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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shagun so far failed to garner any sympathy for herself in the white avatar...Don't know its the script or the acting..She fails to bring out Shagun's conflict, if at all there is any...And her much hyped relationship with Pihu too looks superficial without any real connection, atleast to me..

Shagun after a second chance in life...decided that if she acts as Ishita everything will be alright.. So she turned around her wardrobe into behenji types and started looking after Pihu ...As if that it is all it takes to make her Ishita..

But she is failing to realize that Ishita & Shagun are two different personalities, even before greed took over, Shagun was no Ishita, so why now after the transformation she will become Ishita..

After 7 years she feels she has earned the right to marry Raman and get everything back which she threw away from her life. And she is deluding herself that since Raman hates Ishita it is better for everybody if he marries her. But according to that logic, when did Raman say he loved her. He was indifferent to her for 7 years. If she has even an ounce of brain, she would have known that Raman was deliberately messing things for his own personal reasons. He is never the altruist or the selfless soul like his wife but he is impulsive and destructive. She doesn't want to comprehend that.

Once in all these years, we didn't see her standing up for Adi when Raman was being unreasonably rude to him, She didn't question Raman of his neglect of her son, She let things be as they were not wanting to disrupt her position in family.

She couldn't even bond with her own son Adi in these 7 years, winning over Raman is too far a thought. The only thing in her favor is Pihu, but there too what we see so far is how her life would be disrupted if Pihu too choose Ishita. Frankly if Ishita was in Shagun's place, she would have informed Pihu that her real mother is back and made them meet. Ishita doesn't hold any relationship with force she lets people choose and that is why everyone comes back to her.

Shagun madam please get in your head that You are not the new Ishita that you can marry Raman for Pihu...
& Even if she ends up marrying Raman she could never keep him...she will turn into her own self in no time..demanding what she feels her right and messing up all the relations in the process.

& I got carried away with the word Shagun...😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Anuhyaa

Shagun so far failed to garner any sympathy for herself in the white avatar...Don't know its the script or the acting..She fails to bring out Shagun's conflict, if at all there is any...And her much hyped relationship with Pihu too looks superficial without any real connection, atleast to me..

Shagun after a second chance in life...decided that if she acts as Ishita everything will be alright.. So she turned around her wardrobe into behenji types and started looking after Pihu ...As if that it is all it takes to make her Ishita..

But she is failing to realize that Ishita & Shagun are two different personalities, even before greed took over, Shagun was no Ishita, so why now after the transformation she will become Ishita..

After 7 years she feels she has earned the right to marry Raman and get everything back which she threw away from her life. And she is deluding herself that since Raman hates Ishita it is better for everybody if he marries her. But according to that logic, when did Raman say he loved her. He was indifferent to her for 7 years. If she has even an ounce of brain, she would have known that Raman was deliberately messing things for his own personal reasons. He is never the altruist or the selfless soul like his wife but he is impulsive and destructive. She doesn't want to comprehend that.

Once in all these years, we didn't see her standing up for Adi when Raman was being unreasonably rude to him, She didn't question Raman of his neglect of her son, She let things be as they were not wanting to disrupt her position in family.

She couldn't even bond with her own son Adi in these 7 years, winning over Raman is too far a thought. The only thing in her favor is Pihu, but there too what we see so far is how her life would be disrupted if Pihu too choose Ishita. Frankly if Ishita was in Shagun's place, she would have informed Pihu that her real mother is back and made them meet. Ishita doesn't hold any relationship with force she lets people choose and that is why everyone comes back to her.

Shagun madam please get in your head that You are not the new Ishita that you can marry Raman for Pihu...
& Even if she ends up marrying Raman she could never keep him...she will turn into her own self in no time..demanding what she feels her right and messing up all the relations in the process.

& I got carried away with the word Shagun...😆😆



Anoo 🤗 good to see you.

I agree with everything you wrote here ..in the guise of ' Ishita ke liye' , 'sabke Bhalai ke liye' is coming out the only mantra in Shagun's life : Shagun ke liye . She had used her kids in manipulation of Raman before and she'll going that route again with Pihu abd then it's termed as 'insecurity ' .. That's the most hilarious part .

Shagun has a similar affect on all of us 😉😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33
Through all the negativity, look what the creative did. they managed it.they finally succeeded.
Hum sab shaguniya pe meherbaan ho gaye 😆



In all honesty, shagun never in my opinion, despite her wardrobe etc, never had the elegance, poise and dignity ishita carries in her silence, she conveys in her eyes. she makes mistakes, she's human, but her poise and elegance through this journey is something shagun can never compete with.

ishita is graceful. graceful is never the word you think of when it comes to shagun.

so to compete with ishita's actions, her selflessness, what she manages with the family, and bringing raman back to life...no chance. she can't imitate ishita at all. there just isn't any competition.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Gan ...I agree she already had a peaceful life with Raman and herself chose to leave...now she wants to be back in his life...this shows this woman is so desperate and in an illusion that Raman hates ishita for real and has moved on...this woman is so artificial and superficial...I don't know what ramans up to..he's a confusing character...he's an extreme person ...takes decision in hurry and anger and later repents...completely different from what Raman is in custody novel
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Gan, your post brought me out of my exile. Writing on a YHM track after a long long time.
CVs are forcing a selective amnesia on Raman. A dialog from him to Ishita made me laugh so much. I think I mentioned that to you too. "bhagodon aur dokiyabaazon keliye mere zindagi mein koyi jagah nahi hai"
So who is Shagun?😆 isnt she the number 1 cheat who betrayed him and ran away with another man just for money.
CVs are damn confused by themselves. They seem to have conveniently forgotten what all Shagun did and how she had used her kids against Raman and his family. She had paired up with Ashok to destroy Raman. Ab woh sab paani mein gaya and the new cheat in the block is Ishita! Shagun bann gayi sarv gunn sampann garelu bahu and biwi material. 🤣👏

I think Ishita should go away for another 6 years and wait till Shagun walks out again. 😆

That said, I do agree Shagun is shown as reformed and is also not so evil as before but she can never gather sympathy from us and logically speaking even Raman and Bhallas cannot forgive her. But what to do? YHM mein logic doondna behkaar hai...so yeah, she is pure as milk now and lets just swallow that.
Edited by vidya.anand - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#36
After ditching manoj now she wants a family...and now terming her selfish desire to insecurity😲...She doesn't want love else she would have married manoj way back ...she wants luxury and status and now we can safely say she was always after raman since he became rich who can afford her expenses...how conveniently she dumped manoj as soon as she got an opportunity to be back in raman's life and actually we all knew what was the actual purpose of surrogacy...her temporary white avatar were introduced just to convince raman to choose her as the surrogate mother and then came the leap and separation to justify her presence in raman's life.
People say forgive but never forget...but here everyone forgot what she did all these years just because she showed interest in ishita having a baby of her own.
Edited by ramishi - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Gan, your post brought me out of my exile. Writing on a YHM track after a long long time.

CVs are forcing a selective amnesia on Raman. A dialog from him to Ishita made me laugh so much. I think I mentioned that to you too. "bhagodon aur dokiyabaazon keliye mere zindagi mein koyi jagah nahi hai"
So who is Shagun?😆 isnt she the number 1 cheat who betrayed him and ran away with another man just for money.
CVs are damn confused by themselves. They seem to have conveniently forgotten what all Shagun did and how she had used her kids against Raman and his family. She had paired up with Ashok to destroy Raman. Ab woh sab paani mein gaya and the new cheat in the block is Ishita! Shagun bann gayi sarv gunn sampann garelu bahu and biwi material. 🤣👏

I think Ishita should go away for another 6 years and wait till Shagun walks out again. 😆

That said, I do agree Shagun is shown as reformed and is also not so evil as before but she can never gather sympathy from us and logically speaking even Raman and Bhallas cannot forgive her. But what to do? YHM mein logic doondna behkaar hai...so yeah, she is pure as milk now and lets just swallow that.



Vids 🤗 should I thank Shagun for bringing all the old friends back to the thread again 😉


Raman when it comes to Ishita sees no one .. They have established well that he's totally indifferent to Shagun ever since he fell in love with Ishita.. So in his life he's currently obsessed with Ishita, albeit negativily .. So in his eyes no one has committed a bigger crime than Ishita by staying away from him .. Hence selective memory..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gan-


Vids 🤗 should I thank Shagun for bringing all the old friends back to the thread again 😉


Raman when it comes to Ishita sees no one .. They have established well that he's totally indifferent to Shagun ever since he fell in love with Ishita.. So in his life he's currently obsessed with Ishita, albeit negativily .. So in his eyes no one has committed a bigger crime than Ishita by staying away from him .. Hence selective memory..



you know what i noticed, ever since Ishita came back, all he sees is that she left. from bala and his conversation, what i saw is that he is so consumed with the fact that ishita stayed away, he has forgotten what he said to her. he spends seven years ridden with guilt and the minute he sees her again, he forgets what he did, and is in so much anger and jealousy it takes bala to remind him of his own words. and now he is clinging onto that anger, even after he glimpse of the real raman we see for a second. otherwise he truly has to face what he did himself. now i think he is being a bit cowardly. he's sticking to 'ishita left me' s he doesn't have to think about the why right now. anger is easier right now than the world of pain he is delaying to let himself feel for what he himself did. its human, vulnerable raman putting his defences up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005

Through all the negativity, look what the creative did. they managed it.they finally succeeded.

Hum sab shaguniya pe meherbaan ho gaye 😆



In all honesty, shagun never in my opinion, despite her wardrobe etc, never had the elegance, poise and dignity ishita carries in her silence, she conveys in her eyes. she makes mistakes, she's human, but her poise and elegance through this journey is something shagun can never compete with.

ishita is graceful. graceful is never the word you think of when it comes to shagun.

so to compete with ishita's actions, her selflessness, what she manages with the family, and bringing raman back to life...no chance. she can't imitate ishita at all. there just isn't any competition.



Elegance . Poise and dignity are rooted deep inside the characterist of an individual, not skin deep as a wardrobe makeover .. So latter is easy.. The first needs a deeper evolvement.. Only few have that..

Ishita was graceful when she was tagged 'behenji' ... And though Shagun embraced the 'behenji' part in changing her wardrobe .. The deeper level stayed intact... And that's coming to the fore now..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think the Bhallas have lived in a limbo for the past 7 years... doing what they were supposed to do but not living their lives to the fullest!!! As for Raman... I don't think Shagun's presence was ever registered in his life except as the woman who was raising his daughter... the first time he realized that everyone was expecting more from his and Shagun's arrangement he went ahead and registered her profile on a marriage website... and even now he is using her to prove his point to Ishita... for Raman it has never been about Shagun... and that is the reason Shagun is going to fail!

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