Originally posted by: manishwari2014
That is how most of the people think nowadays. That is why there are so many divorces. Concept of discussion if anything goes wrong is not there at all.
Exactly Bhuvana. Divorce is the easiest solution to all problems in today's world. Ask why? Abuse, woman empowerement and other weird reasons. Heck, woman in those days ( my paati and great grand paati) even they stood up for their self respect and gave it back to men, when their integrity and motherhood were questioned. They had the courage to do it. And here we have Ishita, the modern age FL, who gives giant lectures to everyone about what is right or wrong, but when it comes to her she becomes mute, helpless. People may say that she does so because of her infertility, but I see that as an act of cowardliness and act of gaining sympathy from others for putting up with a impulsive person 🥱. In my opinion, fertility or infertility does not decide the worth of a woman. If Ishita thinks so, then she is still conservative and she needs to come out of the self sympathy that she has woven around her. Only if you dare to give it back to the person sternly and tell him that you are not here to take any bulls**t , the other person would be careful enough and think twice to behave rudely with you the next time. She needs to grow a spine and stand for what she preaches others about being a modern woman.
On the other hand, if a woman has been taking all your insults and putting up with your impulsiveness for the sake of love, then it means she values the relationship and loves you so much. So better give her that respect and love back. Raman has to think about it. He cannot take her for granted, shout at her and then come back to finish everything with a sorry. He needs to be man enough to own up to his blunders and not blame others for his faults.
So until the realization and respect is mutual here, such incidents would keep happening. Despite all this, they claim to be blindly in love with each other. This is unique, only they can understand what love they have for each other and it can happen only between these two, not in reality. So it is only fair, we let it be as a fictional show, instead of getting too personal and making nasty remarks.. While some realize that, some don't. 😊
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago