Ishradi - Page 6

Read to page 5. So happy to have you back, Sri & loved lovrd everyone's discussion here so far!

I think I'll skip the last 3 episodes I missed and just watch today for the Ishita-Adi scene, RKB ka mini-return, and the oddly placed sisters scene.

Ishita is selfless and I appreciate that but like Raman's anger gets pushed too far...so does Ishita's selflessness (especially for Shagun). I am happy Adi made her realize while it is one thing not to screw over Shagun, one cannot forget the other casualties had she left again.

Maybe IshRa aren't the solution to be fair to Shagun but neither is going away.

Mani is not a bad person but Mani is what Raman is not. Mani does all that Raman never can do. And to me, Mani represents Raman's failure in building a trusting relationship with Ishita. Time and time again - we see Ishita opening up about realky important feelings to Amma, Simmi, Toshiji, Vandu, ACP, and Mani in various tracks. When the person who needs to hear her feelings and thoughts is Raman.

The two times Ishita really opened up about herself and her deep feelings to Raman was their 1st anniversary and C night. That's when she beared her soul to him but in most other tracks, Raman did not foster the relationship to have her open up to him while on the flip side he only reveals his true feelings to her.

And that is Raman's biggest failure and fear. He wants to be his spouses #1, and this insecurity stems from Shagun ditching him and making him feel he is useless as a husband, provider, and protector. Remember that scene in bhoot track he saw Ishita and ACP chatting? To me that stood out - bc he realizes he isn't the sole (and maybe even primary) confidant in his wife's life.

While everyone needs different people to confide in, for me a gage of a successful marriage is when the first person you turn to when hurt is your spouse. Sadly post leap Raman does more hurt so it makes sense as to why there is no trust or ability to communicate

Idk sorry for rambling...got carried away! 😆

Originally posted by: Sri1091

Poonam exactly I Dnt want puttar anywhere near Shagun
We already saw crap pics of mani ishita and Alia atleast we are spared from Shagun we shld Thnk cv's for dat

Originally posted by: gargpoo

v shyd actually thank cvs ..nahi toh raman ki bashing hoti ye dekho kaise hass hass k pics karwayi hui hai .. 😆 ..i m so happy there is not a single pic not even for pihu or with her..puttar hai smart.. 😆

Haha exactly
I m also happy at least cvs spare him in it but I m eagerly waiting to see ishra pics With all family on that wall And Removal of those shagun pics .

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Read to page 5. So happy to have you back, Sri & loved lovrd everyone's discussion here so far!

I think I'll skip the last 3 episodes I missed and just watch today for the Ishita-Adi scene, RKB ka mini-return, and the oddly placed sisters scene.

Ishita is selfless and I appreciate that but like Raman's anger gets pushed too far...so does Ishita's selflessness (especially for Shagun). I am happy Adi made her realize while it is one thing not to screw over Shagun, one cannot forget the other casualties had she left again.

Maybe IshRa aren't the solution to be fair to Shagun but neither is going away.

Mani is not a bad person but Mani is what Raman is not. Mani does all that Raman never can do. And to me, Mani represents Raman's failure in building a trusting relationship with Ishita. Time and time again - we see Ishita opening up about realky important feelings to Amma, Simmi, Toshiji, Vandu, ACP, and Mani in various tracks. When the person who needs to hear her feelings and thoughts is Raman.

The two times Ishita really opened up about herself and her deep feelings to Raman was their 1st anniversary and C night. That's when she beared her soul to him but in most other tracks, Raman did not foster the relationship to have her open up to him while on the flip side he only reveals his true feelings to her.

And that is Raman's biggest failure and fear. He wants to be his spouses #1, and this insecurity stems from Shagun ditching him and making him feel he is useless as a husband, provider, and protector. Remember that scene in bhoot track he saw Ishita and ACP chatting? To me that stood out - bc he realizes he isn't the sole (and maybe even primary) confidant in his wife's life.

While everyone needs different people to confide in, for me a gage of a successful marriage is when the first person you turn to when hurt is your spouse. Sadly post leap Raman does more hurt so it makes sense as to why there is no trust or ability to communicate

Idk sorry for rambling...got carried away! 😆

word krishy.. 👏
I too feel the same ..v saw only two times ishita opened up to raman as u mentioned otherwise she nvr shares her insecurities n feelings with raman ..its always someone else mani amma vandu ...bt raman opens up only with ishita ..he nvr shares his pain with anyone...
Post leap too he shared his pain only with her beshak gusse me hi sahi..
Thats y mani makes him insecure...his biggest fear is he is worhless ..that ishita convo with abhi during bhoot track is example of that..he ws not doubting ishita bt he ws hurt wen he asked she didnt tell him..same goed post miscarriage too ..he tried to make her share pain bt she didnt ...
Thats y i miffed with cvs..y they dont show their communication..there is always a communication gap...
V r waiting for emotional ishra confrontation bt i doubt ishita will share wat his words did to her..

Originally posted by: gargpoo

[word krishy.. 👏
I too feel the same ..v saw only two times ishita opened up to raman as u mentioned otherwise she nvr shares her insecurities n feelings with raman ..its always someone else mani amma vandu ...bt raman opens up only with ishita ..he nvr shares his pain with anyone...
Post leap too he shared his pain only with her beshak gusse me hi sahi..
Thats y mani makes him insecure...his biggest fear is he is worhless ..that ishita convo with abhi during bhoot track is example of that..he ws not doubting ishita bt he ws hurt wen he asked she didnt tell him..same goed post miscarriage too ..he tried to make her share pain bt she didnt ...
Thats y i miffed with cvs..y they dont show their communication..there is always a communication gap...
V r waiting for emotional ishra confrontation bt i doubt ishita will share wat his words did to her..

Yep IshRa will always look unbalanced so long as (1) Raman is unware of Ishita's core feelings or thought on a situation and (2) as only Raman "brings the chaos" for Ishita to clean.

Until the above 2 are addressed...which they never will be...IshRa will as a couple, outside of chemistry, look misfit.

They love each other given the other's flaws but their love doesn't equate to trust or respect always

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Read to page 5. So happy to have you back, Sri & loved lovrd everyone's discussion here so far!

I think I'll skip the last 3 episodes I missed and just watch today for the Ishita-Adi scene, RKB ka mini-return, and the oddly placed sisters scene.

Ishita is selfless and I appreciate that but like Raman's anger gets pushed too far...so does Ishita's selflessness (especially for Shagun). I am happy Adi made her realize while it is one thing not to screw over Shagun, one cannot forget the other casualties had she left again.

Maybe IshRa aren't the solution to be fair to Shagun but neither is going away.

Mani is not a bad person but Mani is what Raman is not. Mani does all that Raman never can do. And to me, Mani represents Raman's failure in building a trusting relationship with Ishita. Time and time again - we see Ishita opening up about realky important feelings to Amma, Simmi, Toshiji, Vandu, ACP, and Mani in various tracks. When the person who needs to hear her feelings and thoughts is Raman.

The two times Ishita really opened up about herself and her deep feelings to Raman was their 1st anniversary and C night. That's when she beared her soul to him but in most other tracks, Raman did not foster the relationship to have her open up to him while on the flip side he only reveals his true feelings to her.

And that is Raman's biggest failure and fear. He wants to be his spouses #1, and this insecurity stems from Shagun ditching him and making him feel he is useless as a husband, provider, and protector. Remember that scene in bhoot track he saw Ishita and ACP chatting? To me that stood out - bc he realizes he isn't the sole (and maybe even primary) confidant in his wife's life.

While everyone needs different people to confide in, for me a gage of a successful marriage is when the first person you turn to when hurt is your spouse. Sadly post leap Raman does more hurt so it makes sense as to why there is no trust or ability to communicate

Idk sorry for rambling...got carried away! 😆

Bang on krishy
Yes raman's anger and ishita jagatmaata nature are at extremes both should be toned down
Raman only confides in ishita to open up but ishita I Dnt knw y she doesn't do dat as u said those are d 2 situations wer she confided in Raman laid her heart out to him
I really wish Ek din aisa aaye jab Ishita will confide Raman instead of a 3rd party

Originally posted by: gargpoo

word krishy.. 👏
I too feel the same ..v saw only two times ishita opened up to raman as u mentioned otherwise she nvr shares her insecurities n feelings with raman ..its always someone else mani amma vandu ...bt raman opens up only with ishita ..he nvr shares his pain with anyone...
Post leap too he shared his pain only with her beshak gusse me hi sahi..
Thats y mani makes him insecure...his biggest fear is he is worhless ..that ishita convo with abhi during bhoot track is example of that..he ws not doubting ishita bt he ws hurt wen he asked she didnt tell him..same goed post miscarriage too ..he tried to make her share pain bt she didnt ...
Thats y i miffed with cvs..y they dont show their communication..there is always a communication gap...
V r waiting for emotional ishra confrontation bt i doubt ishita will share wat his words did to her..

Agree with you both krishy And poonam
There is always a communication gap between them Especially from ishita's side .
Pre leap there were many occasions that proved that Ishita has lack of trust on raman .She hide many things from him And he always hide that crap surragacy from her .that is bcoz of lack of communication .
Even post leap Ishu Shared her pain with Mani Not with raman .Maybe raman Might get fail in getting her trust or She might fail To Trust Him but Whatever it is , it always Leads to misunderstanding .Make raman insecure.
I just want them to pour there heart .I would love to see That scene in which ishita Break down in front of raman and their emotional talk as well .But no expectations from cvs .

Originally posted by: gargpoo

word krishy.. 👏
I too feel the same ..v saw only two times ishita opened up to raman as u mentioned otherwise she nvr shares her insecurities n feelings with raman ..its always someone else mani amma vandu ...bt raman opens up only with ishita ..he nvr shares his pain with anyone...
Post leap too he shared his pain only with her beshak gusse me hi sahi..
Thats y mani makes him insecure...his biggest fear is he is worhless ..that ishita convo with abhi during bhoot track is example of that..he ws not doubting ishita bt he ws hurt wen he asked she didnt tell him..same goed post miscarriage too ..he tried to make her share pain bt she didnt ...
Thats y i miffed with cvs..y they dont show their communication..there is always a communication gap...
V r waiting for emotional ishra confrontation bt i doubt ishita will share wat his words did to her..

Originally posted by: Sri1091

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Bang on krishy
Yes raman's anger and ishita jagatmaata nature are at extremes both should be toned down
Raman only confides in ishita to open up but ishita I Dnt knw y she doesn't do dat as u said those are d 2 situations wer she confided in Raman laid her heart out to him
I really wish Ek din aisa aaye jab Ishita will confide Raman instead of a 3rd party

Yep and for me - more than physical intimacy, there is a different level of intimacy that comes with shared emotions and bearing your soul open. It links you to the very core of a human and you are privileged to be given those sensitive emotions. Raman became Ishita's in the truest of senses much much earlier than C

Now thanks to the way the leap happened - I don't Ishita will ever really share with Raman and so the unbalance will continue

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Yep and for me - more than physical intimacy, there is a different level of intimacy that comes with shared emotions and bearing your soul open. It links you to the very core of a human and you are privileged to be given those sensitive emotions. Raman became Ishita's in the truest of senses much much earlier than C

Now thanks to the way the leap happened - I don't Ishita will ever really share with Raman and so the unbalance will continue