Originally posted by: Lacustris
Viji, I hate to say this. But boy, who ever wrote that spoiler has such a soft corner for Raman and giving him a free pass if he happened to have an ONS. It's all due to Ishita, his wife who misunderstood him when he was in his vulnerable best. The vulnerabilities he himself is creating, fanning and nurturing at this point. Adi may be an ass, but Raman is doing the most here.
So, Kiran came with a purpose which is fine, and Raman is having family troubles. Fine too. But he also has a wife who understood him more than he ever understood her, she has been his rock for years now, and she has been his support ever since he came sulking to her about his missed business opportunities, encouraged him, trusted him even put her life savings in his project. Now suddenly she is no longer understanding him by not lending her shoulder for him to cry and not applauding him when he seems to be picking the fights with their son. Very nice. He is a Cadbury milk chocolate baby and Ishita is the cantankerous wife and he had to go running to a stranger woman while ignoring his wife's concerned calls and pours his heart out and impressed by her suggestions.
Isn't it nice? I want to see how he can even be redeemed if ONS happens. He had been most cruel to his wife with constant verbal abuse, insults and severing relationship with her and throwing her out at the drop of the hat for his family, and kids even for his Ex. She forgave him for everything and came back to him without asking for apologies nor explanations. What will this infidelity do to her and their relationship? Though I know this is to accommodate DT absence but is this step necessary CVS? Raman had been anything but an ideal husband. He hurt Ishita beyond repair and her heart is stabbed, torn and trampled on to no end. In real life, the wife's family (if they are not like Iyers) will swoop in to take the girl away from this toxic environment. This is not even worth it. This is a show and it needs drama but as a socially responsible channel when can the makers say how much of these kinds of behaviors are acceptable and when is it a proper time to say "ENOUGH.
My intention is not to hurt anyone who is rooting for Raman. I just felt this article is written to justify Raman's actions and that I feel is not right.
One quote for Ishita and Ishita kind of women out there;
"It hurts to let go, but sometimes it hurts more to hold on.
And for Raman;
"Some people will pretend to care just so they can get a better seat to watch you struggle. A helping hand does not always mean they are there to help.
Wonderful Raji
Simply loved what you wrote and your quotes...to the point...
Lol yes the person is sort of justifying ramans to be actions... I will add mire at the right time ...
Raji..he was the one who rushed to her and she gave him the pep talk and she invested life savings..boosted his morale ..and now she doesn't understand? Isnt that preposterous?
@ red...🤣how did you come up with this? I can't stop laughing..
About ONS...I will answer at the rught time...
Frankly raji this step ...romantic Angle is nit necessary...they can show something sensible...Ishra talking and solving...but we get this..
@ bold...👍🏼perfect...welll said...enough is enough