it was done this way...a deviation from the usual route...a message that this can also be solved this way.

It was dramatic...

It is very clear DT is completely sidelined when other women are around she's not even in the same frame and is standing afar...Don't know what's happening off screen but it reeks on screen?!..

What i noticed..iyers were with ruhi ...i mean ran to ruhi when raman threw her out

As for precap...i will wait..for the episode to air...but felt it was rough pushing ishita.

Ruhil will not happen ..But ruhi might become successful businesswoman...

Again I'm just saying how I saw ishraru individually from their shoes...please use your discretion.

Kp and DT were good

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Viji

Thanks for the review. Will try n catch up with it tomorrow

What I don't like generally is parents getting blamed for what children do. I am sure no parent will teach a child what Ruhi is doing. Somehow I feel both parents have to be a team to handle kids.
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

Ok girls ..here it is

Amma...girls what a miracle..amma sang ishus praises..😲can't beleive your eyes or ears..you better believe..oh yes oh yes..she did..best besti, bahu, etc etc..and that her upbringing speaks for itself and is reflected in her...but wait its not over ...get this... more shocking...kisses ishus cheeks..yeh kya hua? amma enna achu...Joram illyie...(amma are you ok hope you're now having fever) now all this will vanish soon..and this same amma is going to rip her apart and curse her.

MIKU..another good for nothing character..other than singing jiju praises and being A party planner there's nothing for her...another expired character.

Bala..has forgotten about shravu and doesn't even know that shravus lecture timing has changed..

Kiran..wants to be like ishu..be the kids mom first..then his wife..as she doesn't want to be called sauteli mom..now why do i feel this has a connection or a precursor to the upcoming scene.😳 Being the 2nd wife and step. mother is a very hard task...it was nice to see her pack lunch for shravu...very thoughtful. It is not always about physical intimacy with a husband that takes precedence...when you are embarking on a relationship and a title/ role as a step mother..the first order of business is to take care of the kids, make the feel comfortable, as they are the ones going thru toughest times in their life..the transition part...accepting anither woman in their life who will play a mom's role..

Ruhi...she came to know everything by overhearing nikhil and rishis's convo ..and later more thru rishi and also that ishu knows. That girl was shocked...and i think she felt betrayed by the fact that ishima hid it, The one person she trusts the most. Cos based on her convo with ishu later ..that was highlighted.."YOU TOO"..hid it..she jumped to conclusions Just like her dad. That girl is tried of proving her loyalty to her dad..and this kid has been through a lot..from physical to mental abuse and gender impersonation. So she is looking for someone who was in a similar situation as herself...and she found that person in nikhil. Basically this kid has no guidance from her parents ...for a girl/ human being gone thru such a trauma ..this behavior is not surprising at all..the rebellious behavior..as she's been suppressed for a long time..8 years. What she sees ..that the whole world is against her...so she will do what she has to ..coz nobody wants to hear her side of the story. So now she trusts nikhil more than her parents. She raised her voice against her dad and mom. I think she's gonna say something thats going to hurt ishita more. i also felt ishu got insulted more than raman..as raman didn't allow her to speak and became authoritative..

Ishu...she wanted to share it with ruhi..I'm glad she didn't ..but later did as ruhi confronted her. But is it necessary to inform ruhi?..well it can be yes and a no. No..coz ruhi is moving on..and involved in her education..yes...mainly she doesn't want ruhi to take drastic steps..if ruhi comes to know by other means...like ruhi did today or in future..she's trying to avoid breaking up of the family, relationships, she doesn't want the repeat of whatever happened earlier. She doesn't want ruhi to feel bad about herself..She told her what it is to be a step mother and how the past always haunts and keeps popping in the present...by citing herself. She was right when she said her dad is overprotective..yes he is..nothing wrong there. She will bear the brunt...but what she's forgetting is ruhi being a step mom for an eight year old. She doesn't want history repeating...but that's exactly what's happening.

Raman...volatile temper ...as a father he had every right to be angry more so furious with his daughter. The person that he is doesn't want to hear any explanations from ruhi as he knows men like nikhil. As a father he doesn't want his daughter to be in a relationship with nikhil who has a complicated past...right on. Who better than him to know what it is all about. As a father he was absolutely right. Today it was raman outright refusing ruhi..i wish he spoke to her and made her understand. But simply laid down the rules...his warning to ruhi and ishu..is an indication for something disastrous. And ruhi will rebel...that's a given.

Ishra...again failure as parents and couples...why should it always be the mom's job?..its a dad's job too..as parents they have to talk to ruhi about relationships ..but no. Had they spoken to her and listened to her and offered guidance..age factor, doing something constructive, achieving something in life..accomplishments, and she will meet someone and will be more matured to identity the right person and expectations, and they will always support her and guide her, never hesitate to talk to them about anything and everything ..that would've been different. Wish it was done this way...a deviation from the usual route...a message that this can also be solved this way.

It was dramatic...

It is very clear DT is completely sidelined when other women are around she's not even in the same frame and is standing afar...Don't know what's happening off screen but it reeks on screen?!..

What i noticed..iyers were with ruhi ...i mean ran to ruhi when raman threw her out

As for precap...i will wait..for the episode to air...but felt it was rough pushing ishita.

Ruhil will not happen ..But ruhi might become successful businesswoman...

Again I'm just saying how I saw ishraru individually from their shoes...please use your discretion.

Kp and DT were good

Firstly I didn't like the fact that Nikhil gave that cheque to Ruhi,it was completely uncalled off..Secondly Ishita as a mother should herself say that she didn't feel need to inform Ruhi as she was moving on with education.At times I feel ishu is forcibly supporting her kids blindly as she is insecure being a step mom..I really don't want ishu to support Ruhi for Nikhil...
Again I didn't understand was how is sujatas name attached to rishi who was her bf (Sorry friends with benefits) is hampering her respect and izzat but her name being attached to Nikhil who is her brother in law (Sister's husband)isnt hampering her izzat?I mean kuch bhi?

Raman was on point and I completely understood his anger,but what Raman is failing to realise is that his temper has always ruined his relationship so I definitely wished if he and ishu had explained Ruhi..They are complete failure as parents

And in precap ishu was pushed what the hell kind of behaviour was this? Seriously Raman is just pathetic and worst man possible as husband..He treats ishu literally as trash, disgusting husband...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: varunike

Hi Viji

Thanks for the review. Will try n catch up with it tomorrow

What I don't like generally is parents getting blamed for what children do. I am sure no parent will teach a child what Ruhi is doing. Somehow I feel both parents have to be a team to handle kids.



Hi aarthi

Watch it...
I agree with you on team effort...that's how these things have to be handled

But parents do get blamed ..mainly mothers in upbringing a child. Be it a son or a daughter. They are daddy's kids when everything is all rosy...the minute something goes wrong,,the blame falls on the woman/ wife...thats reality ..convenient isn't it?...
Realistucally mom's are softer and they are the mediators, negotiators between the dad/ husband and kids...they always not try to make them understand..the kids from dad's perspectives ...and situations...
Mom's become more friendly with kids..an dthats why kids always go,to their mim's...as they know only she can persuade dad

Anyways lets c...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi viji,
Thanks for the review.i want to ask one question is ishita supporting ruhi love with nikhil?
Ishita is not going to leave bhalla house because she doesn't have any self respect when ever raman throws her out she came back shamelessly. And I saw a photo where ishita,ruhi and adi are standing in bhalla house.

I observed one think in precap that ishita going out of the house like new bride cones into her in-laws house. And Divan are very good with their expressions they are very good. I hope CV's also see there talent. Because they get trps for Divan acting not for AH skinshow. And why always they give repeat sarees and blouse's to ishita up to know I didn't see one repeat saree or blouse's on Shagun.is it a family show or some fashion show I don't understand I hope AH and pH may understand.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Peacelover15

Firstly I didn't like the fact that Nikhil gave that cheque to Ruhi,it was completely uncalled off..Secondly Ishita as a mother should herself say that she didn't feel need to inform Ruhi as she was moving on with education.At times I feel ishu is forcibly supporting her kids blindly as she is insecure being a step mom..I really don't want ishu to support Ruhi for Nikhil...

Again I didn't understand was how is sujatas name attached to rishi who was her bf (Sorry friends with benefits) is hampering her respect and izzat but her name being attached to Nikhil who is her brother in law (Sister's husband)isnt hampering her izzat?I mean kuch bhi?

Raman was on point and I completely understood his anger,but what Raman is failing to realise is that his temper has always ruined his relationship so I definitely wished if he and ishu had explained Ruhi..They are complete failure as parents

And in precap ishu was pushed what the hell kind of behaviour was this? Seriously Raman is just pathetic and worst man possible as husband..He treats ishu literally as trash, disgusting husband...


Hi IJ

I think nikhil wants to say he is not interested in money...buy now he knows ruhi knows everything...when the truth is out...there's no need to hide it anymore..so he returned the check...I think this is what happened...

Ishu..never brought up marriage issue at all..she smile worried I'd ruhi getting information from a 3rd person and misunderstanding and jumping to conclusions...and that's exactly what happened? That girl mud both her parents...and now adi too joined...did you see how angry she was when adi
Told her not to talk to ishima like that. So ahe again jumps to conclusion ok ..everybody is against me..
And doesn't trust me...now I'll prove you guys exact,y that ..she's as volatile as her dad..in every way.
Your pov ..about step mom...makes sense too...what if she is questioned,.will she do the same thing with her daughter?possible...actually I did read something along those lines elsewhere ...can't recollect it. It was nicely explained.

About Raman...yes..he had every right to be..but he's not realizing it will not work ..she's 18.., an adult..so has to be treated that way.

About precap...yes...I detested that behavior...it became physical..and I dint like it...I hated it..I'm waiting to comment on it tomorrow...it was forceful. That was unacceptable...you DO NOT HURT A WOMAN...Period


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I too agree its alwayz moms at d taking end.. Be it fathers taunt childrens anger n all its alwayz d mom...
M myself d example for dis... Wen m angry its my mom whom i shout at... If dad scold me its my mom wid whom i wont talk... N der are many such things...

So here also ishita is d nly target.. B it 4 raman ir 4 ruhi...


I rly want 2 ask d ppl who is saying raman is ryt n ishita is wrong n all in supporting ruhi...

Jst let me one thing wer in 2days episode ishita supported ruhi 2 b wid nikhil...
Its was ishita jst wanted 2 make ruhi knw d truth coz c wanted ruhi 2 b calm n get peace of mind...

N in precap also c is wid ruhi coz d way raman was throwing out ruhi... Ny mother wid stad wid her child.. No matter how wrong der child can get... But dey will go against der husband der family 4 der children...
N dis we can vry well explain n understand by lukng at our own mothers... Many a tym dey go againts our dad 2 support us...



N abt raman being ryt in askng ishita dat either uts him our ruhi... Toh let me ask... Der wer many cases in dis serial wer ishita could have asked d same question 2 raman 2 chose btw her n his children... Lyk wen adi blamed ishita 4 giving wrong medicine 2 him... Wen adi n shagun left bhalla house n raman shouted on ishita dat coz of her adi is not wid him...

Den wen raman solely deciding abt surrogacy wen ishita get 2 now d truth c didnt ask raman 2 chose shagun n d child but c herself was ready 2 keave d house...

Den d recent one when shagun got pihus custody.. Ishita didnt ask him 2 chose pihu or her infact c herself sent off raman 2 pihu n shagun...

N list goes on n on...


But no ppl out here have prblm dat 4 ishita dis is all abt ruhi n nothing else... C is still der in ruhi ke phase wali lyf... So jst tell me wen raman have made her secure abt their relationship.. Never ever.. At d drop of hat he say maa nahi ho tum unki n all... Wen ever c needed raman either he was busy wid his ex wife or wid sum other prblm...


But no aftr all dis also ishita is wrong... C is alwyz d one who keep on doing kands n all...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

I too agree its alwayz moms at d taking end.. Be it fathers taunt childrens anger n all its alwayz d mom...

M myself d example for dis... Wen m angry its my mom whom i shout at... If dad scold me its my mom wid whom i wont talk... N der are many such things...

So here also ishita is d nly target.. B it 4 raman ir 4 ruhi...


I rly want 2 ask d ppl who is saying raman is ryt n ishita is wrong n all in supporting ruhi...

Jst let me one thing wer in 2days episode ishita supported ruhi 2 b wid nikhil...
Its was ishita jst wanted 2 make ruhi knw d truth coz c wanted ruhi 2 b calm n get peace of mind...

N in precap also c is wid ruhi coz d way raman was throwing out ruhi... Ny mother wid stad wid her child.. No matter how wrong der child can get... But dey will go against der husband der family 4 der children...
N dis we can vry well explain n understand by lukng at our own mothers... Many a tym dey go againts our dad 2 support us...



N abt raman being ryt in askng ishita dat either uts him our ruhi... Toh let me ask... Der wer many cases in dis serial wer ishita could have asked d same question 2 raman 2 chose btw her n his children... Lyk wen adi blamed ishita 4 giving wrong medicine 2 him... Wen adi n shagun left bhalla house n raman shouted on ishita dat coz of her adi is not wid him...

Den wen raman solely deciding abt surrogacy wen ishita get 2 now d truth c didnt ask raman 2 chose shagun n d child but c herself was ready 2 keave d house...

Den d recent one when shagun got pihus custody.. Ishita didnt ask him 2 chose pihu or her infact c herself sent off raman 2 pihu n shagun...

N list goes on n on...


But no ppl out here have prblm dat 4 ishita dis is all abt ruhi n nothing else... C is still der in ruhi ke phase wali lyf... So jst tell me wen raman have made her secure abt their relationship.. Never ever.. At d drop of hat he say maa nahi ho tum unki n all... Wen ever c needed raman either he was busy wid his ex wife or wid sum other prblm...


But no aftr all dis also ishita is wrong... C is alwyz d one who keep on doing kands n all...



Hi,
I like ur each point because that's the truth. Many time I think that if ishita ask raman to choose between her and surrogacy child along with Shagun whom he will choose Iam sure raman choose Shagun and children there are more situations where he choose everyone over ishita. But ishita always wrong I don't know why and some are saying by throwing ishita raman. How can it is right to throw a woman like that. And up to now I didn't see ishita saying ruhi to marry nikhil or did I miss something.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: basha221

Hi viji,
Thanks for the review.i want to ask one question is ishita supporting ruhi love with nikhil?
Ishita is not going to leave bhalla house because she doesn't have any self respect when ever raman throws her out she came back shamelessly. And I saw a photo where ishita,ruhi and adi are standing in bhalla house.

I observed one think in precap that ishita going out of the house like new bride cones into her in-laws house. And Divan are very good with their expressions they are very good. I hope CV's also see there talent. Because they get trps for Divan acting not for AH skinshow. And why always they give repeat sarees and blouse's to ishita up to know I didn't see one repeat saree or blouse's on Shagun.is it a family show or some fashion show I don't understand I hope AH and pH may understand.


Hi hon

Initially she was happy for ruhi...but after knowing about nikhil and his past...she tried to,dissuade her...but she wasn't assertive enough. . That's why it looked as if she's supporting ruhi. She never brought the marriage topic at all. I'm sure she will not agree..which was clear when she assumed that raman brought a proposal.
And even today,,,she just wanted ruhi to,know coz..she will,be at peace or get a closure ...as she thought very low of herself. And she didn't want ruhi to know thru 3rd party source. But that's what happened.

I actually wondering why they showed blood ..it was symbolic..but then brushed it aside..I'm glad you too felt that way. Besides I didn't comment on precap today.

ill wait for ishus answer...and yes I did see that pic..there's another pic of her with bala, kiran, appa, kshitija having coffee...maybe offscreen..

It was kp,today...tomorrow it will be DT ..both are. Damm good..finest talents,

About clothes...offscreen/ onscreen...
DT has repeated most of her clothes..has has hideous outfits..very rarely we see her in nice sarees..anyways..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I jst dont wany a leap.. If upto 6 mnths its k... But not more den dat...

But seperation its bettet dat dey finally part ways... Instead of accusing n abusing ur partners at drop of hat...

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