My view on Raman being forced to say sorry

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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all let me tell u all m Raman's fan...i have always defended Raman whenever he was right...But i strongly believe being a True Fan doesnt mean u will always have to defend him even if hez wrong...
I read many of my fellow members defending Raman saying y shud he say sorry to Romi..
So let me ask Y cant...he say sorry as its not about business its personal and about Ruhi k liye...

We all know and r witness about how in initial days once raman said to her mummyji that I will become a good father for my Ruhi...and if needed i will apologise Ishita too...just for her...There we saw how much Raman loved his daughter...as she was angry on him for making ishimaa aplogise to adi n shagun in the restraunt...

Secondly...When Raman fell in love with Ishita...now there came many situations...where we saw Raman did evrything for Ishita...as he loved her too...like during ruhi-adi sawp when ishita got unwell and was craving to see Ruhi once..uttering her name literally...Raman cudnt see her in this condition and went to shagun...begged infront of her folding hands for letting Ishita see Ruhi once...He was even ready to bent down on his knees...

Then also a time came during bhoot track drama...where again for Ishita...Raman bend down to Ashok pleased him to come and make ishita wear the black thread...He even controlled his anger forgot evrything becoz at that time his only priority was Ishita...For her ske he had to pick Ashok's shoes..That Ashok...whom he hated the most...

Now comes the current situation...Raman again had to do something for his beloved long lost Ruhi...he claims he'll do anything and evrything for Ruhi...because right now she is his first priority..
Then y he cant say a sorry to his own younger brother Romi...Cant he let go off his ego...i know...even Romi can ask for an aplogy but atleast raman should atleast talk to him nicely once naa...and even though Romi cheated his raman bhai by joining hands with Ashok...but still he gave priority to help his Ishita Bhabi in finding Nidhi and Ruhi..Y did he do that..?becoz It 's not that he hates his Raman Bhai...its just that he hates his way of dealing with peoples by shouting at them and beating them whatever happens...He hates his Bhai's inability to control on his anger issues...

So...If Raman can bend down infront of selfish shaggy and creep Ashok..whom he hated the most...Then it should not be a Big Issue for him to say a sorry on his part to Romi for whatever he said to him 7 yrs back atleast as if it was Romi's carelessness at that time they lost Ruhi...Then it is only that Romi..who gave him the info about nidhi and Ruhi being alive...and i guess saying a sorry to his younger brother whom he still cares and concerns from inside..is not a BIG DEAl...I believe if Raman will say a sorry then Romi too will realise his part of mistakes..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes Raman should apologize and thank him in future for stopping his marriage with shagun...
Romi deserves this thanks
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Honestly the issue isn't Raman saying sorry bc that is very much due...I have a problem with how it is being done - it is not an earnest attempt from his side bc he is physically being forced. That is the only gripe. In fact I want him and Romi to talk and him to apologize to Romi - it is very much due.

And ego & self pride has been something Raman has compromised many times for his family. There has been no question on the extents Raman can go for his loved ones
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sry beshak Bol sakta hein Raman but aisi zabardasti vusse sry bulvana is soo gross watever he does he is doing for his family and he will never flinch back doing anything for his family pre leap chodo post leap they are so many instances wer romi behaved as a jerk not only with Raman but also with family members it would have been good if both of them are made to talk out instead of this tying up drama both are at fault den y shld only one be forced to do dat and also in this way the way they choose is def wrong Itz not at all funny as they think I atleast hope they will show raman and romi scene as something sensible and emotional instead of making it a mockery
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Like krishy said..no one has prblm raman saying sorry to romi..its very much needed...the prblm is the way they r showing...forced sorry cant mend broken relations...both shud realize their mistakes...tieding him up n taking him to romi looks so gross..
Raman can go to any extent for his loved ones he has done that many times...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nobody has a problem with raman apologizing..he needs to apologize to Romi yes..
But the v way it's being done totally discredits all those things you mentioned he v has done for his wife, parents and extended family never once worrying about the 'ego' that's being spoken about. ..
When a guy like romi is given a decent chance to b redeem himself and have the v whole family backing him despite him doing such despicable things before and after the leap. .why doesn't raman deserve an ounce of respect at least or a chance to keep his dignity while being asked to apologize. ...rather than this so called 'funny' scene. .

If romi genuinely wants to apologize. .wht not take tjhe b first step? And we could have had so many amazing scenes where ishuta explains to n raman about how important it n is v that the family would be together and v reminding raman of his own actions for his family in tjhe past.. tjhe fact that he can go to any extent for them..what a nice scene that could have been...

Honestly romi in this case deserves to ask a sorry not just from ram a n but his parents as well..he joined hands with a creep and did his dirty deed's for years and insulted his parents at the drop of a hat...will that be brushed u der tjhe carpet due to the cvs compulsive fixation with comic scenes that make RKB a joke.. and his feelings irrelevant. . Is b that even fair?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Waise I wonder if the family ever realized just how much Raman compromised his self respect in situations for them? From working for Ashok to polishing his shoes or begging Nidhi...he's done a fair amount for the sake of others or so I believe
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nicegul

First of all let me tell u all m Raman's fan...i have always defended Raman whenever he was right...But i strongly believe being a True Fan doesnt mean u will always have to defend him even if hez wrong...

I read many of my fellow members defending Raman saying y shud he say sorry to Romi..
So let me ask Y cant...he say sorry as its not about business its personal and about Ruhi k liye...

We all know and r witness about how in initial days once raman said to her mummyji that I will become a good father for my Ruhi...and if needed i will apologise Ishita too...just for her...There we saw how much Raman loved his daughter...as she was angry on him for making ishimaa aplogise to adi n shagun in the restraunt...

Secondly...When Raman fell in love with Ishita...now there came many situations...where we saw Raman did evrything for Ishita...as he loved her too...like during ruhi-adi sawp when ishita got unwell and was craving to see Ruhi once..uttering her name literally...Raman cudnt see her in this condition and went to shagun...begged infront of her folding hands for letting Ishita see Ruhi once...He was even ready to bent down on his knees...

Then also a time came during bhoot track drama...where again for Ishita...Raman bend down to Ashok pleased him to come and make ishita wear the black thread...He even controlled his anger forgot evrything becoz at that time his only priority was Ishita...For her ske he had to pick Ashok's shoes..That Ashok...whom he hated the most...

Now comes the current situation...Raman again had to do something for his beloved long lost Ruhi...he claims he'll do anything and evrything for Ruhi...because right now she is his first priority..
Then y he cant say a sorry to his own younger brother Romi...Cant he let go off his ego...i know...even Romi can ask for an aplogy but atleast raman should atleast talk to him nicely once naa...and even though Romi cheated his raman bhai by joining hands with Ashok...but still he gave priority to help his Ishita Bhabi in finding Nidhi and Ruhi..Y did he do that..?becoz It 's not that he hates his Raman Bhai...its just that he hates his way of dealing with peoples by shouting at them and beating them whatever happens...He hates his Bhai's inability to control on his anger issues...

So...If Raman can bend down infront of selfish shaggy and creep Ashok..whom he hated the most...Then it should not be a Big Issue for him to say a sorry on his part to Romi for whatever he said to him 7 yrs back atleast as if it was Romi's carelessness at that time they lost Ruhi...Then it is only that Romi..who gave him the info about nidhi and Ruhi being alive...and i guess saying a sorry to his younger brother whom he still cares and concerns from inside..is not a BIG DEAl...I believe if Raman will say a sorry then Romi too will realise his part of mistakes..


Bang on very true although it was Romis carelessness pihu was kidnapped but raman's words to romi was also wrong so nothing wrong in him apologising.. More than Raman sayng sorry to romi I'm eagerly waiting wen Raman will himself say sorry to ishita for all hi rude words post & pre leap n also to iyers.. I hope he himself realise his mistake n apologise.. Don't know whether they'll show that..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: brihati

Yes Raman should apologize and thank him in future for stopping his marriage with shagun...
Romi deserves this thanks


Then nidhi deserves a thanks too..for getting caught at tjhe 'right' time 😕..son tjhe marriage could be stopped..🤢
Why does everything on tjhe planet have to be about raman and shagun. ..

Ever wondered why romi never came and apologized to his dad and simmi yet for supporting and working with ashok.. tjhe same guy who is now tjhe single biggest reason nidhi is sitting on people's heads now? That doesn't 'deserve' an apology. .or even that is forgiven since romi stopped 'the marriage'.🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

Waise I wonder if the family ever realized just how much Raman compromised his self respect in situations for them? From working for Ashok to polishing his shoes or begging Nidhi...he's done a fair amount for the sake of others or so I believe


We have and will never see the family appreciate it krishy..
Infact it b was bala who witnessed the shoe polishing scene...but it's tjhe sane bala who now feels raman is a jaanwar and pihu should be given to ishita...cvs do not want anyone to sympathize with raman ..period...i remember all tjhe crap the b family told raman when he was working with ashok..taking insult on insult .. for rinkis marriage🥱
The family won't get a fb..ishita won't get a fb..adi won't get a fb..all ppl who have witnessed raman selling his soul for his fsmilyn at different points. ..mihir is now useless as it is🤢

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