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Posted: 9 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: bscorp13



Aah well put krishy..raman gave himself heart and soul long back but sadly all people focus on are his words. , yup very crude and cruel and he needs to explain and know what kind of pain that caused ishita. .but ..but...
He has never looked back or sought anyone else after finding her..heck even when he thought she was dead., he chose to close down rather than open up to anyone else. .once ishita was in his life. .no one..even his mother ...could take her place as his confidante. ..he actually saud this in the lift scene...the only one who could listen to him was gone..he wished then he was dead too...fact of raman after he became Ishita's. ..sadly ishita has always wanted to keep raman away from her problems ..it's a different type of love ...but then yup I too find that when one shares your deepest fears and worries is when you are truly intimate...
Blame the writing it does look skewed since a long time..and cvs continuing to use 3rd parties to mediate just ends up making it shallower. .
And no..I know many will say raman doesn't allow her to talk. ,that isn't fair. .for every time he rebuked her there have been many more where he has understood her better than anyone else and gone to extremes for her., he probably deserves a little piece of her heart once in a while too...
Just my take though. .no offense..



Well put Pb & I guess people will say thanks to how the leap happened - he doesn't deserve it. They will be together, love each other, but not really belong to each other in the biggest of senses

And @bold gave me feels

YHM just goes to show love isn't enough
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: snehaseshan


@Bold very true poonam now it's confirmed that ishita wil not tell Raman wat his abuses n insults did to her & nor wil Raman realise by himself n moreoveratleast there was a scene in d night were ishita said sorry to Raman for going away but till now there was no scene were Raman said sorry to ishita... Feeling very bad that they didn't show ishita standing for her respect.. Disappointing..

sorry bt i disagree to some extent...raman realized his mistake wen he said to adi v shud apologize before its too late n during his breakdown wen ishita got kidnapped he accrpted he lost her bcs of his mistake ..he said a lot during kidnapping ...it ws such a potential track that cud lead to ishra emotional confrontation bt cvs turned it into shagun turning neg track.. ishra confrontation ws needed wen ishita came back..i will blame cvs for this bcs they hv shown raman realizing n wants her back thrn y not showing ishra convo jst to drag or bcs of kp's leave ...
I will blame cvs for ishita not opening up to raman wen he can say i used to cry i m same u r changed i ws alone then y cant she ..?? Wat is stopping her??he ws hell angry wen he met her post leap so he didnt listen bt now he is calm if ishita wants to share her pain he will listen surely.. That sorry she said didnt touch the core issue bcs i dont want a mere sorry from raman too ..there is lot to explain n apologize...Look past cant b changed bt they both hv take steps towards each other make amends pour their heart out to each other ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bscorp13



Aah well put krishy..raman gave himself heart and soul long back but sadly all people focus on are his words. , yup very crude and cruel and he needs to explain and know what kind of pain that caused ishita. .but ..but...
He has never looked back or sought anyone else after finding her..heck even when he thought she was dead., he chose to close down rather than open up to anyone else. .once ishita was in his life. .no one..even his mother ...could take her place as his confidante. ..he actually saud this in the lift scene...the only one who could listen to him was gone..he wished then he was dead too...fact of raman after he became Ishita's. ..sadly ishita has always wanted to keep raman away from her problems ..it's a different type of love ...but then yup I too find that when one shares your deepest fears and worries is when you are truly intimate...
Blame the writing it does look skewed since a long time..and cvs continuing to use 3rd parties to mediate just ends up making it shallower. .
And no..I know many will say raman doesn't allow her to talk. ,that isn't fair. .for every time he rebuked her there have been many more where he has understood her better than anyone else and gone to extremes for her., he probably deserves a little piece of her heart once in a while too...
Just my take though. .no offense..

well said pb..
There were so many incidents wen i wanted ishita to share her feelings with raman..during sautan saga 1.0 wen she celebrated sha_ram anniversary n raman ws hell angry n scolded her bt she shrugged it off bt at the end she shared her pain with amma ...during surrogacy she shared her pain with simmi by saying she will b 2nd always n many more incidents.. ..y not raman ?? Wen he shares his pain hurt everything only n only with her...i dont want thirt party btwn them..today they used mani to make her understand..bt raman realizing his mistake n ishita's importance without any third party lecture..
I totally agree wen he can share his heart then he deserves a little atleast.. Bt cvs sont give us this ever.. 🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gargpoo

well said pb..
There were so many incidents wen i wanted ishita to share her feelings with raman..during sautan saga 1.0 wen she celebrated sha_ram anniversary n raman ws hell angry n scolded her bt she shrugged it off bt at the end she shared her pain with amma ...during surrogacy she shared her pain with simmi by saying she will b 2nd always n many more incidents.. ..y not raman ?? Wen he shares his pain hurt everything only n only with her...i dont want thirt party btwn them..today they used mani to make her understand..bt raman realizing his mistake n ishita's importance without any third party lecture..
I totally agree wen he can share his heart then he deserves a little atleast.. Bt cvs sont give us this ever.. 🥱


totally agree with ur last 2 posts .
there were so many incidents in which ishita hide her feeling from Raman pre leap n post leap.
In shoot track she shared Everything With shagun and acp,in Rohit's track She again Hide Truth about mrs.chadda .
in Surrogacy, in bhoot track ,in Accident track She Never shared her feelings with him .I always feel for him He really deserve her trust .At least Now I want her to Pour out her all pain ,her feeling with Raman .I totally agree this track had Great potential but cvs just ruined it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Divan-holic


totally agree with ur last 2 posts .
there were so many incidents in which ishita hide her feeling from Raman pre leap n post leap.
In shoot track she shared Everything With shagun and acp,in Rohit's track She again Hide Truth about mrs.chadda .
in Surrogacy, in bhoot track ,in Accident track She Never shared her feelings with him .I always feel for him He really deserve her trust .At least Now I want her to Pour out her all pain ,her feeling with Raman .I totally agree this track had Great potential but cvs just ruined it.


Everyone will argue that after the pre-leap episode and what happened in May 2016 - Raman doesn't deserve her trust & I don't knwo what to feel.

If I were Ishita, I would've yelled until he listened b/c she clearly knows how to make him listen (Romi sorry episodes, etc) and I'm a passive person who holds in her emotions...but even I know to open up, which is why this is as unrelatable as Raman beyond normal anger/vulgar words.

Just because she kept things/her feelings from him for a justified reason doesn't always make it right for me...but then it could also go back to being Raman's fault for not fostering that in his relationship with her.

It's just sad that the communication gap, which is needed for drama, always results in the same pattern of tracks & character arcs
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