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Posted: 10 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-

Beautiful collages today Gan ๐Ÿ‘ As they say, pictures speak a thousand words. You've captured the anguish so beautifully ๐Ÿ‘

Coming to the review, today, I beg to differ a little. I'll come to the hows and whys, but need to first let out my take on the smaller issues of other couples.

Ishita-Romi: A poignant moment. Usually it is men who help the groom overcome nervousness, and they did try, but Ishita understood that for her mischievous BIL, it is not the physical aspect of this night which is daunting, but the emotional one. She knew he ran all his life from commitment and she encouraged him to overcome his fear and begin this new journey with his better half, who has seen enough bad days already. Ishita-Romi bonding was at a different level today. I wish you could capture the scene in another collage ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Romi-Sarika: The scene inside their bedroom touched my heart. It was a different feeling to see an irresponsible playboy commit to a lifetime of happiness for a single person, that too whom he himself had discarded in the past. Romi, as a character, has grown so much in the love department, that I felt respect for him for saying the things that he said to Sarika. Also loved the part where he asked her to stop him from doing any wrong, because he knows himself, he knows he is prone to committing blunders in his thoughtlessness and selfishness. In return, the girl who was scorned by him & rejected by his family, felt so overwhelmed that she had nothing but her support to give. Though I'm yet to forgive him for not apologizing to Ishita, Bala & Mihir, I liked the simple promises he made to his newly wedded wife.

Mihika-Abhishek: Small moments, but cute enough for them to let us think of another step in their relationship. The authority with which Mihika got upset with Abhishek, and the restlessness with which he has constantly pursuing her, to clear things out was adorable. They have their own bitter-sweet chemistry ๐Ÿ˜ณ

IshRa: What can I say about them! Their love was visible in each and every thing they did today. Whether the part where Raman wanted to come closer to his beautiful wife, or the part where she wanted to go away from him for the moment. Whether her falling apart in the corridor, or his waiting for her in the bedroom. Whether her roaming out in the night waiting for him to fall asleep, or his tears in finding out the truth. It screamed of a couple who is so in love with each other, that they simply cannot bear the thought of the other falling apart.

Which is precisely why I think Ishita ran away from him. Not to hide the truth from him, or to handle this situation on her own. But to prepare herself mentally, to be able to tell him that their dream is shattered, to be able to watch him slump down. She has been through the process once before, but back then, it was only her hopes that were crushed. This time, it was a dream they wove together, a hope they cherished together. She was more hurt for his pain than hers, which is why she apologized to him while he slept. She wants to share with him, to break down in his arms, but not before she steels herself to be able to see him break down.

Same goes for Raman. His anxiety, nervousness was palpable when he spoke to the nurse on phone. His excitement when the nurse said Ishita could get pregnant, his hesitation on the word 'par' (but), and finally his slumping down. His anguish was for her. He asked the nurse not to inform Ishita, because he cannot imagine how much this would pain her. Something that she had accepted long time ago, was again being thrown in her face, that too after her hopes had been increased, and for the life of him, he couldn't understand how would she be able to handle it because it surely seems like a cruel hand of fate. And so he wants to prepare himself, to tell her, to face her.

She is living in his anguish, and he, in her agony. That is the beauty of the love they share, the bond which runs so deep that they break apart just thinking about their better half breaking apart for a dream they chose to see together.

The credit, that I, as a viewer, could feel so much and connect with, goes to Divyanka and Karan. They make Ishita & Raman alive in every possible way, embodying these complex, layered characters to the ultimate level of truth ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘



@bold you know three posts I read today Anku's, Anu's and yours made me sigh and feel the scenes which the episode frankly failed to deliver...so I truly thank you guys for giving me that.

I'm an emotional viewer and my posts reflect solely my emotions...and it used to be when I used to post only collages which were my review and then I got carried away and started making full fledged posts...even still now I dont do what a daily review should do..I pick up on pieces I loved or hated and comment about that. And its during my watch I know which scenes I would like to capture...today I didnt feel moved by any scene...The precap yesterday had told me what was coming in Raman's ph call...So I knew what was coming in that scene...

I really dont know what was the reason of my disconnect...but frankly I could not connect to the build up leading to the scenes though I loved the expressions that DT and KP portrayed. So even after 2 watches, I'm still left wanting something..

But thank you guys for truly putting forward what the Cvs failed to deliver to me...๐Ÿค—
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1



Thank you for your take Niddo! I really want for you to do individual posts! Your insights' increase my viewing pleasure! ๐Ÿ‘


Thank you so much Umeirah ๐Ÿค— I'm usually short on time, to be able to manage an individual post ๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿ˜› Plus its always amazing to find so many views in Gan's thread ๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 10 years ago
#23
Niddoo - you took the same sentiments I felt about this episode & wrote them in the most beautiful of manners! I love each & every word of yours.

Gan - I saw the collages on IG first but man, they take my breath away. I'm teary-eyed from just seeing your captures so who knows what the episode will do to me.
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I know the hiding stuff has some mixed feelings (maybe more due to how the CVs chose to execute it?)...but I see myself reacting like Ishita & Raman. Apart of them has died with this news but what makes it worse is they feel they will be responsible for the other's pain as Niddoo so wonderfully put. I too would take a night or so to gather my wits to tell my partner because I would expect myself to be the stronger one. Ishita knows Raman is more emotional, but on the same hand, Raman knows Ishita bottles everything in too much. Thus both are probably trying to process before they have the be the strong one for the other.

Idk in writing it sounds beautiful & I hope it comes off on screen even half as poignant.

Haven't seen the episode yet but read the LU & I am so excited to watch this emotionally painful journey. Idk what the future of the show holds, but there is beauty right now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: -Gan-



@bold you know three posts I read today Anku's, Anu's and yours made me sigh and feel the scenes which the episode frankly failed to deliver...so I truly thank you guys for giving me that.

I'm an emotional viewer and my posts reflect solely my emotions...and it used to be when I used to post only collages which were my review and then I got carried away and started making full fledged posts...even still now I dont do what a daily review should do..I pick up on pieces I loved or hated and comment about that. And its during my watch I know which scenes I would like to capture...today I didnt feel moved by any scene...The precap yesterday had told me what was coming in Raman's ph call...So I knew what was coming in that scene...

I really dont know what was the reason of my disconnect...but frankly I could not connect to the build up leading to the scenes though I loved the expressions that DT and KP portrayed. So even after 2 watches, I'm still left wanting something..

But thank you guys for truly putting forward what the Cvs failed to deliver to me...๐Ÿค—


Hopefully they'll have an emotional confrontation to bring your connect back ๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿค—

I could connect with both Raman and Ishita, but I loved KP more than DT today. His change of expressions from sleepy to knowing to nervous to excited to hesitant to stumped, in just a few seconds was commendable ๐Ÿ‘

Glad to see you discussing today ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 10 years ago
#25
I wana go back to the phase till big C. I mean things weren't this sad.
Just hoping to watch ishita's pregnancy minus shagun.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#26
Playing the devil's advocate here, I get why Ishita didn't share the news with Raman and why Raman won't do it in the next episode. The problem started with Raman being over enthusiastic about Ishita's pregnancy and their unborn child and then Ruhi and the rest of the family got involved; these hiding games and suffering alone is just the consequence of that. I get Raman's excitement and he has the right to be at the prospect of this miracle but now after Ishita's got the bad news, his every smile, every imagination for the unborn child is another smile, another dream Ishita can't fulfill. It's bound to make her fill guilty and question whether Raman is/ will be at peace with this reality. It's hard for her to burst the happy bubble he's in because he's wanted this baby more than she did. Her peace with her infertility is gone now since her husband's hope got attached. In the same way Raman will be broken and afraid to share this news because, although he's wanted it more- he's wanted it for her, not him. Now he's supposed to take away the dream he's weaved in her little by little. It's gonna be extremely tough.

The ideal way to handle the situation would of course be by sharing their sorrows but this situation is such an emotional one- I'm sure none of them can think properly right now. They're just trying to minimize/ postpone the damage as long as they can. They're trying to protect each other and I believe that's the best they've got right now.
Edited by Wings-of-Fire - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: -Nidoo-


Hopefully they'll have an emotional confrontation to bring your connect back ๐Ÿ˜ณ ๐Ÿค—

I could connect with both Raman and Ishita, but I loved KP more than DT today. His change of expressions from sleepy to knowing to nervous to excited to hesitant to stumped, in just a few seconds was commendable ๐Ÿ‘

Glad to see you discussing today ๐Ÿ˜ƒ



KP is one of those natural actors who can switch moods in nano seconds...

Yes today is Friday and I'm working from home...and a bit of less pressure on deliverables...hence I can chit chat more...I love it when majority of the thread goes against my take as it opens up wonderful scopes of discussions ...and I get to read some awesome takes like yours,๐Ÿ˜Š
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Posted: 10 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Playing the devil's advocate here, I get why Ishita didn't share the news with Raman and why Raman won't do it in the next episode. The problem started with Raman being over enthusiastic about Ishita's pregnancy and their unborn child and then Ruhi and the rest of the family got involved; these hiding games and suffering alone is just the consequence of that. I get Raman's excitement and he has the right to be at the prospect of this miracle but now after Ishita's got the bad news, his every smile, every imagination for the unborn child is another smile, another dream Ishita can't fulfill. It's bound to make her fill guilty and question whether Raman is/ will be at peace with this reality. It's hard for her to burst the happy bubble he's in because he's wanted this baby more than she did. Her peace with her infertility is gone now since her husband's hope got attached. In the same way Raman will be broken and afraid to share this news because, although he's wanted it more- he's wanted it for her, not him. Now he's supposed to take away the dream he's weaved in her little by little. It's gonna be extremely tough.


The ideal way to handle the situation would of course be by sharing their sorrows but this situation is such an emotional one- I'm sure none of them can think properly right now. They're just trying to minimize/ postpone the damage as long as they can. They're trying to protect each other and I believe that's the best they've got right now.



I'm more of a minority Rosh ๐Ÿ˜†

But jokes apart...love..love what you've written..I got why they are doing it but the way they are doing it where my disconnect lies...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: -K.13-

Niddoo - you took the same sentiments I felt about this episode & wrote them in the most beautiful of manners! I love each & every word of yours.

Gan - I saw the collages on IG first but man, they take my breath away. I'm teary-eyed from just seeing your captures so who knows what the episode will do to me.
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I know the hiding stuff has some mixed feelings (maybe more due to how the CVs chose to execute it?)...but I see myself reacting like Ishita & Raman. Apart of them has died with this news but what makes it worse is they feel they will be responsible for the other's pain as Niddoo so wonderfully put. I too would take a night or so to gather my wits to tell my partner because I would expect myself to be the stronger one. Ishita knows Raman is more emotional, but on the same hand, Raman knows Ishita bottles everything in too much. Thus both are probably trying to process before they have the be the strong one for the other.

Idk in writing it sounds beautiful & I hope it comes off on screen even half as poignant.

Haven't seen the episode yet but read the LU & I am so excited to watch this emotionally painful journey. Idk what the future of the show holds, but there is beauty right now.



Thank you! KP and DT are two most expressive actors they make any scene very beautiful just by their facial expressions ..hence my job is the easiest here.

you wrote it as beautifully as the others ...and as you can see almost everyone related to the poignancy so dont pay attention to my take. ๐Ÿ˜Š
How was your exam/test? Wasn't it today?

Edited by -Gan- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Gan-



I'm more of a minority Rosh ๐Ÿ˜†

But jokes apart...love..love what you've written..I got why they are doing it but the way they are doing it where my disconnect lies...



๐Ÿ˜† Well, if it makes you feel any better, I do think that the writing lacked somewhere and could be better. This episode didn't have the impact last night's episode did. I can't really suggest what the writing teams could do instead (not my job, won't think much tonight!) but it did fall short.

P.S. On second thought I do know what they could've done better. They could've not make Raman horny after an exhausting wedding celebration which made it look like that Ishita was evading intimacy, which she wasn't. She was just avoiding her very happy husband.

Edited by Wings-of-Fire - 10 years ago

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