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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: monn12


there's a difference between wat Raman and Mani did. Not going into Raman-Ishita thing because it's a couple problem and Raman apology is still pending.
But if you compare mihir-raman and mani-ishita, yes raman doubted him, shouted at him and even hit him hard yet he didn't took revenge. It was all face to face. And actually if we think from the beginning Raman could easily took revenge from Shagun through Mihir to wat Shagun did to him, yet he knew that there's nothing wrong in him and loved him as his own brother.
But here Mani was a backstabber. He waited for the right moment and turned his back to her. It's pure revenge. So, there's a huge difference between them.


Agree. ..thanks for stating pure facts!
It's so easy to forget what was actually shown to us due to tones of analysis.cvs have shown us a lot of nonsense lately but that doesn't mean we conveniently forget all the things that actually happened on the show. .

Honestly mani has been this way all throughout his lifetime in the show. .people who feel otherwise should genuinely check his words and actions whenever he has been conrnered..he has always been cold, calculative and revengeful..such cold blooded revenge can't be forgiven easily even for a million good deeds..
So if mani had ended up shooting adi and then apologized would it have been okay too., heck he almost did. .he doesn't evrn consider ishita to be aliyas mother anymore. .raman saud and did a lot when ishita came back...but never doubted ishuta love or motherhood when it came to both ruhi and adi..heck in jail he actually told ishita hw wouldn't allow anyone to question adis upbringing. ..and mani does the exact opposite. .yet he is an honorable man? Why ? Just because he is mani and is not raman...i don't even see any argument otherwise n if the comparison with raman is removed. ..why even compare?

And if one has to compare ..wht not compare the current situation and both father's actions and reactions...?

No offense. .I may be meandering..but there are days when some things amaze me..today might be one of them...

Peace out..and no this isn't a 'raman supporting' ..or anti someone etc post..I am just trying to make sense out of what has been shown and how the same situation can be viewed differently for 2 characters just based on our likes and dislikes😕

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Posted: 8 years ago
#22
The main difference between Raman and mani is dat Raman never gave lectures to anyone mani always blamed Raman for behaving like dat with ishita but wat he did now??? He did d same and Raman didn't directly see ishita's sufferings after her enagagement broke with Subbu but mani knows dat and even Past 7yrs Raman doesn't know wat ishita went through but mani saw ishita's pain but he choose to ignore everything only for d reason dat ishita stood with aadi and not with him rather dat she didn't believe in his accusations against aadi which is rediculous mani doesn't preach wat he says datz d reason y many people hate mani for wat he does
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: PinkRose95

Tfs sneha.. And yes I agree with you... I won't say what Mani did was fair.. But that doesn't mean Raman is better than him.. NO...
Mani backstabbed Ishita by supporting Shagun and chose his daughter over Ishita...
And Raman snatched her kid and gave it to his ex wife, made her mother of Ishita's daughter? Even he didn't give Ishita legal rights of pihu.. In that BC fiasco... And not to forget the incomplete marriage.. So what is all this? Isn't it backstabbing ur wife whom u claimed to love unconditionally? He also chosed his kids over Ishita... Even he didn't believe Ishita when she said shagun tried to harm her.. Y? Coz she gave her 7 years to him? ?? Even after showing the suicide letter of that lawyer he didn't believe her? So what was that called as?
As many ppl in our forum believe that two wrongs cannot make one right the same way, We cannot overlook Raman's mistakes...
If not more, both Raman and Mani are same as for now... Both have backstabbed a women who trusted them the most.. A friend and a husband..


Did ishita forgive raman easily? ..wasn't she planning to leave him and head back even after he broke down and said he can't live without ruhi and her? Then why should she forgive mani..if according to you now bith are similar?
This discussion wasn't about raman and mani ..tilsome member brought um that argument..

But looks like raman's 'good deeds ' will never amount for anything. .post leap i mean..I have tones of examples of how he has also pitched in to get ruhi back and now pihu back into the fold..yet since cvs choose to not five the kind of apology ppl in this forum want to hear.all is forgotten and we only rant about that one thing...
If Mani's good deeds can be an excuse for easily forgiving him now..shouldn't we all move on from raman's lack of verbal apology since lots has been done after that. .the kinds no normal husbands would ever do?

And to top it all..any mistake made my anyone else ..however grave or horrible. .even if it is a friend hurting a best friend the way no one should...it is 'benchmarked' against raman..why.are both situations even close to being similar?...

Its strange. .yes 2 wrongs never make a right..but pitting every wromg however relevant against the one wromg we personally relate to as injustice is strange...what's wromg is wrong. .ishita shouldn't have forgiven raman easily..I agree to that..so she shouldn't forgive mani easily too...
Why make this if she forgave raman. .she should forgive mani too..😕...didn't people forgive ishita post the bhooth track too...should we start citing examples of that too in this context. .

In the current scenario. .Mani's role and actions in what happened are aa bad or even worse..since he was a close friend. .than shagun. .so with that logic should ishita forgive shagun too😕

No offence...these are purely my views ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sri1091

The main difference between Raman and mani is dat Raman never gave lectures to anyone mani always blamed Raman for behaving like dat with ishita but wat he did now??? He did d same and Raman didn't directly see ishita's sufferings after her enagagement broke with Subbu but mani knows dat and even Past 7yrs Raman doesn't know wat ishita went through but mani saw ishita's pain but he choose to ignore everything only for d reason dat ishita stood with aadi and not with him rather dat she didn't believe in his accusations against aadi which is rediculous mani doesn't preach wat he says datz d reason y many people hate mani for wat he does


Point sri...you know i always thought that at least on one aspect this forum has an agreement that a wromg is a wrong. .and mani has 'knowingly' hurt his friend and that too at her most vulnerable place. ..yet thus becomes a comparison to raman hurting her ..and hence mani can be forgiven argument..?..
We all agreed that ishita shouldn't forgive raman easily..we still do..we still, are waiting for that one confrontation we never got...but lots s has happened ed after thst..and in today's situation ishita has got bavk to trusting raman because of a lot of his actions..and plus his intent was never wrong...till date cvs haven't even bothered to, show if raman knows what ishita went through etc or if ishita knows it what she feels about it..so why quote that again and again fir every argument. ..both ishra were wrong there ...so should we quote ishita too everytime she cries for pihu all call out her mistakes...😕...how do you watch the show and the track then...😕


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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
So the moral of story is that best friend who has back stabbed u Knowingly to teach u a lesson should be forgiven because of their past good deed 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: bscorp13



Point sri...you know i always thought that at least on one aspect this forum has an agreement that a wromg is a wrong. .and mani has 'knowingly' hurt his friend and that too at her most vulnerable place. ..yet thus becomes a comparison to raman hurting her ..and hence mani can be forgiven argument..?..
We all agreed that ishita shouldn't forgive raman easily..we still do..we still, are waiting for that one confrontation we never got...but lots s has happened ed after thst..and in today's situation ishita has got bavk to trusting raman because of a lot of his actions..and plus his intent was never wrong...till date cvs haven't even bothered to, show if raman knows what ishita went through etc or if ishita knows it what she feels about it..so why quote that again and again fir every argument. ..both ishra were wrong there ...so should we quote ishita too everytime she cries for pihu all call out her mistakes...😕...how do you watch the show and the track then...😕



Pb there is no way we want Raman to be forgiven for d words he said to ishita we ask for confrontation every now and den which we don't get but but d POV of everyone will be shown datz d major drawback here they did show ishita telling him wat she went through these 7 yrs or let ishita know wat has dat act of her done to Raman Adi and family too wer Raman is wrong to spew venom ishita was wrong leaving Pihu and not fighting both are wrong and both need to talk out their issue there is a lot of diff between mani and Raman and in my view both can't be measured same because Raman is her husband and mani is frnds and even in real life husband ko they forgive will they forgive their frnd if they have done something grave whom we trusted d most?? In fact ishita didn't tell Raman wat she feels wen Pihu calls her haar vaali Aunty but she poured out her heart to mani of how she feels so mani knows more abt ishita's pain den Raman so wat mani did is worst in my opinion and he shld the be forgiven for wat he did
Edited by Sri1091 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

So the moral of story is that best friend who has back stabbed u Knowingly to teach u a lesson should be forgiven because of their past good deed 🥱


😕...yup zoha...and because the character has forgiven her husband even though he was not shown apologizing. ...and since mani has apparently apologized..which is yet to air .. d o can't comment...
And here I was hoping to see ishita stand up to mani and ask him the right questions. ..regarding the why and what of his actions..and who all has to bear the consequences of his revenge including a 7 yr old kid. .and was happy at least raman was doing it😕
What is this show and ppl expectations turning into😕...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There's no way Mani should be forgiven no matter how much he regret because he KNOWINGLY back stabbed his best friend Ishita for his own reasons and when he couldn't follow on the lectures which he used to give them to Raman,then why to give lectures in first place .
He broke the trust Ishita had on him knowingly ,he snatched her daughter for whom she craved for .
He used her weak point for his satisfaction and also he knew her pain yet ignored all
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29
In one line RAMAN MANI KA KOYI CAMPARISION NAI HO SAKTA...

Mani ne jo ki kiya woh revengeful tha... Tere beta ne zindagi barbaad ki meri beti ki i wil snatch ur daughter... It ws pure revenge... Like alwzz shagun do... U cant justifies mani's revenge nor raman's words..

Bt raman never did this with anyone.. Im one scene... He want to knw what mani said abf case... Bt befire that he asked bout alia..aur mani he jst btoked the frienship... Like he didnt knw ishita... He ws like ishita brainwashed alia... Like seriously..

If u trust one person... Aur that person backstabbed only gor one mu...
U jst snstched their daughter 👏


Now he is clearly creating problem in business...jst for ske if revenge... He very well knws ki ishita handles the project 😡

That Mani ws ishitas dear friend... This mani only took revenge from ishita...
And he is shagun's mani
Edited by sweet.Aman - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: bscorp13


😕...yup zoha...and because the character has forgiven her husband even though he was not shown apologizing. ...and since mani has apparently apologized..which is yet to air .. d o can't comment...
And here I was hoping to see ishita stand up to mani and ask him the right questions. ..regarding the why and what of his actions..and who all has to bear the consequences of his revenge including a 7 yr old kid. .and was happy at least raman was doing it😕
What is this show and ppl expectations turning into😕...



U know Pb when people can support characters like Nidhi and Shagun then this is nothing
If Mani should be forgiven on the basis of his past good deeds then even Raman should also be forgiven on basis of his past good deeds though I m still not supporting his callous words and i need a proper apology from his side as well as from Ishita side for abandoning her kids and not coming back for her parents also.Isliye a proper confrontation is needed

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