At the time of Roohi's supposed death, both Ishita and Raman were in vulnerable positions both mentally and emotionally... harsh words were said by Raman in his grief and Ishita accepted them because she did not have the capacity to think rationally at that time. Both made mistakes. And in no way should Ishita be handed over her family in a nicely decorated platter just because she is back due of some bizarre coincidences. I think she should have to work to build each and every relationship that she chose to stay away from... I don't blame her for walking away AT THAT POINT OF TIME. But 7 years is a very long time to let your parents, siblings and most importantly your kids (esp. Adi) believe that you are dead!
On the other hand, what Raman said was hurtful. And his actions since then have just compounded his mistake. Here are somethings that he needs to be reminded of:
Raman ex-wife has lost her marbles - she turns into a bitch manipulating her son till he overdoses just to blame Ishita -
Result: Ishita is a bad mother
Raman's ex-boss cum arch rival is pissed of with him - He manipulates some psycho to recreate Sandra Bullock's Speed causing Ishita to lose her baby - Result: Ishita is a manhoos baanj.
Raman's mother decides to apply her matchmaking secret services in a failed mission - Nidhi turns into Revenge Queen and decides to kidnap the Bhalla daughters - Raman and Ishita both decide to barter their kids (hoping to save both of them) - Result: Ishita is the evil step mom who killed Raman's daughter.
Both have made mistakes... and Ishita is wrong many times... but all the villains in IshRa's life are the byproduct of Bhallas' actions - Ashok Khanna, Suraj Khanna, Param, Psycho Subbu, St. Shagun, Sarika and finally Nidhi!!! Can someone please show this list to Mr. Raman Bhalla and Co.
Message to the CVs: You have already butcher my favourite character on Indian Television. Now please do not make mincemeat out of RKB. đĄ