It's just insulting to couples struggling with infertility - Page 2

Originally posted by: -K.13-

I posted this else where but am including it here.

I don't care about characters right now...just the regressive insensitive cruel CVs/SP/BT

This show, from day 1, had a focus on infertility. Ishita was ostracized for her inability to conceive & women watched this show because they could relate.

So how is it appropriate or empathetic to show a woman who was taunted as a "baanj" for years become pregnant almost immediately after her marriage consummated. What was showed is that her infertility (which was explained to us as tubal scarring) was CURED by sex.

Fine - viewers digested it as a miracle...but then women who have infertility issues often suffer miscarriages. She was not shown as her having a miscarriage due to her ailment...but it was showen that her miscarriage occured after an accident, that could affect any woman.

In a span of 2 weeks this show undid the infertility tag of Ishita's & now she is denying surrogacy not because it doesn't alleviate her of the "baanj" tag but because she doesn't want to give false hope. Should she not be given more time to introspect on what this means to her as a women or do they not want to offer her that depth?

And if that wasn't the worst...they have shown the husband who wanted his wife to experience a 9 month pregnancy go BEHIND HER BACK to try for surrogacy. She didn't go for any treatments, but he made the decision for HER to use the eggs. This is a COUPLE's decision that has been descricated.

Now think of the women who spend $100000 of dollars on TREATMENTS (not tests) to get pregnant. Think of the women who suffer multiple miscarriages due to reproductive tract issues. Think of the women who commit suicide or suffer severe depression because of the title "baanj." The people involved with this show may not have seen this in real life but I have worked with many women in this situation. This situation is soul piercing for couples.

The recent handling of surrogacy & the medical profession yet again sheds a horrible light on the entire process.

YHM is not handing out hope to the women who watched this show because they were in Ishita's place. it's also not handing out handing out realism about the struggles an infertile woman faces when trying getting pregnant.

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Everything appears to be just for TRPs and in the process it looks like people involved have forgotten empathy towards fellow humans. I understand drama is needed for shows because I've watched tons of desi shows. But for a topic that was a tenant of the show (along with infidelity, second chances, and nature vs nurture)...it's sad to see it turned into a sick joke.

Originally posted by: -K.13-

sp bc BT was always this way & arent afraid to admit it. Anyone who learns a show is BT (some later than sooner) generally knows it will be amoral. SP just kept them in more check bc they were ruling the charts with safer less dramatic stuff

Now that they are losing badly, they are letting BT spread their normal filth to garner TRs

It's SP who claims to have nayi soch but in reality doesn't come close

Money >>>> morality/ethics/empathy