Originally posted by: sunitas123
@Priya, dunno if you have noticed but this is the very thread which always mocks other people's views and anything that is said against Raman, and a lot of times pre-empts that people will bash Raman etc...and anything said against Raman ( we are merely saying what is shown on screen) is not acceptable at all!
Hence I resisted coming here for a few days, but I finally decided to have my say, coz it is an independent forum after all!
All I am saying is that Raman has a long way to go for his redemption and it has not even started as yet! Hence I cant be content at the moment with what Raman is doing. I understand it is a journey and a story but he should be setting right all the mess that he himself has created.
In the OLV where Ruhi asks him to marry Ishita, just as impulsively as he decided to marry Shagun, he said yes to Ishita. If he was jealous all these days about Mani marrying her etc, I cant seem to see it now - coz all our assumptions about his gross words and behaviour were attributed to Mani! And I was expecting him to atleast clear things with Shagun, instead he just stands there ( behind Ishita) and luckily for him Shagun comes to his rescue. This is not the Raman we knew, this is not the man with integrity, his redemption is a long way away, and that is not just in terms of expressing his pain, but understanding Ishita's pain too! That is what will be true love after all!
Sunita, I have been active in this forum only for the last couple of months. I do not know what happened before that. As far as I have observed, people here do agree to the fact that Raman has created a blunder in initiating a marriage with Shagun in an outrage and he has to take the responsibility to clear this mess. The only concern for people ranting here has been the failure from CVs part to make RKB the kind of sensible, straightforward guy with integrity, who doesn't shy away from taking responsibility, as he used to be, prior to the leap. The RKB we got post leap was utterly disappointing and CVs have been quite inconsistent with respect to his dialogues and views. This was the main concern. Having said that, we did manage to have glimpses of that RKB, his love for Ishita, his love for Ruhi in his actions, through the actor's expressions and body language, which was quite visible to some of us out here. Now some of the forum members had different opinion about them, which is absolutely fine. But I guess our views about body language and expressions were mocked to such a greater extent in another thread where moderators had to close the thread for review because of reporting. I have not seen this thread being reported or closed for review, ever since I began to comment. So I agree to disagree with you on the remark that people in this thread always mock other views in other threads. Just my thoughts and no offence.
Regarding the OLV, all of us indeed had a concern about the strangling part being exaggerated and posted our comments in the thread created by Sneha. I would wait for the episode to air to see if the editors turn out to be sensible enough to edit the strangling part out. Having said that, IMO, we cannot ignore the emotional breakdown of Raman because of this. We very rarely get to see his POV. It is only now he has begun to give hints about what he thinks and what he wants. The things happening around him currently, make him even firmly believe that if they lose Ruhi, then his chances of winning back Ishita in his life is nearly zero. While all the time he has had this fear bottled within himself, he is now letting loose and voicing it explicitly. As we got Raman's emotions and point of view for Ruhi yesterday, I feel that this breakdown of Raman is towards the fear of losing Ishita. Now I feel that with Ishita being kidnapped, in the absence of Ishita, he would become even more vulnerable, voice out his feelings and may be that is when his guilt and realisation would start. Now it is in the hands of CVs as to how they want his realisation and redemption to be.
Agree to the point that Raman has added on to the mess by proposing marriage to Shagun and he has to take responsibility to clear that mess and get Ishita-Pihu closer. Infact that is where his redemption lies. But as for mending IshRa relationship, I would say both of them are equally responsible for the mess that has been created, both are at fault and both of them have to own up to clearing their differences, if they really want each other back. The sad truth is both of them are aware of what they mean to each other, but both have their own inhibitions in acknowledging it, which is what making the matters worse.
Just my thoughts. Don't know if it made sense.
Ps :- Edited :-
@bold - While I say Raman needs to get Ishita and Pihu closer , for the redemption of Raman, it does not take away the fact that Ishita has indeed failed miserably as a mother, when she forgot about the new born kid and ran away to end her life. Raman's words were harsh, Ruhi's loss was big, but no mother would do what she did to her new born kid which was not even 1 day old. Her actions doesn't stand justified by putting the entire blame on Raman. She even hid her existance from her own parents. OK Raman felt she was inauspicious. Did her parents feel so? Why did she give that punishment to them? So Ishita has to answer all these questions as well, just like Raman has to answer about his words & Shagun. While she has been shown as guilty in a couple of siutations, Raman has not been. That is the only difference I see. The sad truth remains that IshRa failed miserably as parents for Pihu, Ruhi and Adi and they have to get equally involved and take responsibility in getting things sorted out for them as couple and for their kids, leave alone Shagun, Mani and others.
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 9 years ago
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