Originally posted by: maduragymhasium
its just my opinion no offense
those who want ishu to divorce raman and handover kids to him and lived independently
if you can feel ishu pain means why you all failed to understand raman pain also ? whether he is robot not having any feeling
a husband can bear any insult from anyone but cant bear the pain and insult when wife said that he is useless in everything behind his back by action every time
this is ultimate truth
both of them are dependent not independent when they tie up in married life
extremely sorry for bad english
Please don't feel sorry about the language. The command over the language alone does not make one a know-everything, knowledgeable and sensible person. Your thoughts make you so and we understand your thoughts and views quite clearly. So please don't be sorry at all.😊
I agree with and understand your point about the pain and the hurt that both of them carry. I liked your point about independence in marriage. Independence in marriage is not about couple being in two different pages, doing things according to one's own wish, hiding it from one other, lying to one another, not involving one another. While you continue to be an independent individual with respect to your life, you both should work as a team in order to lead a successful and peaceful married life. Not one of them dominating over the other and demeaning the role of the other in the name of feminism or male chauvinism.🥱
Both of them have hurt each other very badly time and again. While Raman's motor mouth results in abusing & hurting Ishita with words by taking away her rights as a mother at will and insulting her, Ishita's actions of hiding things from him, denying his rights & decisions as a father in the lives of their children & as a husband and her ego or insecurity, call it whatever, that she is always right and she has to have the control in everything that happens, result in emotional abuse and pain for Raman. Both of them have mountain-sized ego. This would suffocate both of them after a point of time. Unless, there is retrospection from both the sides about their blunders, mistakes that causes pain and hurt to the other, unless they begin to trust and respect each other, unless they acknowledge the importance and value of each other in their lives and in the lives of their children, this vicious cycle would continue for ever.😔 .There is no doubt in that. Even if they redefine mohabbatein umpteen times, with memory loss or whatever crap, this would continue in the future as well, whenever there is a problem in their lives.
But being a desi soap, coming from the soap queen EK🥱 and the channel which endorses utter crap in the name of feminism and women empowerment, we can't expect atleast balance and equality with respect to the emotions and feelings of the ML and FL.
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago