NEW LOVE..NEW BEGINNINGS AND SECOND CHANCES ......8/29/17

Well the title said it all

THAT'S THE JIST OF TODAY'S EPISODE

AT the HOtel

Nikhil was not rescued on time..and so the elevator hits the bottom and finally he's rescued..ruhi was worried...and raman gives an earful to the hotel staffs.

He was so mad and ishu asks him to let go, and he does the same and takes the kids away..just then he sees someone..and raman knows that old person..he's rias grandpa...

And after talking with ria..he goes off on the nanny...and ria assures him she's fine and ishu butts in and says its not the nanny's fault, but the hotels. Lol ishu got another much neeed title...staff of the hotel?..she does look like that..yes the old man thought ishu as an employee of the hotel..and raman introduces ishta as his wife to MR. AGarwal (old man)..and then introduces pihu and the rest follows. MR. Agarwal. wants to meet and thank ruhi and nikhil personally, but couldn't as they've left for the hospital. He is none other than ramans, lecturer...

So ishu takes the kids home an raman goes to the hospital.

At the hospital

Nikhil is being treated..and ruhi is ordering nurse and nikhil...she's restless...and blames herself...she's worried for internal injuries..and nikhil consoles her. Just then the doc enters and she starts and the doc sends her out..😆

So ruhi has developed feeling for him. Doc gives him a clean bill of health..and she hugs him.. the doc mistakes her as his gf..and nikhil confirms indirectly that ruhi is not his gf but an acquaintance. Ruhi is bummed. So she leaves to pay the bill. Nikhil has no feelings for her...later nikhil offers to pay the bill and also will take the car..he doesn't want ruhi anywhere near him...encourage anything between them..this is the vibe I got.

Raman comes there and offers help but nikhil declines and he takes ruhi away.

It's morning

At the breakfast table ..simmi is pampering ruhi...aaliya calls someone...and the whole family talk about the elevator incident. ..and the bro and sis have a pillow fight..usual fight between siblings...nothing serious

And aaliya is wondering why nikhil hasn't called?..she is worried about nikhil..and ruhi decides to go to nikhil house to check on him. She comes to know through aaliya that nikhil doesn't like taking help..or being helped. Ruhi tells that people change with time..and decides to take food..but before that raman tells ruhi that they need to visit rias house as her grandpa wanted to meet her and thank her..

This is noticed by ishu..

At Ria's house

So both are at rias house.. raman introduces ruhi and ruhi apologizes for yesterdays incident. MR. Agarwal though not happy with everything is ok as ria is happy.

Ria is so excited to see ruhi and shows the gift her grandpa got her. In th mean time Raman invites him for dinner but he declines as he's leaving today but after rias sweet talks..agrees and postpones his trip.Raman gets a call and he leaves.

At Ramans office

Kiran unloads on raman that bala is avoiding her, amma doesn't like her..yada yada...and asks him to talk to bala..and Raman agrees.

So kiran leaves for the meeting. Was wondering whatever happened to the new found besties.😆 Raman wonders as why bala is avoiding her as kiran is a nice girl and decides to talk to him about it wrong, apparently raman has bought a book on new love...,,2nd chances, new beginning , moving etc etc.

At nikhils

Ruhi has come to meet Nikhil..and he's not liking it..

Either he doesn't want to encourage ruhi or clearly not interested and doesn't want to hurt her if he can't reciprocate the feelings or doesn't want to get hurt. Ruhi wonders aboard nikhils weird behavior and after a long talks between the 2 nikhil agrees to see a doc with her.

At the bhallas

So the women of the house are talking about yesterday's incident and miku sugggests inviting nikhil for dinner.

Amma bought kesari halwa for MR. Agarwal...finally amma found another dish..just then raman enters and uses this opportunity to meet bala in private.

Ishu receives a call from shravu school...shravu passed with flying colors..

Bala and raman..

Raman asks bala as to why he's ignoring kiran..thank god raman is the matchmaker not ishu..and bala tells him about amma and how helpless he is ...and Raman wants to know what he wants as that's more important than anything and gives the book to him...NEW BOOk IN A MARRIED MAN'S LIFE!...

Just then enters...and they hide the book...So both are hiding it from ishu..and apologizes for disturbing their convo..and shares the info about shravu's progress in school...and raman takes bala away..and ishu too agrees to raman about moving on..little does she know what he's talking about.

Precap

To ishu book is not the answer/ solution to all the problems about new love, new beginnings etc etc..it could be wrong....wait ishu thought its for shravu?😆..raman is clueless.

Overall a better episode

I felt bad to see vandhu replaced that early...hope she is not forgotten.

Ishu was replaced, forgotten and blasphemed...but never shagun...

Ishra were themselves today in character.

Has ramans transformation of patni bakth commenced?..looks like it..

Bala wants to move on for sure...it hurts that he moved on that easily forgetting vandhu the mother of his kids...sad thing is we don't know if the kids are ready and if he even spoke and discussed with them. It looked like he has not respected their feelings and decided to move on...basically took them for granted.

Wish raman thought about same for mihir after rinki's death

Logically it will be difficult to forget vandu...as she gave birth to two kids and both of them are old enough to remember their birth mother...also it is too late to change their birth certificate😉😆 ...and also fool the society people😆

Originally posted by: ramishi

Wish raman thought about same for mihir after rinki's death

Last time raman gave advice to shagun on 2nd chance in love and wanted her to give manoj a chance and now he is doing the same with bala.

Thank god raman didn't read that book after ishita's presumed death😉

bala seems interested in marrying kiran...never thought he will be so eager to move on within this short period after his wife's death.😔...there is nothing wrong in moving on but this early for a man who has grown up kids and who claimed to love his wife so much is not expected from him...his act making him look like he can't stay without a partner

I hope raman will think same for simmi as bala...also will advice romi to opt for surrogacy like him😳

So riya's grandpa is raman's professor😲...lets see how Cvs relates riya with the bhallas

Originally posted by: ramishi

Logically it will be difficult to forget vandu...as she gave birth to two kids and both of them are old enough to remember their birth mother...also it is too late to change their birth certificate😉😆 ...and also fool the society people😆

The precap was very funny.
Coming to the episode.
Why is Raman this worried for Kiran' feelings.
What will happen if madam waits?
A marriage is not necessary for a lot of stuff for which Bala may be ready for.
Why does Bala think that amma n kids are an issue with regards to this marriage.
I feel amma should mind her own business.
If she is unhappy with balla's decision then she can send Bala away instead of trying to control him from her house.
Why is Bala residing at the iyers?
Normally when such problem arrises kids are sent to the hostel or they live with their g.parents(mostly maternal).
Basically Raman thinks kids are irrelevant in a marriage.
But ishu thinks otherwise.
It's like justifying shag's behaviour.
But Raman himself married ishu for that same reason.
Maybe his priorities have changed now.
In a way it is a good thought.
Not all of them could hope to marry a nanny.
So if a female is good natured then marriage it should be.
I have a feeling that the cvs are saying that as days go by ,a man ness a woman to be his wife.He does not need a mom for his children.
Raman's actions are a reflection of his current thoughts.
But only from s man's perspective.
Which is why he does not understand ishu's or simmi' s position.
A mom is needed only for rearing kids until they are around 10.
From then on it's only man n woman .
That's an interesting state of mind of Raman ,now.
But by forcing Bala to remarry almost immediately ,is he covering up his own actions?
Surrogacy should not be an option if it's the guy who is sterile.(bhalla's logic).
Similarly only men have the right to choose to remarry.
Hence Mihir has been unfortunate.

Originally posted by: GBSC

The precap was very funny.
Coming to the episode.
Why is Raman this worried for Kiran' feelings.
What will happen if madam waits?
A marriage is not necessary for a lot of stuff for which Bala may be ready for.
Why does Bala think that amma n kids are an issue with regards to this marriage.
I feel amma should mind her own business.
If she is unhappy with balla's decision then she can send Bala away instead of trying to control him from her house.
Why is Bala residing at the iyers?
Normally when such problem arrises kids are sent to the hostel or they live with their g.parents(mostly maternal).
Basically Raman thinks kids are irrelevant in a marriage.
But ishu thinks otherwise.
It's like justifying shag's behaviour.
But Raman himself married ishu for that same reason.
Maybe his priorities have changed now.
In a way it is a good thought.
Not all of them could hope to marry a nanny.
So if a female is good natured then marriage it should be.
I have a feeling that the cvs are saying that as days go by ,a man ness a woman to be his wife.He does not need a mom for his children.
Raman's actions are a reflection of his current thoughts.
But only from s man's perspective.
Which is why he does not understand ishu's or simmi' s position.
A mom is needed only for rearing kids until they are around 10.
From then on it's only man n woman .
That's an interesting state of mind of Raman ,now.
But by forcing Bala to remarry almost immediately ,is he covering up his own actions?
Surrogacy should not be an option if it's the guy who is sterile.(bhalla's logic).
Similarly only men have the right to choose to remarry.
Hence Mihir has been unfortunate.

Thanks for the review Viji.

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Thanks for the review Viji.

So SP message is for everlasting happiness commit adultery and the men who were affected by it will care for you as well as you find new love every turn of your life and even if you decide to cheat these men will still love you and care for you..While one is loyal to their marriage and husband and make many sacrifices they are either thrown out by their husbands if things didn't go right in case of Ishita who couldn't give birth to a child or replaced in a jiffy if dead like Vandu though she gave birth to two kids.

But in case of Shagun all bets are off.. she is an adulteress yet she is crowned as a good wife. She abandoned her kids many times yet she is termed as a good mother. Even though she betrayed Raman with Ashok and he was unable to move on after marrying Ishita but once he threw Ishita out he immediately replaced her place in his life and house and even for his kids with Shagun almost immediately. Raman he even felt Shagun is a good surrogate to carry his (supposedly love child from Ishita though deceptively) child with Ishita only later on to replace Ishita as an asli ma.

So bottom line Iyer sisters are replaceable EASILY. Different rules for Raman, Shagun and Bala.. very nice.

I wonder why Alu is all upset when she couldn't reach Nikhil? Did she forget she has a husband named Adi though useless and now realized the only way to retain her position as a good wife is by chasing other men like her mamma.

Nice messages by SP..

Hi Raji 🤗
Nailed it
#nayisoch what else.
👏

About iyer sisters being replaced
Only miku is left.. soon she too might join...
If Ria turns out to be romi and sarikas child.. though bizzare.. as spoilers suggest, then she too will join the replaceable club.. 😊

Originally posted by: mayasun

Hi Viji

Hi Maya 🤗