Sumiko- have some sense of responsibility

One of the reasons amongst many being the conviction and the Ghasa pita guidance given to a young married girl not to discus matters happening in her matrimonial home with her parents

I ask why

The mother in law of modern times is cool and supposedly tolerant

A marriage is supposed to be of two families also specially where a joint family is involved

The daughter in law is given as much freedom as the daughter of the house

And to top it all what is it so different that one family does from another family within the privacy of their respective houses that has to be guarded like a piece of intelligence

These are some of the reasons young educated girls subjected to domestic violence and abuse take so long to come out with the truth

Sometimes its too late

Parents which till yesterday were your all in all have to be treated as outsiders - for what

This is taking away the girl's one and only armour in an Indian society

Ishita should have been given a better script than the unsavoury lecture she gave to a newly married girl who almost married a once married man and has just started her life

Lecture admonishing her from sharing anything with her Mom

How is it possible for a newly Wed in a new surrounding to confide in anybody else

Please don't encourage such scripts

A girl's only protection is her parents

Just by not keeping things under wraps the heavens won't fall

But may be a girl will be saved from domestic abuse In Time

One side according to me none should interfere in married couple life neither girl's parents nor boy's parents but on the other hand i agree with u also hum apne baccho ko sikhate h ki sasural ki baat kabhi maayke mein mat batana hamesha sabko khush rakhna iske karan hi physical abuse badhta h aur jab ladki par had se jyada julm ho jata h ya ladki mar jati h tab gharwalo ko pata chalta h

But ek sach ye bhi h ki bhalla house mein koi bhi aliya ko torture nahi karega in fact bhalla family to apni bahu ke aage apne bete ko bhul jati h aur ye hum ishra aur romika ke case mein dekh chuke h

Women shld tolerate if any abuse cause to her... In yhm also the telecasted a scene when Raman told the vacation with shagun,adi,ruhi.. There they shared mother daughter bonding

And ishita ko bhi ye baat samajhni chahiye ki real culprit kaun h shagun ya adi aur aliya real culprit is shagun

Adi aliya r not culprit

Communication with parents is important but that doesnt mean you share everything bit of your sasural's information with your mother. How can anyone trust that daughter in law that shares every bit of sasural happening with her mother who doesnt waste time to tapkofying in her beti's sasural at any given opportunity.

Being mature enough to know when to share and when to keep is what seperates a girl from a married woman.

Here its not normal sasural-mayka case. Alia is practically raised by Ishita. Ishita is her amma first then saas. So if she can be so trusting towards her new mother shagun then its not wrong for Ishita to expect a bit of trust from her daughter in law by marriage and daughter by upbringing. The house alia is married to adores her like a daughter and can never harm even a hair on her head .Here clearly the interefering one is shagun and not Ishita. She was never even a decent human being let alone a daughter in law/mother/wife, so obviously she is meddling in adiliya and bhalla house affairs in pretext of protecting her nayi naveli daughter and brainwashing aliya with her own misguided experiences making it seems like bhalla's n Ishita are some kind of bahu torturing monsters.

A mother's advice is always helpful in her daughter's married life but a woman who herself has been mockery of motherhood and wife how can advice her daughter on about any of this. Such kind of mothers just play intrumental role in breaking up her daughter's home.