My POV on this show...

Hi all,

I am a silent follower of this forum recently.

I was a 11PM YHM viewer . I stopped watching after time shift but followed the story and when the first leap happened broke all the ties thinking kuch bhi...

Then...then...I started watching from the Australia track knowing that they together planned it... And ended up here today...

I read a post by Lacustris...an awesome post on the journey of Ishitha's character throughout the show...only after reading it my thoughts shifted from Ishitha's character to Raman's character. Till then I was complaining why Raman is like this and that...

First let us see the insecurities of Ishitha...She is rejected again and again and again for her inability thus conveying the thought that she cant be a mother, she is unfit for a family life. She is soo helpless about it. And when she saw a lonely soul Ruhi she felt connected and their love story started leading to the marriage and thus getting a family. She started to prove herself worth of it... And along with everyone accepting her, began to make her Devatha and she took the whole family's issues on her head and thus putting herself to the backseat.

And nobody stopped her and said it is not necessary to do all the things to prove herself...she can be herself...including Raman. Nobody asked her what do YOU really want?!!!

And about Raman...

Ok...Lets see the before story...Raman's first marriage...what it gave him...it left him with loads of inferiority complex...but he buried everything within him and emerged stronger and more stronger that he became a hero and was basking in it...Everyone put him on a pedestal and the awards and the victorys he was attaining against his rivals...he was flying high...

And the first failure for him was Ruhi rejecting him...not only rejection and it came to him coz of Ishitha...Ishitha comes into Raman's life winning over him...

They married...with huge packages...packages of insecurities in expecting someone's...their own partner's love...

Raman did not want to give her the upper hand as he suffered a lot doing that already...He want to lead this relationship...The wonder is both readily accepted this relationship though constantly denying it...

And when Ishitha did something for him for the first time making him know that HE is the father of Ruhi...he became really soo happy and thanked her, said sorry to her...what he got in return...ishitha was blaming him for his inability to see thru his daughter...thus poking his inferiority complex...and whatever followed then...was all showing Raman down and Ishitha high...the slap, Ishitha becoming the saviour of Simmi...everything...

And with the Param fiasco, their love developed Raman felt good doing something for ishitha...and then it was all Ishitha winning...I mean she does everything on herself...

The licence track when he gladly became the Knight in the shining Armour...she didn't allow him to enjoy that by she winning suraj for him.

Raman's disappointments keep coming and thus digging his inferiority complex more and more...So when Ishitha wronged he spit all the buried frustrations on her...leading to her death...

Now he is disappointed on himself coz he is sole reason he lost his love and he is in hell right again...

Post leap...

Both didn't want to confront what went wrong with them...they had their favourite jobs on hand...They found it easier to take the "ke liye" path coz they are too scared to take the path which deals their own needs and insecurities...

And now again when Ishitha is at fault, Raman is ready to blame her and this time he want to save his daughter all by himself coz he wants the upper hand in their relationship...

See every man has this ego...sometimes women should give the wheel in her man's hand and take a backseat and allow him to enjoy his ego to some extent... No man likes his ladylove constantly winning over him...

Ishitha should see thru his behaviour...stop complaining about him and start to think why he is doing this once again...what is his problem...she should start to think on these lines...she should start thinking though they both were in love with each other still why they are unfulfilled souls...

Why Ishitha should do that?

I personally feel women are more capable of understanding the emotions than men. I mean the Emotional Quotient is always high comparably. And she should do that without boasting about it.

Uff...I ranted too much...

Just wanted to share my thoughts here... Would always love to read ur views too...

A very big Thank you to Lacustris for the wonderful post and Mdwst for the sensible reviews daily. I like ur reviews...it would be so mild and sensible ...Hats off for ur work.

Thank u for taking ur time and reading my views.

God bless U all.

wow wow amazing written dear

congrats for your first post dear 👏

deep analysis of character

who is ishra ? superb

agree completely dear

please don't be silent reader and write more more dear

Welcome to the forum

Awesome analysis yes the makers need to dwell on their insecurities and help them both heal. it seems to be a problem ridden life they have with no space for happiness.

superb write up dear
the makers would never dwell into the insecurities of the characters which is needed big time now

Originally posted by: maduragymhasium

wow wow amazing written dear

congrats for your first post dear 👏

deep analysis of character

who is ishra ? superb

agree completely dear

please don't be silent reader and write more more dear

Originally posted by: Bulleya

Welcome to the forum

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Awesome analysis yes the makers need to dwell on their insecurities and help them both heal. it seems to be a problem ridden life they have with no space for happiness.

Originally posted by: DikshaN

superb write up dear
the makers would never dwell into the insecurities of the characters which is needed big time now

if cvs allow the leads to work too much on their own relationship there wont be enough screen space for their favorite Shagun. I admit screen space taken by inspector is irritating but his role doesnt interfere with Raman Ishita dynamics unlike Shagun. Every track just has to have Shagun. That is the major downfall of YHM.