Originally posted by: kras
if someone thinks that ishita is not completely wrong
then please see pryatusha parents condition just for once
jab kisi ki bacchi marti h to wo mav baap tut jate h
wo jeete to h lekin unme jeene ki chah nahi bachti
ruhi mar gayi issiliye ishita bhi jakar kud gayi
phir waha se bachne ke bvad bhi kisi ke saamne nahi aayi
iss hisaab se to mrs iyer ko bhi suicide kar leni chahiye
kyunki unki beti mar gayi
lekin wo jee rahi h
kyunki unhe pata h mere aur bhi bacche h mera parivaar h
jinhe meri jarurat h
kaash ishita ne bhi guilt se upar ye sab socha hota
raman bhi ab tak kai baar guilt mein gaya
lekin usne khud ko kabhi nuksaan nahi pahunchaya
kyunki use pata h mujh par kayi logo ki jimmedari h
child swap track mein ishita ne bhi raman ko bahut kuch sunaya tha
tum baap banne ke layak nahi ho
tum pati kehlane ke layak nahi ho
tum insaan kehlane ke layak nahi ho
hamara rishta ruhi se tha
ab wo hi nahi h to ye rishta bhi khatam ho gaya h
he was also guilty
tab to use bhi suicide kar lena chahiye tha
aur us waqt bhi humne raman ko dosh diya
aut aaj bhi sab raman ko dosh de rahe h
us waqt ishita ke sabhi dialogues sahi the
kyunki wo maa thi
usne dard mein kaha
lekin baap ko apni bacchi ke marne par bhi dard jahir karne ka koi haq nahi h
I have not watched the episodes in a while,except reviews.
I get it that ishita is wrong in not remembering her parents.
Not bothering about the plight of Raman,
But how did these same people accept surrogacy?
Did anybody take any action and prove that Ishita can never conceive,ever.
Ishita had accepted this child just as she was ready for adopting any child.
Irrespective of whoever the child's parents mightbe.
And not as her biological child.
I'm totally ok with raman's outburst.That's natural.
But this was not the first time.
A person does have a breaking point.
The Bhallas or her parents did not come forward to protect her at that crucial juncture when she was vulnerable.
Maybe she could only think of her best friend then.And he was there to protect her as he said before.
Just give me a call.
Ishita just proved Raman wrong by being a good mother for 7 years.w/o any intimacy involved.
A marriage is not necessary.
Maybe she had some psychological problem.
There were no returns for her in this set up.
She had given up on that one final gift from Raman.
Sometimes it is necessary for some to lose the thing that they take for granted in order to realise its worth.
This applies for Ishita too.
She wanted to give herself and Raman some time to take a good perspective from a distance.
If they loved each other enough ,they will fight for it.
A framework of married life with compulsions was not allowing them to realise that.
Children are important.But it can come only after their personal equation.
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