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Posted: 9 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: snehaseshan


If u r saying my view is one side then urs also one sided n ur words r depict that u r saying ishita was happily living n Raman was only in pain which is also one sided ..according to me no man in love will accuse his wife manhoos n Baanj continuously his words n actions both r inhumane.. He was acting as shagun's husband for 7 yeas guess u forgot that.. I don't wanna fight.. This is my PoV n u HVE a diff perspective. Let's stop it here.

sneha bby cool down😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

sneha bby cool down😊


yes baby Im cool
Kya yaar if he/ she is calling me one sided n regressive view just read his/ her view it's totally one sided...This is a open forum I wrote wat I felt & being a women I felt raman's words & actions r an insult to womanhood n motherhood & moreover Im not against Raman but I'm against d regressive content which is being shown through raman's dialogues...wats wrong in that??
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Posted: 9 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: ZigBee


I don't indulge myself into Ishita vs Raman silly fights but your constant one eyed view is really too regressive. YHM is a story of two broken souls who got cheated in love, you can see the pain of one while constantly ignoring the other. Just like Ishita was doomed for her infertility, Raman was doomed for his inability not to be enough for his wife. Just like Ishita's biggest fear infertility, Raman's biggest fear was his wife would leave him one day as he would never be enough for her and this had happened for the second time when Ishita followed the footstep of Shagun for whatever reasons. Raman was leaving like a dead thinking his wife dead, he himself said that in a drunk state. But when he saw Ishita is alive and with Mani...he felt cheated...he felt history repeated once again, his worst fear came true in the form of Ishita and Mani...his last 7 years of living in self exile and punishment suddenly became meaningless. You are in your constant one eyed view so miserably overlooking this time and again.

Actions always speak louder than words. And please do see...how Ishita and Raman spent last seven years before accusing Raman a cheat. Ishita herself admitted her life is perfect with Mani and Aliya, she did lead a life of a normal human being and like a normal human being she lead a peaceful and apparently happy family life with Mani and Aliya while Raman had no one but Pihu. His family distanced themselves from him and he too did the same...he even detached himself from Adi whom he loves so dearly because he couldn't get out of the shock of Ishita's supposed demise. His bitter equation with Shagun in last 7 years does tell the story...so before accusing him a cheat, at last for once try to think about the other side of the story!!


Bang on. Raman has to relive his worst nightmare again...never ever dreamt that it would come true with Ishita. People are saying Ishita's infertility but not this...like Raman didn't have any horrible past! And at the end of the day it's Ishita only "got cheated in love twice"...how convenient!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#64
Ppl need to understand ishra both r in pain..
If ishita is hurt then raman too is hurt..
If ishita is insecured abt her weakness of infertily then raman too is insecured he is not enough/worthy for his wife..
Both hv horrible past ...both hv weaknesses ...both hv their own way to react if someone point out their weakness...
Plz consider raman's pov in lift scene he ws not faking
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankitasen


Bang on. Raman has to relive his worst nightmare again...never ever dreamt that it would come true with Ishita. People are saying Ishita's infertility but not this...like Raman didn't have any horrible past! And at the end of the day it's Ishita only "got cheated in love twice"...how convenient!!!


Ankita and @Zigbee, let it go. I have read posts like "Ruhi matlabi like his father", "why Ruhi hates Ishita more than she does Raman" etc etc...then this is nothing 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#66
Arey arey...he shud be super excited...why shouting...
He is getting married to the LOVE OF HIS LIFE SHAGUN HIS OXYGEN... Ghut ghut ke jee raha tha sb to uski zindagi mil rahahai usse...so must be super duper hsppy so shouting...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: ZigBee


I don't indulge myself into Ishita vs Raman silly fights but your constant one eyed view is really too regressive. YHM is a story of two broken souls who got cheated in love, you can see the pain of one while constantly ignoring the other. Just like Ishita was doomed for her infertility, Raman was doomed for his inability not to be enough for his wife. Just like Ishita's biggest fear infertility, Raman's biggest fear was his wife would leave him one day as he would never be enough for her and this had happened for the second time when Ishita followed the footstep of Shagun for whatever reasons. Raman was leaving like a dead thinking his wife dead, he himself said that in a drunk state. But when he saw Ishita is alive and with Mani...he felt cheated...he felt history repeated once again, his worst fear came true in the form of Ishita and Mani...his last 7 years of living in self exile and punishment suddenly became meaningless. You are in your constant one eyed view so miserably overlooking this time and again.

Actions always speak louder than words. And please do see...how Ishita and Raman spent last seven years before accusing Raman a cheat. Ishita herself admitted her life is perfect with Mani and Aliya, she did lead a life of a normal human being and like a normal human being she lead a peaceful and apparently happy family life with Mani and Aliya while Raman had no one but Pihu. His family distanced themselves from him and he too did the same...he even detached himself from Adi whom he loves so dearly because he couldn't get out of the shock of Ishita's supposed demise. His bitter equation with Shagun in last 7 years does tell the story...so before accusing him a cheat, at last for once try to think about the other side of the story!!

Yes you are correct. Both of theirs pain is eual. Both lost Ruhi. Both are staying apart from each other from last 7 years. Ishita is termed as banjh and Raman is twice deceived by his wife. Ishita living with Mani and Raman living with Shagun for last 7 years. Ishita had Aliya and Nirvan and Raman had Ruhi and Adi.
Ishita was living a calm life working as a dentist, taking care of MAni and his kids. Raman instead of having everyone is living a lonely life. Whose mistake is this if even after having whole family around him, he is living a lonely life. Why he is punishing everyone else his parents, Adi for his incompetency of dealing with people and problems of his life. His harsh words drove Ishita away from him. What is anyone elses mistake in this that he is not even talkin to them properly. he dont listen to his father, answer them back but when adi tries to speak in fron of him then bechara raman his son is also with Ishima and not him.
I am not expecting Raman to ambrace Ishita and forgot everything. I know he is hurt and he is angry which is justified but nothing can justify his current behavior towards Ishita. If he is shown this angry after he got to know that Ishita is trying to get pihus custody, then this level of rudeness, crassness, cheapness could have been justified to some extent.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: ZigBee


I don't indulge myself into Ishita vs Raman silly fights but your constant one eyed view is really too regressive. YHM is a story of two broken souls who got cheated in love, you can see the pain of one while constantly ignoring the other. Just like Ishita was doomed for her infertility, Raman was doomed for his inability not to be enough for his wife. Just like Ishita's biggest fear infertility, Raman's biggest fear was his wife would leave him one day as he would never be enough for her and this had happened for the second time when Ishita followed the footstep of Shagun for whatever reasons. Raman was leaving like a dead thinking his wife dead, he himself said that in a drunk state. But when he saw Ishita is alive and with Mani...he felt cheated...he felt history repeated once again, his worst fear came true in the form of Ishita and Mani...his last 7 years of living in self exile and punishment suddenly became meaningless. You are in your constant one eyed view so miserably overlooking this time and again.

Actions always speak louder than words. And please do see...how Ishita and Raman spent last seven years before accusing Raman a cheat. Ishita herself admitted her life is perfect with Mani and Aliya, she did lead a life of a normal human being and like a normal human being she lead a peaceful and apparently happy family life with Mani and Aliya while Raman had no one but Pihu. His family distanced themselves from him and he too did the same...he even detached himself from Adi whom he loves so dearly because he couldn't get out of the shock of Ishita's supposed demise. His bitter equation with Shagun in last 7 years does tell the story...so before accusing him a cheat, at last for once try to think about the other side of the story!!


Bang on!
It looks like everyone here forgot the pain raman went through, i agree he's dialouges are crass and can't be justified.. but he is in pain too. From he's POV ishita was living a happy life with mani for 7 years when he's in guilt of loosing her. He was a living dead body but his wife didn't even seems to care to check whether he is dead or alive.. For me both are wrong, the difference is ishita knows that she is wrong but raman is yet to acknowlege his mistake. It's just a matter of time.

Ps: I see some posts like raman needs only 'fertile womb' to get married thus he's getting married to shagun, but here they are easily forgot the fact raman didn't marry shagun for 7 years knowing that his infertile wife never come back.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: ZigBee


I don't indulge myself into Ishita vs Raman silly fights but your constant one eyed view is really too regressive. YHM is a story of two broken souls who got cheated in love, you can see the pain of one while constantly ignoring the other. Just like Ishita was doomed for her infertility, Raman was doomed for his inability not to be enough for his wife. Just like Ishita's biggest fear infertility, Raman's biggest fear was his wife would leave him one day as he would never be enough for her and this had happened for the second time when Ishita followed the footstep of Shagun for whatever reasons. Raman was leaving like a dead thinking his wife dead, he himself said that in a drunk state. But when he saw Ishita is alive and with Mani...he felt cheated...he felt history repeated once again, his worst fear came true in the form of Ishita and Mani...his last 7 years of living in self exile and punishment suddenly became meaningless. You are in your constant one eyed view so miserably overlooking this time and again.

Actions always speak louder than words. And please do see...how Ishita and Raman spent last seven years before accusing Raman a cheat. Ishita herself admitted her life is perfect with Mani and Aliya, she did lead a life of a normal human being and like a normal human being she lead a peaceful and apparently happy family life with Mani and Aliya while Raman had no one but Pihu. His family distanced themselves from him and he too did the same...he even detached himself from Adi whom he loves so dearly because he couldn't get out of the shock of Ishita's supposed demise. His bitter equation with Shagun in last 7 years does tell the story...so before accusing him a cheat, at last for once try to think about the other side of the story!!


This was never about Ishita Vs Raman... I think even Raman needs to take a step back and think about himself... he also has a lot of unresolved issues... his anger, his insecurities and the way he copes with trauma... marriage is not the solution... he has married for love once and for family once... clearly he needs to sort himself too... his life has not been a bed of roses for the last 7 years!!! My only objection was this concern that Bala had that who will take care of Ishita... how will she live alone?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Zigbee @nikichatz1 WORD!! Z...I know you would speak up soon. 😆 I am perfectly okay with people disliking Raman's repeated insensitive behavior ( even though I know Cvs using this to delay things and distribute more sympathy towards their female lead and that's exactly what's happening) but what appalled me is that very few try to know why is he behaving so. Raman feels he's cheated by Ishita ( don't blame Raman, if a stranger like the hospital nurse would assume Ishita-Mani together seeing their closeness, why not Raman?!) and man goes nuts when he's cheated in true love. Mind you, that's happening TWICE for Raman.

True love itself is strange and so is its characteristics. Anyone, who experienced this, would agree with me! We are now blinded by media hyped love stories of stars, sport stars or famous personalities but in real, true love is blissful and it's betrayal is painful at the same time. For those, this verse might guide:

Ishq Aap Vi Awalla Ohdey Kam Vi Awalley
Jidey Paish Pe Javey Kakh Chhad'da Naein Palley
Aes Ishq Ch Yaro, Kuj Kahya Vi Naein Janda
Rola Paya Vi Na Janda , Chup Rahya Vi Naein Janda

Love itself is strange and its doings even stranger
Those who it pursues are left worthless
In this love, my friends, you can't even say anything
You can neither shout nor can you stay quiet



I don't say this but the history does. History vouches that a hundred year's war took place between two nations because a man was cheated in love in the first place!



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