REACTION VS SOLUTION - Page 2

Originally posted by: ramishi

Sohail is behaving similar to how shagun was behaving after getting ishita kidnapped by goons...helping,consoling,trying to find the culprit and all...and so just like anil's letter couldn't make raman believe shagun was the actual kidnapper, here too ruhi will not believe ishra that sohail is the actual culprit here even after getting proof...according to some spoiler ruhi will even bail out sohail after raman put him in jail.

Though i am not satisfied of the reason given by ruhi for not sharing with ishra but it is true that if parents always react angrily and takes impulsive actions everytime then kids will be afraid to share anything with them.

Every new comer knows how to get into good books of bhallas and get a free pass to their house and family tree...may be shagun has written a book on "101 ways to fool bhallas and get entry to their house"😉😆

On a serious note it is really life shattering thing for any parent and the victim...in real life it will be very difficult to remove the fear and scar from the victim's mind...but then in YHM it will not have much of an impact after the case gets solved just like all other sensitive issues shown earlier.

Originally posted by: DikshaN

really nice and unbiased review viji
liked the ishra scene
divan nailed it as the totally devastated parents who want to protect their daughter at any cost and provide justice to her
I dint like ishu blaming Raman for ruhi not sharing with them first I mean she could atleast share with ishu first and ishita needs to explain to ruhi that she shouldn't be sharing such private issues with a stranger
the ruman scene was nice and it's heartbreaking to see a father giving up his rights on his daughter just so that she doesn't drift away from him
but y did ishu ask ruhi whether Raman said anything to her I mean dint she see him crying for ruhi just this morning and telling her to handle their daughter??
sohail and gaurav and very dangerous
both know how to get into the good books of bhallas
yesterday when simmi had a monologue about teaching a lesson to the owner who gave them fake diamonds I guessed it that he will be gaurav only

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Nice review Viji.. didn't want post any but just one nagging thought bothered me.. hence sharing my two cents..

Viji after reading your review i realized what Raman did is so wrong.. that is telling Ruhi Ishima will be taking care of your things and I'm out.. so, so wrong.. even if he wants to stay in the background he can tell Ishita you be the point person with Ruhi but I will not interfere..but not with Ruhi.. now Ruhi can play with Ishita if she choose to do so.

Secondly Ishita never raised a teenager thanks to Raman.. atleast he had an experience with Adi.. Ishita just inherited these kids already grown, already formed with enough emotions be it love or hatred. And him shifting the burden on to Ishita is nothing but an act of cowardice as per me. He is escaping from his responsibility as a father.

Raising kids or teenagers doesn't come in a book.. it's a constant learning process between parents and kids. If he can't deal with his kids one way he needs to learn a different way but abandoning of raising or solving or disciplining of Ruhi should not be ishita's responsibility alone. His leaving Ruhi to Ishita is similar to giving up his rights on Adi to Ashok as a father.

When raising kids parents should be in synch and be a guide to each other when one falters.. but just avoiding the responsibility is epic proportionally wrong. Ishita can't be handling this alone where she herself is not sure and fearful.. but Raman is doing what he is best at at this point.. crying and escaping the responsibility.. when things don't go as per him the blame game will start where ishita's motherhood will come under scrutiny.

My two cents..

NOTE: KINDLY REFRAIN FROM DISSECTING THIS POST IN OTHER THREADS. THIS IS PURELY MY POV AND IT'S OK TO DISAGREE.

Originally posted by: ramishi

Sohail is behaving similar to how shagun was behaving after getting ishita kidnapped by goons...helping,consoling,trying to find the culprit and all...and so just like anil's letter couldn't make raman believe shagun was the actual kidnapper, here too ruhi will not believe ishra that sohail is the actual culprit here even after getting proof...according to some spoiler ruhi will even bail out sohail after raman put him in jail.

Though i am not satisfied of the reason given by ruhi for not sharing with ishra but it is true that if parents always react angrily and takes impulsive actions everytime then kids will be afraid to share anything with them.

Every new comer knows how to get into good books of bhallas and get a free pass to their house and family tree...may be shagun has written a book on "101 ways to fool bhallas and get entry to their house"😉😆

On a serious note it is really life shattering thing for any parent and the victim...in real life it will be very difficult to remove the fear and scar from the victim's mind...but then in YHM it will not have much of an impact after the case gets solved just like all other sensitive issues shown earlier.

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

Hi Viji Di ,How r u ?

A brief Ruman scene where Raman brings chocolates for Ruhi and says he will not come in her way but ask her to share her problems nn everything with her Ishimaa

My heart broke for Raman because as a father what he was doing for his daughter was right but sadly none understood him n sohe decided to be away so that his daughter remains happy
I didn't liked the fact that Ishita asked Ruhi if Raman said something to Ruhi ? Why it is Raman only who will say or do something ?

Ruhi showed Ishita her mms and Ishita was shocked with it

Thank god that Ishita told Raman and din't hide this from him

Raman was devastated and thinkis its Sohail the chuha who has done this and was angry and was about to go when Ishita stopped him and told him that Ruhi told all this stuff to Sohail and Raman was broken that her daughter didn't told her parents yet shared all this stuff with that chuha sohail .

It was weird to see Ishita all calm knowing Ruhi showed and shared about that mms with a boy and that too a stranger .

Shouldn't she have made Ruhi understand that how wrong Ruhi was in showing her mms to a boy whom she barely knows and that these things r private n shouldn't be shown to a boy that too a stranger ?

I agree that Ruhi is drifting apart from them but putting all blame on Raman for that is not right.

If Raman was wrong then equally Ruhi was wrong but only Raman would be reprimand of his actions and not Ruhi

Raman says he will get to bottom of this and will bring justice for his daughter

Overall Ishra scene was nice,Both Ishra were heart broken n devastated with the recent turn of events

KP and DT were fab as a devastated parents and they nailed their scenes👏

Originally posted by: Aanahat

Starting raru scn was nice...raman talked to ruhi and said that he overreacts in every situation a caring protective father we saw who do not want to loose his child and says to discuss with ishima he will not interfere i mean why baap hai hak hai uska fir bhi he is trying to adjust himself
Ishu can and ask papa ne kya kaha daanta kya kaha i mean vo raman n pe aise shaak kyu kr rhi hai kya ek father aapni beti se baat bhi na kare abb pehli ungli raman pe at least vo sune to sahi ruhi kyu ro rhi hai
Ishu saw the video blackmailer msg to came she told raman and devastated parents they were
They want to save their daughter protect her it was an emotional scene showing their pain and disappointment that their daughter choosed sohail instead of them..raman doubted sohail but ishu ask him to not to do such a thing . last scn ishraru scn raman comforts ruhi and promised to protect her sohail and gaurav 🥱 bhallas ki madat krni ho to unhe bulao 🥱 when sohail brought mr bhalla home raman noticed chuhail looking at each other but didn't reacted...precap raman in cyber cell but sohail abb vo vaha kya kr raha hai 😡
KP DT was fabulous today as protective parents they're were perfect

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Nice review Viji.. didn't want post any but just one nagging thought bothered me.. hence sharing my two cents..

Viji after reading your review i realized what Raman did is so wrong.. that is telling Ruhi Ishima will be taking care of your things and I'm out.. so, so wrong.. even if he wants to stay in the background he can tell Ishita you be the point person with Ruhi but I will not interfere..but not with Ruhi.. now Ruhi can play with Ishita if she choose to do so.

Secondly Ishita never raised a teenager thanks to Raman.. atleast he had an experience with Adi.. Ishita just inherited these kids already grown, already formed with enough emotions be it love or hatred. And him shifting the burden on to Ishita is nothing but an act of cowardice as per me. He is escaping from his responsibility as a father.

Raising kids or teenagers doesn't come in a book.. it's a constant learning process between parents and kids. If he can't deal with his kids one way he needs to learn a different way but abandoning of raising or solving or disciplining of Ruhi should not be ishita's responsibility alone. His leaving Ruhi to Ishita is similar to giving up his rights on Adi to Ashok as a father.

When raising kids parents should be in synch and be a guide to each other when one falters.. but just avoiding the responsibility is epic proportionally wrong. Ishita can't be handling this alone where she herself is not sure and fearful.. but Raman is doing what he is best at at this point.. crying and escaping the responsibility.. when things don't go as per him the blame game will start where ishita's motherhood will come under scrutiny.

My two cents..

NOTE: KINDLY REFRAIN FROM DISSECTING THIS POST IN OTHER THREADS. THIS IS PURELY MY POV AND IT'S OK TO DISAGREE.

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

wondrful post Raji...Loved your POV😊

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Good Morning Sumi🤗 thank you..

Merry Christmas Darling..