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I read through all your comments yesterday, but was extremely busy, so couldn't reply to any. Will discuss a couple of points from yesterday's comments in my review today.
So, we all saw the gallons of croc tears Mrs. Shagun Ramachandran (watever the heck her surname is, after marriage) shed to make her case. Like I said yesterday, Mani easily caught on and by the end of the scene, he as good as asked Ishita to get lost and how much she had "disappointed" him. I wanted to tell him, NO YOU MORON, YOU are an effing disappointment. You apparently spent decades pining for Ishita, and it takes just two minutes of hysterics from your wife's end (a witch, no less, which Mani is well aware of) and you instantly blame your bachpan-ki-dost. If this is not garbage, then what is?!
Raman looked ballistic. I think for a few seconds he did doubt Ishita's intentions, but better sense prevailed over him and he probably concluded Shagun was lying through her teeth and didn't badger Ishita over the same. So on this count, you guys were right! What he DID lose it over, was the fact that Ishita had been coaxing Pihu in diff ways and taking her to the counselor, without once discussing it with him.
I understand his anger. Ishita ALWAYS does this. I pointed this out yesterday as well, that she ALWAYS, ALWAYS goes on these "adventures" on her own, pulling along the bunch of her smart-ass girl gang (that includes Ruhi, Aalia, Mihika) and her "plans" ALWAYS fail. Miserably. Rarely has she been able to withstand Shagun's wicked onslaughts. I dont know WHY these Iyer women think it's okay to keep doing samaj seva without once confiding in their husbands. Just so annoying, it always makes them look like pithy idiots
But then it would be unfair if I only blamed Ishita for trying to pull off her numerous stunts all by herself, without Raman's knowledge and support. Can we EVER forget that Pihu is the product of Raman's wishful, child-crazy thinking alone? Pihu is not a product of Raman and Ishita's love. No, am sorry, this thought does not pass muster with me at all. She is the root of all these problems IshRa are currently facing. She is not collateral damage; she is the main blunder.😡
I am in no mood to defend Ishita, but then I cannot shut my eyes to the obvious transgression Raman is guilty of. He as good as washed his marriage away with Ishita and gave it some good, hard rinses, by bringing in Shagun to act as his child's surrogate. I mean, who DOES that?😡 And did he ONCE inform Ishita before going all the way? Did he not get her signatures deceitfully?? And to top it, once he believed Ishita dead, he CHOSE to live with Shagun and have Pihu believe ALL THESE YEARS that she IS her mother. Not once did he tell her the truth, not even after Ishta came back into the scene. Those are about the BIGGEST blunders he has committed, and nothing Ishita has done or does right now (unless she actively goes around sleeping with some paraya mard right now) can bring her at par with Raman - while figuring out the greater of the two evils.
I am so OUTRAGED and shocked, I can't even.😡
Ishita even makes the counselor speak to Raman, and obviously she says Pihu isn't going nuts in the head and actually loves her Shagun Mamma a lot.
I swear to God, I wanted to wring that child's neck at that moment (yeah I know, this is very unpalatable...but I can't imagine a frikkin' 8 year old can't figure out what a scheming bitch her Mamma is, but can understand Parvati's hundred and ten marriages😡😡 how f***ing convenient!!)
Mani suddenly, in like 10 hours, decided they are moving to Bangkok. For a guy on the verge of bankruptcy a few months ago, he sure has the liberty to keep moving places naeen??😆 PEHLE AUSTRALIA, AB BANGKOK. Kuch bhi And yeh halwa hai kya? Aadhi raat mein decide kiya aur agle din Bangkok nikal liye??? CVs charas phunk phunk ke script likhte hain kya
And very conveniently, Mani slips in and out of the I-trust-Ishu-with-my-life mode to I-will-stand-by-my-bitch-of-a-wife mode. Aalia is asked to follow suit, with the consolation that "yeh tumhare pyaar ka test hoga Aalia'
abey tere pyaar ke test mein tu -100 leke fail hua, tu Aalia ka kaunsa test karwayega??😡😡
I have always been irritated with Aalu, but I had newfound respect for her today. This young girl, who knew Ishita for barely 7-8 years trusted him more and was willing to stand by her than her supposedly pagal-premi Appa.
The main drama actually takes place in Bhalla House. Raman was back to behaving like a selfish, insensitive arse😡
"Dafa ho jao, tum manhoos ho" part II or maybe Part Infinite (I'm losing count now, really) came tumbling outta his mouth again.
"Tum wapas aayi hi kyun?" Did he mean she was better off "dead"??😲😲😲
And mind you, these things were uttered at the spur of the moment. Raman prized Pihu more than Ishita (not that there should be a comparison, but please, that shithead 8 yr old was YOUR idea, not Ishu's😡😡)...
Ishita probably felt like a knife was twisted deep into her insides. I mean, there's only so much humiliation a woman can take.😡😡
I'm thinking - WHY DID THESE TWO MARRY AT ALL? SORRY, RE-MARRY? WHY?😲
I so don't trust them anymore. Two utterly irresponsible people trying to make a marriage work...resting on stilted grounds...because 99% of their energy is invested in the kids.
I'd read it somewhere - research says couples should NOT make kids the centre of a marriage, else it's bound to fall apart. We can see it happening in YHM, every fortnight
So anyway, Raman loses it and goes upstairs..Ishita follows him...minutes later they both come down, Raman dragging Ishita by her arm, screaming she is not going to stay in this house anymore.
Now that...is what I found a little weird...because usually ALL their screaming matches happen right in front of everybody. So it seems weird that something happened upstairs which has not been shown today...and maybe it's a plan. Or maybe Raman just decided he's had it.
But the fact of the matter remains - Ishita stays put, says I'm not going anywhere.
Bhalla Sr. stands by Ishita, saying she is his beti and she was gonna stay with them; he can go wherever he wants.
Raman says - My beti is my only family, so I'm leaving this house, and going to stay with her.
And so he gets his stuff and walks out...
Now, here I come to make my point - EVEN IF it is a plan between them, WHAT FRIKKIN' sense does it make to ACTUALLY STAY SEPARATE for a whole year and make Ishita pretend she has moved on, and then do all this dramebaazi? And so much hassle for that 8yr old BRAINLESS GIT?😡😡 Itna footage kyun de rahe hain use yaar??! Let that freak go to hell, I just hate her now.😡😡 Ishita and Raman don't deserve to be together anymore. For their mental health as well as ours, they need to separate. For good.
It was cool it happened the first time, when Ishita loved Ruhi more than herself and gave in to a marriage of pure compromise. Ab yeh drama kyun? Is this all the CVs have to explore in their relationship???
What will they achieve??? IMO, nothing. Because Shagun will AGAIN trump them...will again play her cards and get her way around.
And that is bound to happen because the CVs will willingly bump either Raman or Ishita off tomorrow, but not do away with Shagun's character (you know why😡)
the plot is going all haywire. Oh wait, IS THERE A PLOT ANYMORE???🥱🥱
I am still going to watch watch, aimlessly and mindlessly as I have been doing all these months now. But the truth is, I don't feel that way for YHM anymore. Somewhere I feel, I need to break up with it😲 Raman can cross seven seas and go clutch to the product of his orchestrated drama and spare us the horror of seeing her everyday.😡 I don't care.
P.S. I so badly wanted to whack Pihu today when she spoke to Raman in that typical rude Shagun-esque manner😡😡😡 and to see Raman, begging to Shagun, AGAIN. Would've broken my heart, had it not been his fault. But in many ways, he is responsible too. No self-respect, no sensibility at all. Karo apni marzi ki aur bharo bhi.😲
P.S. IF there is a plan in place, and Ishita has suggested it, then I'm gonna say she deserves all of this shit coming her way. After a man insults you in this callous way, why must you pander to his ego, even if he is your husband?? Raman is not a 5 yr old ki use samjhaate rehna padega. Bhaad mein jao yaar dono.
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