WHAT A BORE....9/15/17

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Peacelover15
Ishu looked puffed up in saree hope she doesn't wear such sarees now ..I'm even worried for kshitija as I don't know y I feel she is over expecting from Kiran so early..I mean let the time pass but she is too small and is just excited that she is getting new mom and I hope Kiran better treat her as daughter ..
Ruhi I found a bit immature the way she behaved with the girl thinking her to be Nikhil's new gf..She could had taken her to side and questioned her.The term maturity comes not only with age but how u take care of situations ,there was no need for her to behave so loudly and rudely as it wasn't Nikhil ...

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The maroon color part of the saree seems good..but the embroidered tan color ..really poofed her up..andnthat full,sleeve blouse..I'm so tired of the same kind of blouse..

Kshitija...she expects kiran to,pick up,where her mom left off...its not going to,happen...hope this girl doesn't have a heartbreak. Kiran will be nice to her initially...lets c in future. As you said..that kid is over excited.

Ruhi,.maturity comes when you ignore and staying unaffected...@ bold..bingo nailed it...

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Exactly Ruhi should had stayed unaffected,also I would like to add one more thing there are times that exes do bump into each other at various occasions or gatherings but u have to maintain your cool even if according to you your ex is most horrible person on earth..You simply can't spoil someone's mood, celebration or occasion,so yes how u handle a situation is very important ..I remember this as I was explained this by my mom when I was 20 or 21 a decade back and I imbibed it into my personality since then.

The reason I really want Raman and Ishita to talk to Ruhi about life and relationships is because it will give her broader perspective and who better than Raman and Ishita by sharing their experiences stories and life and relationship in general..

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Exactly Ruhi should had stayed unaffected,also I would like to add one more thing there are times that exes do bump into each other at various occasions or gatherings but u have to maintain your cool even if according to you your ex is most horrible person on earth..You simply can't spoil someone's mood, celebration or occasion,so yes how u handle a situation is very important ..I remember this as I was explained this by my mom when I was 20 or 21 a decade back and I imbibed it into my personality since then.

The reason I really want Raman and Ishita to talk to Ruhi about life and relationships is because it will give her broader perspective and who better than Raman and Ishita by sharing their experiences stories and life and relationship in general..

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Agree with you, it comes with maturity, the grace and dignity with which you handle these situations. I don't think Ruhi will ever get there seeing her psycho behaviour each time something does not go her way. But I think Raman and Ishita with all their life experiences are the wrong persons to teach her anything. Raman always carries his heart on his sleeve...he insulted Ishita in business parties number of times and in public..insulted Ashok at a birthday party..smashed the cake on his face in front of Adi. etc (I don't remember the occasion) and insulted Shagun at Mihirs engagement party (that was brutal in front of his kids and family/friends - just to show her her place)..He never handled the encounters maturely..and Ishita is another case totally supressing her feeling and overly compromising..a door mat. They both are failed parents to all of the kids.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Peacelover15
Exactly Ruhi should had stayed unaffected,also I would like to add one more thing there are times that exes do bump into each other at various occasions or gatherings but u have to maintain your cool even if according to you your ex is most horrible person on earth..You simply can't spoil someone's mood, celebration or occasion,so yes how u handle a situation is very important ..I remember this as I was explained this by my mom when I was 20 or 21 a decade back and I imbibed it into my personality since then.
The reason I really want Raman and Ishita to talk to Ruhi about life and relationships is because it will give her broader perspective and who better than Raman and Ishita by sharing their experiences stories and life and relationship in general..

Completely agree..that is what I was expecting...ishu said her side ...not raman...I'm not sure if raman is going to see the way ishu sees as he brought his ex back into,their lives...thru surrogacy...

That's why I wanted him to over hear ishru comvo..so he can better understand ishus situation...the. He will put ruhi in ishus place...and from there it can take a turn for the better.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Mreddy

Hi Madhavi...
Agree with you...simmi maybe...or mani...they have seen the worst of both ...
Best is psychological help..a counseling...IS A BETTER OPTION..

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Posted: 8 years ago

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HI Viji,

Thanks for your updates. Even though I stopped watching, i read your updates. I watch an episode here and there..since Shagun's miscarriage, I stopped completely. This show as many pointed out was for Sharam. I don't think the makers expected Divan to become this popular whereby closing the road for Sharam. So we got all these nonsense tracks and butchering of the characters to accomodate Shagun. Wish makers had the guts to go for Sharam thereby ending this torture show for all of us who expected a decent/progressive show from desi tv.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Mreddy
HI Viji,
Thanks for your updates. Even though I stopped watching, i read your updates. I watch an episode here and there..since Shagun's miscarriage, I stopped completely. This show as many pointed out was for Sharam. I don't think the makers expected Divan to become this popular whereby closing the road for Sharam. So we got all these nonsense tracks and butchering of the characters to accomodate Shagun. Wish makers had the guts to go for Sharam thereby ending this torture show for all of us who expected a decent/progressive show from desi tv.

Hi Madhavi

Nice to,know you still,read my updates..thank you so much.

Frankly I too lost interest and the connect...but doing the updates...god knows when I will completely bid adieu.

Yes this show is sharams journey...nothing else...ishuta was a misfit right from the beginning ...but due to DT's acting we thought it's Ishra,,.we are fools.

As you said...they never expected Ishra's popularity to sky rocket to unimaginable heights...and fandom...the rest we know..

Like you i too way the makers had the guts to,show sharam in complete sense...

The only way they can mak sharam happen..is mkaimg pihu as sharam baby...genetically and somewhere raman realizing he always loved shagun and still is..and ishita was just a distraction ..and ishu walking away ...alone...

What a beautiful show...now a complete sh&t...gosh no more desi shows...I've had enough of this nonsense..

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