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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Diya.mukherjee

Hey viji , today I didn't watch the epi .was outside to buy saraswati idol cz its swaraswati puja time in bengal .but after reading ur revw , I am feeling bad fr ishita . nf ur right , if raman can take help from parmeet khurranna then what's wrong in taking help from shagun .we cannot ignore the fact that she is also ruhi's mother . nd acp , she is police man .so if ishita is wrong then raman is equally at fault .but both r desperate to save thr daughter .

I dunno if u saw today's segment or know what hppnd . but the woman in me felt very contended after seeing ishita leaving nd taking a stand fr herself . nd raman when ishita saved ruhi nd kept her word. Raman didn't look at all happy nd thank full nd he was giving her looks when she was hugging ruhi nd just loved that angry glare she gave him back .nd even when she was leaving looking visibly hurt he was in his tashan mode . nd said I wud hv saved ruhi somehow . I was shocked by his audacity . if not a sorry , she deserved a thank you .yes both were engaged in illegal activities .but raman was fleeing ruhi from jail .but ishita proved her innocent . anyway useless to rant , cz in the forum if raman says something that will b justified but ishita says anything it will b termed as PSEUDO FEMINISM. So Better to keep quiet . I just wish ishita maintains her tashan nd anger .


I also feeling bad for Raman bcoz nobody deserves his love ...Bcoz Bhalla family mein Raman ka koi value nahi hai na koi uska decision ka respect karta na hi usko koi respect karta hai ...Adi ke badle ka track mein jab Raman Stamp paper change kiya dha tab Ishita ne Raman ko kya kuch bol diya dha ki Aap ek acche pita nahi hai na ek pati banne ka layak hai ...par kya sach janne ke baad Ishita Raman se sorry bola nahi na ...Bhoot track mein 4 idiots ki gang itna natak kiya ...Raman ko ishita keliye Ashok ki pair tak choona pada dha ,Raman ki emotions ki saath kheli family ki emotions ke saath kheli par kya Ishita ek sorry bola nahi na ...Har baar Ishita Raman se baat chupatha hai par har baar Raman sab bhool kar usse samjhata hai ki Raman uske saath hai par Ishita ko Raman se zyaada baharwalon par bharosa hai... Adi keliye Raman ne kitna kuch kiya dha par Family mein wapas aane ke baad kya ek baar bhi Adi ne sorry bola Raman ko jistarah se usne behave kiya Raman ke saath nahi na...sorry sirf Ishimaa keliye dha...suhail Ruhi ke track mein Raman pehli dinse Right dhi par kya Family including Ishita Raman ko samjhne ki koshish ki nahi na...Jab sohail ka sach bahar aaya tab kya Ishita ko ek baar bhi realise hua ki Raman was right nahi na...Subbu simmi track mein bhi Raman sahi dhi Raman ko sujatha par shakh hua dha par jab yeh baat Raman ishita ko batayi tab bhi ishita Raman ki baton par Vishwas nahi ki end mein kya hua ...Raman ka emotions koi value hi nahi hai iss show
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lacustris

Diya hugs Darling..Perfectly put. Glad to see your observation and understanding of the episode as it's played.

Segments i noticed his body language when ishita hugged Ruhi and to me it was very petty. I will wait until episode is played and Viji gives her review as I stopped watching this show long time ago but hanging on because of friends i made here.
And about Ishita standing for herself well, it's about time she grows a spine and not take crap from Raman any more.
Sure they both made mistakes, lack respect and trust but only i see Ishita atleast trying to make amends but Raman is still in his pig headedness and petty. It makes me really happy if she walks out. When there is no respect and human decency in the marriage it's better not stay together.. same applies to raman as he himself mentioned she is not his wife.. it's best to preserve sanity if any left and live without each other.
Happy saraswathi pooja!!!

thank you so much raji . its ur name right? . yes ur right .from the past few days ishita is running behind him fr forgiveness .she just want a reassurense that he is still with her .but he is pushing her away n away what will she do .if he wants space tell her to stay away..this man himself doesn't know what she wants .u remember once he threw her out of the house , after mihir rinki fiasco .she was angry with him . but he just said sorry , I love you nd created a romantic atmosphere .nd she is back . I think he blvs that this woman loves him nd no matter how I treat her , she will b ultimate one to stand beside me . I m sorry , its true that ishra loves each other but only love cannot hold a sacred relationship like marriage . u need to trust , respect nd give space to ur partner .this two r lacking these three things big time . nd raman makes it look more bad by his words . today though I liked what ishita did but I really don't like her dialogue about ethics nd that he is bad influence on her kids .but its a tit fr tat .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Viji..Thanks for the review😊
Loved the title:)..very apt
seems the Ruhi Raman scene was good ..of course the scene would have been good coz of the actor..
and as you said desperate times desperate measures ..one more reason could be the cvs have to fit in a white Shagun ..and I strongly believe her colour has been fixed ..I hope i am wrong coz a white shagun is our worst nightmare😆

fine I get it Raman is angry ..I also agree it was a judgemental error on Ishu's part ..but is it necessary to say spiteful things to her all the time ..maintaining a cold silence is equally effective

I am a teacher with special children ..all my children are non verbal ..we communicate and understand each other through expressions and gestures..and it gets so frustrating for me at times when I am not able to understand what the kid is trying to convey...and then it strikes how at times we misuse this precious gift which has been denied to so many .. ..Speech is a gift ..Speech is also an Index of the Mind. one must choose the words one speaks carefully ..coz words once spoken cannot be taken back ..It stays forever in the mind of the person it is spoken to..

And Viji my house help an erstwhile fan of Yhm who happened to catch a few of Nidhi -Sohail episode asked me in all seriousness -How could Sohail be Nidhi's brother😆
according to her Nidhi was shown to be alone now suddenly we have Chacha ,brother crawling out of woodwork..
I had no answer ..she seemed disappointed that I could not answer such a simple question😆



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: akhinaakhinapr


I also feeling bad for Raman bcoz nobody deserves his love ...Bcoz Bhalla family mein Raman ka koi value nahi hai na koi uska decision ka respect karta na hi usko koi respect karta hai ...Adi ke badle ka track mein jab Raman Stamp paper change kiya dha tab Ishita ne Raman ko kya kuch bol diya dha ki Aap ek acche pita nahi hai na ek pati banne ka layak hai ...par kya sach janne ke baad Ishita Raman se sorry bola nahi na ...Bhoot track mein 4 idiots ki gang itna natak kiya ...Raman ko ishita keliye Ashok ki pair tak choona pada dha ,Raman ki emotions ki saath kheli family ki emotions ke saath kheli par kya Ishita ek sorry bola nahi na ...Har baar Ishita Raman se baat chupatha hai par har baar Raman sab bhool kar usse samjhata hai ki Raman uske saath hai par Ishita ko Raman se zyaada baharwalon par bharosa hai... Adi keliye Raman ne kitna kuch kiya dha par Family mein wapas aane ke baad kya ek baar bhi Adi ne sorry bola Raman ko jistarah se usne behave kiya Raman ke saath nahi na...sorry sirf Ishimaa keliye dha...suhail Ruhi ke track mein Raman pehli dinse Right dhi par kya Family including Ishita Raman ko samjhne ki koshish ki nahi na...Jab sohail ka sach bahar aaya tab kya Ishita ko ek baar bhi realise hua ki Raman was right nahi na...Subbu simmi track mein bhi Raman sahi dhi Raman ko sujatha par shakh hua dha par jab yeh baat Raman ishita ko batayi tab bhi ishita Raman ki baton par Vishwas nahi ki end mein kya hua ...Raman ka emotions koi value hi nahi hai iss show

hmmm agreed ishita is the worst wife anyone can get .she doesn't deserve a man like raman . better raman gives divorce to her nd she leaves the house . all will leave happily ever after . ish happy , ra happy .no wish vs r.forum waasi will b happy as well . I rest my case here . thank you 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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the episode was a waste I felt
only good thing was kps acting and ruman scene
Raman was very cold towards ishu and that is not the way u behave with someone whom u love unconditionally
but I felt he was more scared of being caught by her since he knew what he is doing is illegal
u could make out from his body language that he was very scared and nervous
all said and done I'm not taking sides becoz i know one thing that both are equally wrong
u can't say that raman has a motor mouth and he loses his temper quickly that's y he hurts ishu becoz it all depends on u how to control ur anger and ishita is also to be blamed here she should help him in over coming his temper issues before any other problem hits them
as husband wife they are supposed to help each other overcome their flaws and work as a team instead of blaming the other
param and romi forces Raman to make ruhi run from jail
I'm with ishu if she leaves the house because of her self respect and that she is hurt by Ramans words but her saying that Raman is setting a wrong example for the kids is uncalled for
even her way of getting ruhi out was illegal and she dint even have a problem with this when Raman used the same way to get her out from jail
this is called hypocrisy
whose houses are made of glass shouldn't throw stones on others
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for the detailed review😊
Looks like ruman scene is quite good, will try to watch it.
Finally, track is gonna end, focus gonna shift on ishra, I'm happy🥳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Diya.mukherjee

thank you so much raji . its ur name right? . yes ur right .from the past few days ishita is running behind him fr forgiveness .she just want a reassurense that he is still with her .but he is pushing her away n away what will she do .if he wants space tell her to stay away..this man himself doesn't know what she wants .u remember once he threw her out of the house , after mihir rinki fiasco .she was angry with him . but he just said sorry , I love you nd created a romantic atmosphere .nd she is back . I think he blvs that this woman loves him nd no matter how I treat her , she will b ultimate one to stand beside me . I m sorry , its true that ishra loves each other but only love cannot hold a sacred relationship like marriage . u need to trust , respect nd give space to ur partner .this two r lacking these three things big time . nd raman makes it look more bad by his words . today though I liked what ishita did but I really don't like her dialogue about ethics nd that he is bad influence on her kids .but its a tit fr tat .


Yes I'm raji..
You are right about them having love but clearly lacking relationship goals that are trust, respect, honesty and communication.
Ishita giving ethics lecture may sound stupid but what to do.. it's so inconsistencies in writing..but as one of my friend mentioned the silver lining in that stupid illegal act is Ruhi is freed legally.. not escaped and living on the run like a criminal.. similar thing was done in shanaya track too.. so it's convenient for the characters to talk about same thing differently..
Chalo bottom line is Ruhi is free and once again Raman and Ishita need to decide how to continue this despicable temporary relationship..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Hi Viji..Thanks for the review😊

Loved the title:)..very apt
seems the Ruhi Raman scene was good ..of course the scene would have been good coz of the actor..
and as you said desperate times desperate measures ..one more reason could be the cvs have to fit in a white Shagun ..and I strongly believe her colour has been fixed ..I hope i am wrong coz a white shagun is our worst nightmare😆

fine I get it Raman is angry ..I also agree it was a judgemental error on Ishu's part ..but is it necessary to say spiteful things to her all the time ..maintaining a cold silence is equally effective

I am a teacher with special children ..all my children are non verbal ..we communicate and understand each other through expressions and gestures..and it gets so frustrating for me at times when I am not able to understand what the kid is trying to convey...and then it strikes how at times we misuse this precious gift which has been denied to so many .. ..Speech is a gift ..Speech is also an Index of the Mind. one must choose the words one speaks carefully ..coz words once spoken cannot be taken back ..It stays forever in the mind of the person it is spoken to..

And Viji my house help an erstwhile fan of Yhm who happened to catch a few of Nidhi -Sohail episode asked me in all seriousness -How could Sohail be Nidhi's brother😆
according to her Nidhi was shown to be alone now suddenly we have Chacha ,brother crawling out of woodwork..
I had no answer ..she seemed disappointed that I could not answer such a simple question😆



Sumi perfect..
@bold so true. Speech is truly a gift of God which we are misusing. Isn't it true the saying " just as an arrow once released from the bow can not be return, in the same manner painful and harsh words can not be taken back." As you said can Raman not give her silent treatment which is more powerful and deafening too. Does Raman need to reject her over and over and over as Ruhi's mother knowing how much it hurts her? His goal is to hurt her and hit her below the belt. And how can even he says he lives her..
About Nidhi brother... Lol.. they may have Nidhi's whole family crawling out by the time Pihu hits puberty also..
Sad you couldn't convince your maid who is very vocal about stronger Ishita.. and irregularities in YHM.. EK failed big time there... Even the illiterate TRP aunties are not able buy her crap..pity..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

Hello Di
How r u ?
Sorry for my rant though 😆

Today was a waste episode except for Ruman scene in the remand home
only saving grace was Kp's acting
He was too brilliant in portraying a pain of a father whose daughter is stuck in a remand home
But yes He was pretty rude and cold towards Ishita
It's not the way u treat your whom u claims to love
But then even I don't understand Ishita
She is making plans with sautan come saheli chameleon Shaggy maa and good for nothing hawaldaar yet didn't involved Raman in her plan
The storyline has gone into the drains and so are the characters because this was not the 'Raman ' and 'Ishita' we were introduced .
Both were sensitive towards each other and even when they used to have nok jhok they used to take care of the fact that they don't each other
But these Raman and Ishita are just the figments of the Ishra because they neither respect each other nor trust each other
They do love each other n care for each other but then they don't respect n trust each other and these r the fundamental things of a marriage which they r lacking
Waise I think both Raman and Ishita are not different from another .
They both snatch each others right ..
One does this by his words and the other does this by her actions
dono ram milaye jodi hain .
And I don't understand why is she leaving the house to 'protect' her children from Raman ? Is he an outsider or a criminal .For god sake he is the damn father of the kids and loves them
It would had been ok if she was leaving for her self respect but yahan toh she's leaving to protect her children from the janwaar n impulsive Raman 🥱
And she is giving lectures on ethics is a joke
She have done all illegal n unethical things during bhoot track along with that whitest of white shaggy maa n her chamcha hawaldaar who is good fr nothing so wasn't that wrong on her part ?
Wouldn't that have an impact on children so why only Raman is to be blamed ?
Both Ishra r wrong n need some proper counselling in how to nibhaofy your marriage because certainly both don't know how to nibhaofy their marriage

Hi zoha
I'm good..how are you ?
No worries...hon..
Ruman scene was good and KP was too good there
Ishuta did tell him she's going to meet shagun to see the ngo lady who has connections with the minister and invited him ..he turned it down, he already has his plan in action..he doesn't want at anything to go wrong..which i get. Both are desperate to get their daughter out..He can tone down on the rudeness.
@ bold..that's what frustrates everybody now...me included. Yes zoha both love each other..but as you said no respect or trust ...that needs to be addressed now..that's why I want separation..both need to introspect in what they really mean to each ither..both have to COMMUNICATE.. that's another problem.
And about segment..I just watched it..I'm going to wait till the episode airs...I'm not going to react on segments...
I don't want this to be swept under the rug and end it with nok jhoks.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Diya.mukherjee

Hey viji , today I didn't watch the epi .was outside to buy saraswati idol cz its swaraswati puja time in bengal .but after reading ur revw , I am feeling bad fr ishita . nf ur right , if raman can take help from parmeet khurranna then what's wrong in taking help from shagun .we cannot ignore the fact that she is also ruhi's mother . nd acp , she is police man .so if ishita is wrong then raman is equally at fault .but both r desperate to save thr daughter .

I dunno if u saw today's segment or know what hppnd . but the woman in me felt very contended after seeing ishita leaving nd taking a stand fr herself . nd raman when ishita saved ruhi nd kept her word. Raman didn't look at all happy nd thank full nd he was giving her looks when she was hugging ruhi nd just loved that angry glare she gave him back .nd even when she was leaving looking visibly hurt he was in his tashan mode . nd said I wud hv saved ruhi somehow . I was shocked by his audacity . if not a sorry , she deserved a thank you .yes both were engaged in illegal activities .but raman was fleeing ruhi from jail .but ishita proved her innocent . anyway useless to rant , cz in the forum if raman says something that will b justified but ishita says anything it will b termed as PSEUDO FEMINISM. So Better to keep quiet . I just wish ishita maintains her tashan nd anger .

Hi Diya.
Already Saraswati pooja?...wow...
Diya don't let my view influence you ..watch it dear.
All I'm going to say is both are desperate ...
I watched the segment...and as I said earlier...I'll wait for the episode..and I'm aware of what you're talking about..it's better not to react..

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