Originally posted by: bscorp13
So it's clearly my way or the highway for Ishita?..if people don't agree with me neither will I trust them not allow my kids to..even if those ppl are my own parents or in laws because they may 'influence ' me or the kids😕...if they agree with me ..even a vile woman like Shagun should be trusted?..just because she 'suuports' my boycott Raman stand?..
If Raman were to take a similar stand wonder how many get well soon bouquets or broom beatigs he would have got..and if gevtrusyed Shagun over ishita we would have got the 'he never trusted me' rant too😕
I mean I get some arguments which say maybe ishita has changed..maybe she has decided to be selfish for a change etc etc..but in that case it's only fair that cvs show her accepting that she got so blinded in her hurt and self centredness that she didn't see that she actually separated 2 kids from their family - and from their father- something the real ishita has always stood up.against?
I highly doubt cvs can delve into this as deep.as you have Priya..
Yes it was very simple for the kids to have divided time between both houses even if ishita chose not to meet Raman...and her hurt at ramans accusation is no excuse ..especialky after the child's school called her informing about her poor performance..whatever my issues I would have made that phone call and allowed the child her happy and comfortable environment 😕...
@bold - Hmmm. I am all OK for Ishita finally putting her foot down and not ready to take in any more humiliations. But her choosing Mani and Shagun's place is completely not acceptable in any situations and no justifications can make that valid. I feel it is contradictory to her stand of self-respect and it nullifies everything else she says. If she had come to help shagun, she should have left the moment, Mani did not leave for a trip. I wonder if she is planning to be there till Shagun's delivery.😕🤔
@red - I agree. That would have been the ideal thing, provided Ishita really did not have problems with Pihu meeting Raman and taking classes from him. Has she believed that, she would not have got convinced so easily with Mani's words and agreed for a tutor. She would have put her foot down and said she needs no tutor and her husband is more than enough for her daughter. I mean she is quite apprehensive of hiring a governess for her daughter, since she feels that she would not be able to take care as that of a mother. Does that not hold good with Raman as well? Will the tutor be able to take care of and teach the kid better than the father? 😕
In my opinion, Ishita has stopped thinking rationally, rather stopped thinking completely and just yielding in to shagun and Mani's interference in her life and letting them take decisions for her,which is not acceptable. I would have expected her to be bold and strong in her stand of self-respect, but here she is coming across as confused, vulnerable, egoistic and irrational.😕. I hope she confides in Gulabo, lets her pain out and then starts thinking rationally. Let us see.
This is also precisely why I felt that the kids should have been kept away from this. There is nothing wrong in her taking decisions as a mother, but there are phases in the life of the children where the care, concern and love from both the parents is essential for the kid's mental well being as well. Also had the daughters been with Raman, then she can also get to see how desperate Raman is to change himself and win her back in life. That would have been ideal where there is no "ke liye" tag associated as well. Anyways.
Let us hope that we get to see some mature conversations between Ishita and Gulabo atleast , if not for Raman and Ishita. 😕🤔
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