Just saw the epi ..it had a lot of 11pm yhm shades...i loved that we saw KP and RD in the same frame after a very long time ...and Ruhaanika was very good throughout 😛
couple of more observations..
Pankaj bhatia is a good actor..the energy he brings to bala and the screen presence and his camraderie with Ishita is very good..
Did bala say that vandu and he are moving back to the Iyers place..and he will be doing business with Ramans company? Thats good - so we will see more of him over lots of talentless folks🥱..hope to see some more of 11pm Vandu too..though post leap Vandu was atrocious ...
As for Ishita - Bala convo there was lots lacking - I couldn't empathize with Ishita because she had zero introspection of her own mistakes - its as if she has been forced to live with shagun and mani..nope I dont think anyone forced her too..its as if Raman never tried to get her and the kids back home - she says ' acche se' ..but he did take the initiative..sent her flowers ...tried to meet the kids - was worried sick for pihu when mani humilated him and asked him to keep away..no that day he wasnt angry or like ishita said ' hamesha galtiyaan karte hai' whats wrong in making mistakes? everyone does? Ishita does too...can a man /woman ever be perfect?? Is she expecting that he will never make mistakes from now on - is that how a marriage works??
That day shagun, mani , ishita - no one even allowed him to speak or explain - they humilated him in front of his kids and asked him never to come back - is it right on ishitas part to expect a human being with an ounce of self respect to try and come back to that house??
The whole convo was one sided ...at least from ishitas side it had a huge self serving bias...all arguments made her look good and Raman bad...not one thought or doubt saying jeeju did I make a mistake too by taking this too far...should we just have had a conversation instead of all this drama??...nope ..nothing..
Infact in the Ramans cabin scene - when Raman cut the phone - she said everyone always gives Raman the benefit of doubt ????😲😲😲...what?? when??..In this whole track no one even gave the man a benefit of doubt for trying to save his own daughter - his own father told him he was a brute and didnt deserve a family 🥱...I mean just because cvs choose to give a voice to the FL doesnt mean they write anything with a sad BG and expect people to suddenly feell bad...
I could relate to Ishita missing raman...I could relate to her desperation in wanting to know his whereabouts because what he is doing now is unlike him - in the ideal 7 30 pm yhm world Raman would have come begging back ..apologized or fought or promised to make amends etc (which he is doing as gulabo - but ishita doesnt know it)...but but...that said...
I dont see even a tiny thought that maybe Raman in in pain too...I didnt hear Bala mention it either..maybe the humilation and the pain is tough for him to take too...and that he wants to give her the space she asked for...nope...
its still' I did the right thing because I wanted him to 'improve' argument'😕..i might be a minority but I hated the line saying main kya karti..aap Raman ko jaante hai - how he always gets angry and makes mistakes- I had no choice but to do this...
I would have related more if it was ...I wanted our relationship to change - not I want him to change...and I thought that maybe some distance will help both of us think ...was I wrong..??
Here Ishita has zero introspection of her actions - and worse she seems to be blaming Raman now for lack of care too 😲 and not trying hard enough to get her and the kids back..😲...very selfish IMO...
I liked the Bala - Ishita cabin scene more than the first convo - because it was more real and more of a confused and insecure woman and Bala was spot on in trying to talk and resolve things and he immediately figured there was more to Ramans behavior - sadly ishitas mind is so clouded she is not even able to see that😕.
Edited by bscorp13 - 8 years ago
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