BECOMING A MOTHER IS NOT EASY.... 7/9/17

And pihu is rescued by another teacher and she comes clean with them...

Ruhi gives an earful...ishu was polite towards Ria..she's down with fever..noticed by ishu...that kid is rude..sure some trouble at home ...looks like she's neglected..

Aadi decorated the room to consummate ...their signature are dil hai mushkil...I was laughing throughout ...interrupted by ...Man that nikhil is with them

Aalu asking for tips headbang from nikhil...and this guy is giving her tips..ewww

And adi bursts out...and leaves...hopefully she realizes...

Ishu busy cooking for kids...their fav foods...

Ishu is going somewhere...she's not liking him with kiran and ready to spoil their coffee date.

Neelu's line was the best...lagtha hai bhabhi kissy ko band bajayegi...lol🤣

It's night...

Ishu with roller pin raises it to hit raman..but kiran opens the door...so ishu knows kirans house...and she looks for him and finds him sitting on the dining table and working..and she brings up coffee issue...says..that he doesn't like the coffee made by the iyers but someone else...you don't pick up phone nor message me...and she starts running around him to beat the crap out...and these 2 are chasing each other...

Kiran is watching all this...ishu is not jealous by angry ...coz she was trying to talk to him about pihu but he doesn't seem to care...

So ramans antennas are up and wants to know about pihu...she says her mom that is she is with pihu and will handle her as he doesn't have time ...he's happy spending time with multi talented friend and is comfortable sleeping here

He says...once by mistake...

I...You keep making mistakes...I'm leaving and don't want to talk to you and leaves

Kiran stops..and says nothing going on between them...she likes bala...

Raman is helping her...

She's actually vandhus friend...and wants to be with bala and requests her help..

He didn't utter a word coz he wants to know what's in balas mind..and asks ishu to help ...she looks on...says no...I can't help...coz none can take vandhus place...

Ishra

Raman wants her to help kiran as bala too is lonely...

Ishu...true ...but what about kids...you are seeing from 1 angle...

Will she accept vandhus kids are her own?..they are not hers...superb point...

Will she give the same love like a mom does?

Raman is speechless...

If the kids are not theirs ..the love is different...you have to take care and handle kids differently...you have no idea how much needs to be done that even she's not aware of it...is she ready for this?...who knows this better than ishu...

After vandhu left those kids have become so lonely ...bala jiju gave love to them as a mom and dad..he stepped into moms shies and of a dad..

She's a stranger and hasn't even met them...will she take care of them? Ok fine she wants to marry Bala...is she ready to be the mother of those kids?...bang on question...it's not as easy as you think...I know how it is..we married for ruhi...we embarked on this marriage based on kids..it became deeper and meaningful...but this is staring on the phase of she wants bala...not the kids...she hasn't given it a thought..there might be problems in future...it's as simple as that...

If she wants to be his wife...she has to be ready to be the mother of his kids first...and she leaves..

Looks like raman had a mild realization ...how difficult it should've been for ishita...

Next morning Raman apologizes for thinking only from one perspective...and she tells him to get busy for launch...and then she calls ruhi...and they talk..

Ishu is relieved that ruhi is with her..

Pihu is scared...understandable... ..ruhi wants to know about Ria...

Aaliya shares with nikhil...Adi sees it..

Precap

Ishu ready...toshiji doesn't want to go and present the award to her...she hates her.

Overall good..

Ishra scene was good

Loved ishus dialogues...simple, crystal clear...very practical..

So launch is tomorrow

So kiran goes to school to bond with the kids?!..based on her insta pic..she in school

As I said earlier ishu thinks thru the problem, analyzes the problem, thinks in depth on a long term basis...understands it but always misunderstood ...

Raman never thinks that far ahead as ishu...he's a short term thinker, never sees others perspective...he said he wants to know about bala...but I never saw him talk about it to him.. maybe in future,..hoping nothing horrible happens

Hi Viji

Thanks for the review.

Will watch yesterday n today's episodes sometime tomorrow.

Looks like a good episode if Ishitha had tried explaining to Raman.

Thanks

Originally posted by: varunike

Hi Viji

Thanks for the review.

Will watch yesterday n today's episodes sometime tomorrow.

Looks like a good episode if Ishitha had tried explaining to Raman.

Thanks

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi aarthi

Yes it was good..

I was bored with aadiliya and that so called funny roller pin scene...it looked out of place ...

And stupid ...

Ishus lines were damm you'd..superb ..loved it

Wondering why raman tell kiran about ishu? That she's balas sil/sis

He said he did t want to tell ishu about kiran to her as he wants to know about balas feekibgs..fine..

Why not to kiran about ishu and bala?

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Originally posted by: yhm_jabrafan

Sorry to write in between. I was silent reader in dis forum & ur reviews, updates. Kiran has already knows about Ishita and Bala & their relationship bcos she s vandus friend & vandu shares everything with her. Raman agreed to help her , talk to Bala and check what he thinks. But now Kiran said to Ishita itself that she is in love with Bala. So Raman gave the suggestion on that moment bcos Ishita is more close to Bala than him, they are like brother sister than sisinlaw & broinlaw and she wud b the bettter of the two to talk to Bala. It is not that he hide it from kiran purposely or kiran did not know about it. This is what I got from episodes. Thank u.

Thanks for the review.
It has been 2/3 months since vandu died in an accident.
It's v.thoughtful of Raman in feeling for Bala.Helping a divorce ,in love with Bala ,to get hitched to him(Bala).
Did Bala say that he longs for a life partner?
What kind of friend of vandu is she?in just 2 months of her passing away Kiran will start eyeing her (vandu') husband it seems.
Now Raman a married man with 3 kids who hopes to spend quality time with Kiran n in the process help Kiran get Bala.
Now exactly who is wanting whom?
Why hide this fact from ishu?
Raman was going overboard in spending time with Kiran.
By doing so Kiran can only get attracted to a married man (Raman) n create a midlife crisis for him.
Raman is simply being Raman.
If he enjoys what he does ,he ends up forgetting why or how it started.
The way he had fun spending time with shags during child swap.
Bala need not be like Raman.
As soon as ishu committed (supposedly) suicide,he brought back shags into his life .
This is like insulting the respect that Bala had for vandu n their marriage.
Raman seems to have realised ishu's POV.
Will he contemplate his own case with ishu?
Seems like Kiran took raman's help as he is a classical example for this kind of association.
The world will not end if Kiran waits for Bala to reciprocate.
Raman may end up sending the wrong signals to Kiran.
Kiran can easily trap Raman.

Thank you Viji :)

Originally posted by: GBSC

Thanks for the review.
It has been 2/3 months since vandu died in an accident.
It's v.thoughtful of Raman in feeling for Bala.Helping a divorce ,in love with Bala ,to get hitched to him(Bala).
Did Bala say that he longs for a life partner?
What kind of friend of vandu is she?in just 2 months of her passing away Kiran will start eyeing her (vandu') husband it seems.
Now Raman a married man with 3 kids who hopes to spend quality time with Kiran n in the process help Kiran get Bala.
Now exactly who is wanting whom?
Why hide this fact from ishu?
Raman was going overboard in spending time with Kiran.
By doing so Kiran can only get attracted to a married man (Raman) n create a midlife crisis for him.
Raman is simply being Raman.
If he enjoys what he does ,he ends up forgetting why or how it started.
The way he had fun spending time with shags during child swap.
Bala need not be like Raman.
As soon as ishu committed (supposedly) suicide,he brought back shags into his life .
This is like insulting the respect that Bala had for vandu n their marriage.
Raman seems to have realised ishu's POV.
Will he contemplate his own case with ishu?
Seems like Kiran took raman's help as he is a classical example for this kind of association.
The world will not end if Kiran waits for Bala to reciprocate.
Raman may end up sending the wrong signals to Kiran.
Kiran can easily trap Raman.

Hi Viji,

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Thank you Viji :)

Ishus belan act -OTT and Not funny ..when will the cvs learn to rise above all this stupid nok-jhok

..their relationship is a joke without any maturity...

Loved Ishu saying No to Kiran...and her convo with Raman was to the point good and sensible..

@Gbsc ..loved what you wrote..:)