Originally posted by: ZigBee
I don't indulge myself into Ishita vs Raman silly fights but your constant one eyed view is really too regressive. YHM is a story of two broken souls who got cheated in love, you can see the pain of one while constantly ignoring the other. Just like Ishita was doomed for her infertility, Raman was doomed for his inability not to be enough for his wife. Just like Ishita's biggest fear infertility, Raman's biggest fear was his wife would leave him one day as he would never be enough for her and this had happened for the second time when Ishita followed the footstep of Shagun for whatever reasons. Raman was leaving like a dead thinking his wife dead, he himself said that in a drunk state. But when he saw Ishita is alive and with Mani...he felt cheated...he felt history repeated once again, his worst fear came true in the form of Ishita and Mani...his last 7 years of living in self exile and punishment suddenly became meaningless. You are in your constant one eyed view so miserably overlooking this time and again.
Actions always speak louder than words. And please do see...how Ishita and Raman spent last seven years before accusing Raman a cheat. Ishita herself admitted her life is perfect with Mani and Aliya, she did lead a life of a normal human being and like a normal human being she lead a peaceful and apparently happy family life with Mani and Aliya while Raman had no one but Pihu. His family distanced themselves from him and he too did the same...he even detached himself from Adi whom he loves so dearly because he couldn't get out of the shock of Ishita's supposed demise. His bitter equation with Shagun in last 7 years does tell the story...so before accusing him a cheat, at last for once try to think about the other side of the story!!
Yes you are correct. Both of theirs pain is eual. Both lost Ruhi. Both are staying apart from each other from last 7 years. Ishita is termed as banjh and Raman is twice deceived by his wife. Ishita living with Mani and Raman living with Shagun for last 7 years. Ishita had Aliya and Nirvan and Raman had Ruhi and Adi.
Ishita was living a calm life working as a dentist, taking care of MAni and his kids. Raman instead of having everyone is living a lonely life. Whose mistake is this if even after having whole family around him, he is living a lonely life. Why he is punishing everyone else his parents, Adi for his incompetency of dealing with people and problems of his life. His harsh words drove Ishita away from him. What is anyone elses mistake in this that he is not even talkin to them properly. he dont listen to his father, answer them back but when adi tries to speak in fron of him then bechara raman his son is also with Ishima and not him.
I am not expecting Raman to ambrace Ishita and forgot everything. I know he is hurt and he is angry which is justified but nothing can justify his current behavior towards Ishita. If he is shown this angry after he got to know that Ishita is trying to get pihus custody, then this level of rudeness, crassness, cheapness could have been justified to some extent.
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